Balthazar

I've enjoyed both strictly therapeutic and sensual/erotic massages. I typically just go with the flow and respond to the masseur's cues. I avoid asking about how erotic a massage will be, particularly if it's not in the ad (e.g., MF), because I feel awkward and creepy if the masseur denies engaging in such practices. I also don't want him to feel obligated to do things he doesn't want to do. I can do without a nude guy who doesn't want to be touched giving me a said HJ. I'd rather him just keep his clothes on and provide a solid therapeutic massage. I've also found that sometimes ads, discussions, and the actual massage don't always align. If the masseur indicates that he practices sensual/erotic massage (e g., rentmasseur), in my opinion, it's fair game to respectfully ask for further details, however. All that said, the majority of masseurs I've hired, regardless of ad site, have performed some form of sensual/erotic massage.

I don't know if Jack is currently active. He used to have an ad on CL. I did unsuccessfully try to contact him a couple of times after I last saw him. He lived in Lee's Summit, MO.

I think it might be Tex Davidson.

I think it might be Tex Davidson.

If you're interested in a masseur who lists "Ask" under rates, I would recommend contacting them. They might go that route for a variety of reasons (e.g., tiered pricing based on the type of the experience), but you won't know unless you ask. I get frustrated when I have to contact masseurs for basic info like rates, but I'm willing to do so if I find the rest of the ad appealing.

I had a session scheduled with Aaron_Lazzaro this weekend, but he canceled the day of. As I'm not planning on going to Paris anytime soon, I drove 2.5 hours to Vegas and got a hotel just to see him. Nevertheless, things happen, and I hope to see him in the future. It can be tough to find guys with such a muscular physique who go beyond muscle worship.

I saw Gianni about 2 years ago. He was friendly and looked like his pics. His massage skills were weak, but you might still enjoy yourself, depending on what you're looking for.

I saw him a couple of times, most recently about a year ago. He completed the incall on a table and outcall on a bed. The massage was fine. I wasn't mad at it but also not particularly excited about it. He was a nice guy though.

I'm glad that you "chickened out." You would have risked the Uber driver feeling unsafe and potentially reporting you for sexual harassment. I've never hired an Uber/Lyft driver for sex, but I have been hit on by one. It was awkward because I wasn't interested, and I wasn't looking forward to being stuck in a car with someone after turning down their advances.

I don't know what Xerxes looks like now, but he (how he looked 10 or so years ago) is on my list.

Has anyone received a massage by Matt? Thanks. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38330/

I recently saw Tony and had a positive experience.

I saw Nico in the past 6 months or so. He was friendly and gave a reasonable massage. It sounds like my experience was consistent with 7829V's report from a previous thread he posted. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-californian2013-in-san-diego.123006/

I imagine that a masseur might target gay men for a variety of reasons. On a practical note, for example, men (particularly gay men) might be more likely to go to a male stranger's residence for a massage or invite him into their home than a woman. It might just be a business decision. I think that many massages are inherently sensual on some level, as you're experiencing pleasure from someone touching your body. Although it has been my experience that many (maybe most) m4m masseurs offer some level of extras (nude, MT, HE), I don't think that these extras are necessarily implied. He just needs to be honest about his services. It is frustrating when a provider clearly uses sex to sell a strictly therapeutic massage. Nevertheless, I still think a client can have an emotional connection with a therapeutic masseur. Hugo, for example, was really friendly and gave fitness advice. By showing interest in the client beyond the massage, he's potentially fostering a connection.

No, although I wasn't draped, there was no MT or other extras.

I got a very deep and strictly therapeutic massage from Hugo (#4).

Triggerpoint gave a great massage, and I appreciated his muscles and left happy. He can just seem a little distracted/disengaged at times. This, however, wasn't a huge issue for me. I would definitely repeat and recommend.

I also had a great massage by hollywoodmuscle. I appreciated the stretching. Although I wasn't draped, the massage was pretty professional. I don't know if he does muscle worship. I doubt that he's 39 (age from ad) - perhaps late 40s or so. Last time I saw Triggerpoint, he seemed a bit distant, but you might also want to consider him. https://rentmasseur.com/Triggerpoint

I saw him in the past 6 months while visiting Dallas. He was friendly and gave a fun massage. Other than his ending the session 15 minutes or so early, I had a positive experience.

I saw him in the past 6 months while visiting Dallas. He was friendly and gave a fun massage. Other than his ending the session 15 minutes or so early, I had a positive experience.

I saw Joe in Vegas. He was friendly and gave a great therapeutic massage.

I've seen Jeremiah. He gave an excellent therapeutic massage on a bed.

I saw him a few months or so ago. Although the massage wasn't particularly technically proficient, I still had a good time.

He was a nice guy, and he gave an enjoyable massage. I had a good time with him.

I enjoyed Jason's massage. It was strictly therapeutic, however. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32657/