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I'm seriously sorry that you had that experience. In my youth, I got involved with a very attractive young man who was having trouble keeping a good job. On my birthday, after waiting for him to appear for four hours later than we had agreed on, a bartender told me that Joe had another lover as well as me. The other guy, after finding out about me, offered to give me the ring, which I had bought for Joe. Joe supposedly left for a different city. I hope that I learned my lesson from that experience.

I too had an escort get a call from his mother. The phone woke both of us. I was supposedly a fraternity brother whom he got drunk with the night before. I prayed that she did not have his college yearbook to check for a picture.

I'm sorry that you encountered such rude individuals. My partner of forty years is still a very handsome man. I was never handsome. When we go to bars (rarely), he still gets hit on. People ask if we ever play separately. That question is always directed to him, not to me. He always replies that we play only with each other, and we often hear,"That's too bad."Even when we're holding hands, 20 somethings hit on him. I've learned to enjoy seeing the disappointment on their faces.

I too am uncut. During the late 80's (I turned 40 in 1980). A highly respected urologist agreed that uncut men face a few risks that cut men do not but still recommended against circumcision. I took his advice, and at 79, I have not experienced any problems.

Thanks for posting this. I usually keep up on occurrences in France but had completely missed the solving of this mystery.

"One Million Moms" has been claiming "one million" for more than a decade in spite of the fact they are not even a half million.They should concern themselves with truth, not"male genitalia."

Twice physically--once outside a Club Baths and once coming out of a gay bar.

Thanks for reminding me of Jason Ridge; He was Jake when I hired him twice in Chicago. I don't remember the name of the agency he worked for. I liked him very much and probably jerked off to his image dozens of times afterwards.

I like many nuts but love hazelnuts, especially when used in cheesecake crust and the liquer made from them used in the cheesecake. I also love chinkapins; most people have never heard of them.

Ah, Jonathan, I did a sizable number of overnights with him and would probably have paid double his rate for them after the first one. He told me his real name, and I would love to take him to dinner when I'm in his area, but I hope that he is settled happily into a relationship with someone who adores him. Danny from Premier also provided a number of fireworks-filled episodes for me. I have the same hope for him that I do for Jonathan. Finally, Eric Hanson and I left a Florida bar together. He was so handsome that I was intimidated, but he could not have been kinder, and all activities were mutual ad hot.

My high school did not have a pool. Those of us on the swim team had to practice at the Y before school. Although the walk to school was short, January and February often caused discomfort on damp bodies. Nude was also the rule for swim class in college. The grad student lifeguard was an especially hunky guy. This Roman Catholic boy spent much time with "impure thoughts."

Four times--twice for fraternity brothers and twice for good friends--all four highly enjoyable experiences. One of the grooms and I, however, closed an Irish pub the night before the wedding and had swallowed many aspirin caplets the day of the wedding.

Since I'm tone deaf, I don't sing--not even alone in the shower. I'm envious of those who sing well.

Back in the 60's I spent two years there as a grad student; in spite of the anti-French sentiments among a number of Americans, I love that country and its people. Virtually every area is a photographer's dream, and I don't think there is even a small village without a very good cafe. Enjoy your trips, and I strongly suggest sampling some of the Gallic boys as well as ghe food.

As others have said, I've found sex on a bach uncomfortable, but virtually all of these hunks would cause me to consider it again.

Joel Curry, Tom DeLuca

Has anyone hired him? I like his looks.