AJ Doyle

Yes all of CA is on a Stay at Home To Shelter " order, so some of us are abiding by that and freezing out accounts. I am using the time to focus on fitness and working out everyday at home till this passes. You can still email your favorite workers though thru their ads even if their account is frozen. You just can't Instant Message them thru the IM option. I know some are still working, but some of us including myself decided it was safer for all involved to listen to the "stay at home order" that our state issued.

My very first client ever was from Grindr. I had been propositioned before, but always said No! But that particular night I guess I was curious and asked how much and the guy offered me $200 Hour for my time. I had recently moved back home to Oklahoma due to a house fire here in CA and was like Sure why not!? I saw him over the next several months on the regular until I moved back to California. I've been advertising on RM ever since then. So I think it is fine for a client to ask. I mean I prob would have never considered escorting if it wasn't for that guy asking. And I realy LOVE it! So he did me a BIG Favor by introducing me to this. He never believed me when I told him that he was my First though.... LOL He laughed and Said "Bull Shit!?" LOL Like others have said though you just have to be careful. In my case it was an amazing First Time experience.

This thread was brought up to me by a client today as he was surprised when I went down on him without a condom for oral. Like others he read this thread a year ago and assumed I always use condoms for oral and that I was sneaky about it. Both are NOT true. I deleted my comments from this thread as I realized later I wrote them poorly and even when I tried to clarify I meant sometimes I use condoms and that I always tell a client ahead of time if I feel I will need to use condoms for oral...people still seemed confused so I deleted it all hoping to just let it go. But others re posted comments without my explanation to make me look bad. So to re clarify.. I only use condoms for oral if I feel the client is a higher risk due to being into bb sex or never getting tested. In those cases I always let them know before booking I would have to use a condom for oral. I ask questions of clients to gauge how safety minded they are. The majority of clients I make appointments with this isnt an issue as they always fuck safe. So when I went down on my client today and he brought up this post I looked it up and saw some sneaky people re posted my comments but only the ones they wanted as they wanted to attack me and make a false point. They didnt re post quotes where I explained myself. So again to clarify I only use condoms for oral if I feel the client is a higher risk for STIs( like guys that fuck bb). And I always tell them before seeing them if I feel this policy will apply to them. Thankfully the client that I saw today took a chance despite this thread and got to enjoy my soft lips down there! ?

I nibble on salt-free pretzels and wash it down with a lovely Gin n Diet Cherry Coke while I watch the show...

I think you missed the point. Escorts don't "Accept checks." It's a scam this guy was doing. Saying he was gonna pay cash, but then afterward saying he only has a check. Session is over, so there isn't anything you can do but take the check or leave with nothing. It's no different than a guy shoplifting or dining and dashing in my opinion. Some people do the dine and dash with bad checks too, so it's not a NEW scam. I have actually found the majority of clients do NOT put the fee in full sight as you suggested. It seems kind of tacky to demand it be in sight, but I guess it would stop a scam like this. But I think it's a one in a million chance of getting scammed like this, so not worth demanding the cash be out in sight for every client. Seems like if we get to the point of demanding something like that we are being a bit paranoid and need to find a new line of work.... I agree on the flakes comment though. They all display certain characteristics that we quickly learn. Even the bad check guy gave hints if I had just followed my gut instinct... To me it was a lesson and not a tragedy. Like u stated it's a cost of doing business. We learn and move on.

I was more joking about the tying up aspect. Like it's a funny idea vs violence in theory...well if one has a dark sense of humor.. It's still highly illegal and I imagine some violence would be required to get him tied up though. So it's only funny to think about doing or joking about it (which was what I was doing ...joking) But it is not funny to actually do it. For me I just took the check knowing it was prob not gonna be a good check and went on my way. I believe in Karma and knew that what he was doing would eventually impact him as the Universe has a way of providing revenge on Her own without our Help!

I wasn't implying the police should be called.

I think I had this guy back in January in Los Angeles!! He kept saying "he loved me" an showed his love the next day with a bad check for $1k I remember texting him after it bounced and telling him he was gonna do that to the wrong person someday. Sounds like I was right. Even though the guy is a prick it's still sad to hear about him getting beat up like that. Violence is not cool. Even for pricks. I think a better option when the escort realized who he was...would have been to tie the guy to the bed...and offer to untie him only when he produced his payment. Or maybe just make him apologize. Violence is not cool. But embarrassing a prick would be a good alternative. I don't know if I'd have the balls to even do that though....

could not have said it better myself! Agree!

OMFG!!! The client that did the same thing to me was visiting Los Angeles from San Francisco!!!!! Holy Batman!! He wrote the check from some brokerage acct that had been closed. And I think he was using a burner phone. It started out as a 2 hour session and half way he asked for an overnight. I told him my fee and he agreed to it. Then next day wrote me a check. I should have just told him to keep it and asked for him to just pay my damn parking and gas!! I wonder if the guy that did this to me is the same guy though? He claimed he was checking out apartments in LA cause he had some bad things happen to him in San Francisco.... He was annoying as Hell which made the bad check even worse. Kept telling me he "loved me!" Because of him though I always add "Paypal or cash only" whenever I send potential clients my rates. For me it didnt escalate. I was pretty sure the check was going to bounce, but I just wanted to get away from him and go home. The phone he was using btw was an Iphone SE...the cheapest Iphone you can get!!

Whaaat!!!? Did the client in question keep saying "I love you baby" to the escort!? Cause that's what mine kept saying all night...before he wrote me the bad check. I don't think it's cool though to beat up someone for not paying you or writing a bad check. However when this client did this to me I was kinda thinking...Dude ...he is gonna do that to the WRONG escort some day!!!? I hope it wasn't my guy that that happened to... It was a shitty thing to do (writing a bad check), but I would hate to see anyone get beat up like that! :-(

I do sometimes wonder if others are wondering that about me.... LOL I don't think anyone would guess that about me, but I wonder.

I once had a guy wait till next morning after an over-night to tell me he had no cash. No paypal. Only a check. Took the check as what other option do I have at this point? Of course the check was written from a closed acct. I wish there was a bad date list to put him! :-( I decided to chalk it up as cost of doing business though. Like when someone steals from a clothing store and the store has to eat the cost.... The "forgot the money in the car" though that's even more messed up. Other than the check writing fool though I've been pretty lucky I guess.

I went to a spa once in West Hollywood that did touch my buttocks. It was a woman masseuse though, so maybe that's different? Also I had a pulled sciatic nerve that she apparently was able to tell, so she did it for therapeutic reasons... I remember thinking though why is this lady touching my rear...she must know I'm Gay! LOL I won't say where it was though in case she wasn't suppose to do that.

Agree with all that. Except the Rodeway Inn Last time I stayed at one it was super Scary! A client paid for the room for me after our session. Was soooo Loud! Cars coming and going in the parking lot. I decided not to book any other clients and just locked the doors...and went to sleep. If u stay at a motel like this choose a room on the inside of the courtyard as on the outside it is too damn LOUD!

He didn't really specify how much interest was required to not cancel plans. I can say though I agree with what you are saying. One or Two clients to me is enough interest...cause you will likely drum up at least one other client in addition to that once you arrive. So for me as long as I have enough "for sure clients" to pay for my travel expenses I go thru with it. I don't believe in canceling on clients. So if I book a client I follow thru. Now if my one client I have is not giving me the feeling he is "for sure" then I might consider not following thru travel plans if that is all I am getting as far as interest.

I always post "Close to traveling" for areas under 50 miles from me. But if I'm gonna travel further and get a hotel I post dates I am traveling. I also announce in my ad that I am taking pre-bookings. I explain I don't want to be on my phone the whole time I'm there, so please pre-book. If the person messages and books with you after a few questions you can be pretty sure they are for real. If they ask to book you, but can't give a date and time...don't take that as a for sure booking. I write them down on a post it note as someone that might come thru. Also if a client seems like they are just trying to have free phone or text sex with you...they probably aren't serious about booking Another post it note. Most clients that book ask a few questions...settle on a date and time...and then disappear until the day of. You send out a confirmation...they respond. You meet. Fun ensues. If they want an all day or Overnight take a Paypal Deposit to hold the date. Those are my favorite cause I'm like okay this is For REal Happening!!

I don't see anything wrong with asking for a photo, but asking for a full name is a bit ridiculous! I only require a photo if I am hosting. As the client is coming into my personal space and I want to know who to expect at the front door. If I am doing an Outcall I might ask for a photo, but don't require it and normally don't even bother asking for one.

I agree with azdr0710"Old Timer" If you flat out ask me if I'm gonna cum I am gonna feel uncomfortable and feel like you are part of some sting operation. I would probably just turn down your booking to avoid the risk. A better way to do this...like others have suggested...is to tell the provider what you hope will happen. Don't flat out ask for an answer. Just share that you think it would be Hot if your provider was able to cum during your session. Then it leaves it open for the provider to respond..."yeah that would be fucking Hot!" So you get your answer without asking for it...and without making the provider nervous or uncomfortable.

Yeah they can't touch your glutes if they are licensed. :-(

Technically if they are license...they would get into trouble for giving extras. So if you ask for their license number...you are kinda asking for "no extras"! lol I'm not certified but if I was and someone asked for my license number I would give them the most legit platonic massage EVER! As to avoid getting in trouble. So if you want a professional AND extras... Just keep in mind they take a risk by giving extras if they are indeed licensed. One phone call and a client could get his license yanked!

OMG I LOVE this idea!!! It's kinda Hot!

They could just think you are meeting your uncle....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4dwaNnfxIs0

Some of us like the Big Dick! ;-) Bring it! ;-)

I never ask for an uber. But I have had a couple of times where a client asked for me...I arrive and get Ghosted! And I started noticing a location pattern- LAX hotels. It was their intention from the start. Some just like to play games with us I guess. I'm sure they had a good giggle out of it. I think the point of them asking for an Uber though is to screen out those kind of people and not cause they can't afford the commute. I don't ask for an Uber cause I prefer to drive in my own car. However....I won't usually meet a client that says they are staying at a hotel by LAX cause of my experience. That's my screening process. If I notice a pattern in a certain area I just nix it out of places I will accept bookings. Probably not fair, but my little car can only accept so many wasted miles before it is like...SNAP out of it!!! lol One client responded to my telling him I had banned the LAX area from my client list by offering to get a hotel in Burbank instead of by LAX to show he was not a LAX flake. Even though he flew into LAX. Met up with him in Burbank and had a great time! My point is we all have ways of screening. Mine is probably dumb. But the other guy is using Uber as his way to weed out flakes. I would not take personally. Just realize he has probably had a few too many flakes and needs some way to keep himself from going nuts over it. He chooses Uber. I just flat out Ban LAX area. I kinda think the Uber idea is probably more rationale than mine!? lol