MDinNY

Those cocks are my Everest...

Whoa... I really want to meet Colin. Rob seems great also. This may be a dumb question - aren’t they a little too big for a first timer?

My first thought was the massage/playdate ran more than 90 minutes, so an additional fee might be warranted unless the session ran something like 100 or 105 minutes, in which case that would be a completely unreasonable request. However, he asked you to fuck him (which you did) despite you stating that you wanted to do something different. Frankly, he behaved like a hookup. Sounds like the additional time should be on his dime.

 

Regarding how to get what you want next time, I'd suggest you first find a couple of guys whom you find physically attractive and whose ads you find appealing. Then, ask for feedback here. Make your selection based on the feedback you receive.

 

Someone mentioned @Rod Hagen in LA. I'd also recommend him. Although I am by no means new to hiring I had a great time with him. He happens to be both a trained massage therapist and an escort. He also listens to what his clients ask for. Had I not moved away from Souther California we would be getting together on a regular basis.

It did go longer. Close to three hours. I guess I understood why he would ask but seemed crazy as he was the one that initiated the last part. Thanks for your suggestion. I’ve heard about Rod Hagen. Just hesitant to schedule with someone that I haven’t seen their face...

It was an experience so I’ll take it as that. Not something I want to repeat with him though. He knew I wanted to get fucked. But says he really wanted me to fuck him. I should’ve charged him lol. Not what I was hoping for although it was fun.

Sorta. I’ve done it years ago. But we both were new at it and got it in but we stopped. He didn’t like it. I actually liked it. A lot. Wouldn’t mind doing that again:).

I’ve had 2 experiences with masseurs. First one was great. Didn’t end up doing much as he could only play if his partner could join. Had to pass. Felt a little overwhelming. Met a masseur this morning. Really sexy, older, muscles... check check check. Everything I was looking for. Massage was very good. We started playing at the end. He knew I hadn’t been fucked and was licking and fingering my ass saying he wanted to fuck me. We got on his bed and we started to 69. Not sure I sucked good because he didn’t stay hard. He asked me to fuck him before he fucks me. I obliged. He ended up getting off. I asked him if he could fuck me? He tried to get hard but couldn’t. Asked if he could use toys. I wasn’t feeling it so I declined and left. As I left he asked I pay more since we went over 90 minutes. Lol. I protested and then he said what we agreed upon plus tip was ok. Hope next time is better.

Addendum: he’s texted me asking to fuck him again.

https://rentmasseur.com/GrantCMT

Damn. That new pic.

I completely understand... it’s also never a reason to be rude or disrespectful..... and although you feel that you wasted some of your time, at least, you didn’t waste your money...

 

Imagine if he did schedule an appointment with you, the energy would have been so bad, and his touch would have been so disengaged, that you would have being angrier after wasting a few bucks to really know of his “preferences”.

I personally wish all MTs would State their preferences, so I can scroll through what’s for me and be at ease, knowing we will both enjoy the session ☺️

I’m not worried about me fitting his preference. I think I would’ve been the type of guy he’d want on his table... but that’s not the point. Common courtesy...

I’m sorry but many of the commenters are being flat out hipocrites.

 

The truth is that EVERYONE has prejudices and that includes you all... the same archetypes that you claim he discriminates against (old, fat, hairy, Asian, etc.), are the same ones you are discriminating against.... because none of you are seeking out older, fatter, or Asian masseurs. All men are superficial and prejudicial, and it’s not fair, but sometimes you will be on the receiving end of such prejudices and sometimes you’ll be the one discriminating.

 

My very first masseur didn’t particularly like massaging black men (and he was black LOL), and I wished he would have stated that initially so I wouldn’t have wasted my money on such a bad massage... so at least give this guy credit for being honest.

 

If he’s a jerk, then everyone’s a jerk, because you all picked a classically good looking in-shape, white guy... and is shaming him for preferring what’s in his own likeness... another classically good looking, in-shape white guy....

 

Now go and find a MT, that’s a good fit for you and have fun.... because no amount of money in the world can force someone to be “into” you...

My only reasoning for posting is that he wasted my time and was rude. If he is not interested, he should tell me that instead of engaging with me then going silent. I would appreciate communication and as a paying customer that’s not a lot to expect.

"....they both begged me to let them fuck me." You must be one good-looking guy!!! (Really, I mean it.) As others have said here, if you're a 9 on a scale of 10, you'll have experiences like this. We should all be so lucky!

I also had told the masseur my lack of experience before we met. I think they wanted to be my first. That was mentioned by them both. I did let them jack off on me. But that’s the farthest it went. Thanks

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/376/

He will be in town. I got a therapeutic massage years ago. Was fun. Sensed it could’ve headed to more but I wasn’t interested back then. He had a partner he would massage with. And I believe he did couples... maybe worth reaching out to him.

I’m going to LA and tried to schedule. He didn’t respond to my texts initially. Then said he was busy. I gave him multiple dates and times. He ignored me thereafter. Quickly lost interest in pursuing this. Don’t get the vibe he enjoys doing this.

I had a massage this weekend. His partner was there but in another room. At the end of it, he asked if I was up for getting fucked. His partner came in around that time. I wanted to but it was a little much to take on 2 (I still haven’t done much with guys). I ended up passing but they both begged me to let them fuck me. Kissed my entire body. Ate my ass. Fingered a little. It was a 90 min session for less than 200 with tip. I’m keeping then in mind if I ever want to try it with 2 guys.

Does he top:)

I plan on reaching out to bill and troy

Thanks fellas. So Eric and Robert are out. Bill still is a possibility! Any one meet him? Adam sounds like a guy I should stay away from... he’s so hot though...

Yum

I’m wanting to meet him also

I’m wanting to meet him also

You won't break or anything if it turns out it's not for you. An escort is the most expedient way to experience male on male intimacy. Lots of them advertise that they are good with newbies. At any time, if you don't like what's happening, you can stop. If you go through with it and you realize it's not for you, you never have to do it again.

Thanks for your input. I sincerely appreciate it

Since you have the money to do this, it sure sounds like a fun hobby to take up. Nice!

It’s not a hobby. It’s me having a first time experience. I don’t want it to be painful or awkward or a bad experience. So just trying to have a little bit of a say on how it goes...

Hey guys. I posted on a different thread asking for help. I won’t bore with all the details but looking for my first male experience. I travel for work so prefer to do it one of the cities I frequent. My next two trips are to Dallas then Los Angeles. Can I have feedback on my Dallas list? Mutual touch, sensuality would be nice. I don’t need it all. Just something to get my feet in the water...

Bill

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30935/

Robert

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/15806/

Eric

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/223/

Troy

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5923/

Adam

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8275/

I live in NYC! @TDAkers, any of the guys you saw good for a first time? I’m a little nervous that you put Rafael was in destroyer mode. Not sure I’m anywhere near close to handling the guys you meet for a first time.

I wanted to share where I’m at... I got a lot of private messages. Thanks for all the advice. I think I’m starting with a massage first - ideally sensual. I think it will help ease into more.

These are the guys I’m looking at in Dallas...

Bill

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/30935/

Robert

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/15806/

Eric

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/223/

Troy

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5923/

Adam

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/8275/

I’m physically attracted to all these guys. I’ll do my own research but if anyone has suggestions would be appreciative of any advice.

19 years old... frat party. My roommate was drunk and fucked his girl. He told her to come fuck me. I was very nervous and came within 1 minute. Still waiting to have sex with a man. Mutual JO I imagine doesn’t count...