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Balthazar

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  1. I wonder why he opts to serve gay clients when in my view we need to connect with our masseurs at some level (emotionally/sexually) ? even though it’s therapeutic

    I imagine that a masseur might target gay men for a variety of reasons. On a practical note, for example, men (particularly gay men) might be more likely to go to a male stranger's residence for a massage or invite him into their home than a woman. It might just be a business decision.

     

    I think that many massages are inherently sensual on some level, as you're experiencing pleasure from someone touching your body. Although it has been my experience that many (maybe most) m4m masseurs offer some level of extras (nude, MT, HE), I don't think that these extras are necessarily implied. He just needs to be honest about his services. It is frustrating when a provider clearly uses sex to sell a strictly therapeutic massage. Nevertheless, I still think a client can have an emotional connection with a therapeutic masseur. Hugo, for example, was really friendly and gave fitness advice. By showing interest in the client beyond the massage, he's potentially fostering a connection.

  2. what do you mean distant? How was the massage though? did he allow for touching/muscle play? How was the ending.

     

    Pics look great

     

    Triggerpoint gave a great massage, and I appreciated his muscles and left happy. He can just seem a little distracted/disengaged at times. This, however, wasn't a huge issue for me. I would definitely repeat and recommend.

  3. I've also had experiences during which masseurs have spontaneously gone more of an escort route. I wonder what escorts think about these providers. Masseurs tend to charge significantly less than escorts, so some guys might choose to go with a massage that will potentially escalate. Does this affect escorts' business?

  4. The default settings allow members to see when you open their profile. You can change this setting via "Privacy." Also, If you open private pics and haven't changed "My Visibility" to off, the masseurs will be contacted. I made sure that I made these changes after a masseur noticed that I looked at his pics a few times and asked if I was going to hire him or just look at his pics.

  5. I've seen Nathan. The massage was reasonable, and he was a nice guy. He's a solid choice if you're in the High Desert and don't feel like going down the Cajon Pass. Just make sure you specify the session length. I assumed, by default, it would be 60 minutes, but it lasted for (and he charged me for) 90.

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