AJ Doyle

I know this is a controversial topic, but how do you go about asking the rather unfortunate question 'are you okay with my race?'

 

Is it safe to assume that if an escort has not established any racial boundaries in their advertisement then it is unlikely that they will have a problem with a client's race?

 

I am asking because I have been in a very uncomfortable situation with regards to my race with an escort and I'd really love to avoid that unfortunate encounter.

I agree with others on disclosing that info upfront. Not to make the escort comfortable, but to avoid an awkward situation for yourself. Or to avoid wasting your valuable time. And no you can't assume just cause their ad doesn't say they have racial hangups that they don't have them. Now if they say they are open to all types then yeah it's a safer bet. But most guys that have racial hangups probably are NOT going to put it in their ad. In my case I once had a client not tell me his race. I got there and he had this nervous look on his face that could have been avoided by just telling me beforehand. The whole time he waited for me to arrive he had to wonder... Of course I was okay with his race and we had a great time together. But not everyone is open, so save yourself the trouble.

I am curious; as service providers, do you find that public holidays and associated long weekends, have a significant impact on your client volume or inquiry volume?

 

My (bias) assumption is that volume/inquiries will be down due to clients spending time with family or traveling. Providers will likely also want to spend time with their loved ones.

 

The counter point is that I know providers here in my city that are foreigners, they don’t have family obligations here. One of them reaches out to me and asked if we could meet this weekend, he has a light schedule. Not the first time this has happened either.

 

What is your experience? Do you prefer not to schedule for public holidays or resulting long weekends?

 

Thanks!

I've only been at it for a year. But so far it's been a mixed bag. With Memorial Day coming up I am curious too. I'm finding busier times actually come for us due to what conventions are going on in town more than a holiday though. Probably onto something about clients being busy with friends or families during Holidays.