Jazziz81

You're way nicer than I would have been. I would have flat out asked him what his fucking problem was. Don't tip toe around these self entitled trophy queens. You deserve to be there as much as they do. It's a place to relax first and foremost, not a bath house.

You're way nicer than I would have been. I would have flat out asked him what his fucking problem was. Don't tip toe around these self entitled trophy queens. You deserve to be there as much as they do. It's a place to relax first and foremost, not a bath house.

Dude, I'm just sharing my experience.
 
It takes minimal observation skills to see who is walked out on: Asians, older guys, heavyset guys. A few months ago I pointed it out to a very attractive white/latino guy. We actually put a wager on how many times I would clear a room. Suffice to say I won and his eyes were opened.
 
For the record, I absolutely, unequivocally know many of these guys are racist. That's because I had a super hot white friend hit them up on Grindr and ask them. You'd be surprised how honest (and racist) some white guys are when they think they're talking to another white guy.
 
Of course, I'm not everyone's type. And I know some people are just rude. But there are a ton of racists out there. For the record, I didn't start this thread nor bring up race first. And another poster started the Wilshire spa thread and said the same thing.
 
So no, it's not just in my head. And yes, it is a recurring theme.
 
Maybe you'll get some perspective if you watch the first Kindr Grindr episode where minorities talk about how they face micro and macro aggressions in every day situations. Yes, even going to a spa meant for minorities.

Ditto for white/black/latin men over 40, overweight, or otherwise non-conforming to some random set of standards. That place is gross.

You sound surprised... Why? Does it sound too frequent or not frequent enough from your point of view?
 
I get a massage at least once a month. I have a masseur that I schedule (my ‘regular’) for this. So 12 times a year seem reasonable.