Mr.E

I like to wear a huge gold medallion on a heavy chain.  When I wear it with my sea-green polyester leisure suit with the top 3 or 4 buttons undone, it looks particularly hot nestled in my dense chest hair.  

I understand and appreciate your feelings, I've been there.  When I garnered the inspiration to begin posting, I experienced the gambit of troll negativity, from the pedantic condescendence to the unfounded, indecorous personal attacks, which initially dampened my spirits. 
After a time, it became apparent to me that this site, like most social media sites, is an extension of society in general where there is a mix of the good/bad/indifferent.
For me, it has been a positive journey.  I've found the "ignore button" within myself, which I believe you can do as well and just dismiss the troll attacks with a chuckle and perhaps some sympathy for troubled individuals. 
The trolls at this site are far outweighed by the nuggets of genuine information, encouragement, empathy, and humor.
"Keep on keeping on!"
 

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

Glad you’re back.  Thanks for your hard work in keeping this valuable forum alive!

Yes, some clients are very unsubtle about it. Their legs are spread so their feet hang either side of the table, their back arched to present their hole. This can happen in the first 5 minutes 😂. I had one client who, when I pulled the towel off him (I start with a towel on them and slowly pull it off after about 10 minutes) I noticed he had a butt plug in him. He’d not mentioned it when we discussed his massage before he got on the table. Not so subtle.
Undressing ritual at the start is a good way to begin a longer session. I offer it in a 2 hour session. Usually the client will be hard once undressed and it’s possible to relieve the hard on (in various ways) so that he has a happy start, and he can then lay down with a soft cock, relax into the massage and build up again to a happy ending. Clients love that.