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Great to see posts about him going more than a therapeutic massage. My experience with him was one of the very rare times where “YMMV” has worked against me. No HE.

Ugh it’s always the tease. The more they tease and the give some hopes that there could be more opportunity than just the massage, the more we plan on going back to them for repeat business. 🤪 Did you get baited-and-switched set up too, as someone shared here a while ago?

I wanted to try him. But the rate being minimum $350 is ridiculous for a masseur rate. If you don’t mind sharing (or DM), how much did you pay and what was included?

He’s a YMMV guy. Idk why the spelling name change on his ad, I know he used to go by Ty. Edit: My experience with him was thoroughly therapeutic. And I say he’s a YMMV because I remember talking to someone from this forum about him who said Ty gave him an erotic massage.

Anyone with recent experience to share? The rates seem very reasonable for NYC market and I like to go get a massage from him soon.

Bump. I’m in NYC this weekend and Bibi is one of the guys I like to go see.

It could be inappropriate if especially if you have not built a good relationship with them yet. But here let me share an anecdote I posted on a different thread some time ago, something not planned and naturaly happened. I feel you. I get thrilled with watching someone piss (or being watched!).

Asking the masseur if they can watch me pee or me watching them. I’m into watersports (WS) and that’s probably the least weird way of asking from those who aren’t into WS. I have one masseur who’s okay with the watching bit mid-massage. This built up after seeing him a couple times. Like when he asks I turn over after working on my back, and I say I gotta go use the bathroom and ask him to watch me pee or that if he needs to pee, i watch him. But nothing more—no golden showers or anything wild WS like that. I reserve that for escorts, if I want.

I second with the above. I remember telling myself I wouldn’t be back. Not because he did anything bad. It’s simply because when I pay for massages, I want to get that — an actual massage. I didn’t want to write negatively about him because he did have a friendly personality. I still believe some of the guys on here will like him. Just personally not for me. He could be a ymmv - but yes, HE & MT.

Oh it would be a bummer if he stopped!

I find it’s more difficult to get guys in “actual” LA last minute. If you’re willing to make the drive, I’ve had luck with the guys over in the valley — SFV and SCV. It’s been a while since I don’t live there anymore, but whenever I visit and text any of them for a same day appointment, I usually get an affirmative response.

For those who’ve been here, what’s the crowd usually like?

I’m a feet guy, but never ask for photos. I always consider it a bonus when masseur profiles have feet pics in them. But I do not hire from ads like these that don’t show face at all. It’s one thing to have feet pics as part of your profile photos, but to solely have just body/feet pics? Eh.

$700 is seriously ridiculous even for a full service.

I’ll add: Use recent photos. I see some who use the same photo for like 10 years now! Lol. Or if not very recent, at least ones that still look like you (ie., within the last year or two). I’ve once hired a guy who was much much older-looking in person, but used photos when he was still in his 30s or 40s. Smh.

Gives a really good massage, but upsells mid session or else it’ll be a self-service ending. That was a mood killer. Limited HE nevertheless, said he’s married (to a man) is why he doesn’t offer more. I respect that. Looks like his pics. I will repeat if I’m only looking for a therapeutic massage. YMMV.

Curious too. Anyone else? Sammy I sent you a dm.

I saw him about 1 or 2 years ago I believe when I was visiting Boston. Depends what you are looking for. To me, it felt like the session was more sensual/erotic than therapeutic. I like it the other way around.

My contribution happend not during the massage, but before it. It was my first time meeting this masseur at his studio after first hiring him at a local massage spot. (Short backstory: It was a legitimate local massage place. I went in for my regular massage, he was assigned to me, and I liked his massage so much that I asked him if he practiced privately, if he had a studio, and asked him to share his business number. It all worked out, we had an exchange of numbers.) Fast forward two months later, I reached out to him so I could book a massage directly with him privately. It was our first time to meet at his studio. I arrived at his place, he welcomed me and showed me to the massage room. As I undressed my shirt, my pants still on, I suddenly had the urge to piss. So I asked, “Can I go use the bathroom real quick? Need to pee.” And he responded, “Sure, I need to wash my hands for the massage anyway,” as he motioned out of the massage room to the bathroom. We got close to the bathroom and he pointed at the door. “It’s that door right there. You go first. And I’ll just wash my hands after you.” To which I said, “Or you can wash your hands while I pee. I don’t mind you in there, if you don’t. Saves us a few minutes!” Now when I offered that, in my head was the bathroom layout I had back home, where the toilet and the sink are on the opposite sides. His bathroom (a half bath), I didn’t realize, had the sink and toilet adjacent to each other. Still not knowing this fact, I insisted. And he said sure. And there we were in the bathroom, almost standing next to each other. Him washing his hands, me taking a piss. I thought I saw him glancing while still trying to be professional, and I really found that hot. I almost couldn’t pee and shoot very well because I was getting really hard! I even said, “Sorry, I swear I need to pee!” And we both laughed. Needless to say, I had a fantastic massage that night and a happy release ending too. I still see him every now and then for my regular massages, and everytime I have to pee during our session, I can now just casually ask, “You can pee or wash your hands together too if you like?” and him being okay with it! That one unexpected innocent incident offer is now kind of like our thing. I even got him to piss at the same time with me.

Upsells are a mood killer. +1. Upsells are really a mood killer. Especially when they do it mid massage or right before the ending. It’s such an underhanded approach that makes me not repeat, no matter how goodlooking the guy is.

I was at a restaurant one time where they used a wrirless terminal so the payment can be done at the table. I’m used to this method from othwr restaurants too. And normally after swiping the card, they hand you the terminal and the tip suggestions will show as “18% , 20%, 22%, Other” — my point being that this seems to be the average mean for tipping, and always in ascending order. My finger will always go to the FIRST one on the list. Usually 18%. Well this one restaurant I recently went to had the audacity to put “30%, 28%, 25%, Other” for their tipping options — and yes, in descending order where the first choice was the highest. My finger almost pushed the 30% out of habit. I was so surprised and quite frankly disgusted. I chose other of course. I have no issues tipping for decent services, butbman I hope 30% won’t become the new tipping culture. I miss the days when 10% was the norm.

It’s more the vibe I got from him. It was strict therapeutic. But i could be wrong — there’s always the proverbial YMMV.

Try Philippe. I sww him when I was visiting SF. He offers what you need: legit, deep tissue massage. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4656/

Unless you’re a female, he’s therapeutic only.

Lol true. Tbf I hired him when he didn’t have those photos up. His profile wasn’t screaming bottom then. I think I actually like Adrian’s old profile since I am not into full service erotic sessions. And to keep with the spirit of this thread…I would still recommend him, based on the last time I saw him about a year or two ago. But now I realize he’s probably “evolved” his services since.