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I actually wish I one day lose interest too. I’ve been trying to hold off from hiring but just couldn’t resist. Getting massages from masseurs whom I like is a pricey addiction. And I think you’re correct. If the ones who are accessible to you don’t interest you, that is a huge factor. Hopefully you soon find that perfect masseur that would rekindle the spark.

I have a therapist in the LA outskirts who I’ve been seeing a lot recently. One of my go-to guys since November. It took a number of weekly visits before I got more than a MT and HE. For two months, I would see him weekly. I didn’t care for more than the HE I was already getting from him. I kept coming back to him because his style was how I exactly wanted my massage experience with a masseur. Where majority of the time is spent on massage, and a happy end is literally just the ending part. But weekly, it was always sessions of professional massage, some brushing, touching, and teasing here and there, and him finishing me with HE and MT. That was the routine and I didn’t mind. Your (OP) story reminds me so much of how I was with him. I would also try to work his tool but he just never finishes. I wasn’t sure if it was just because he wasn’t attracted to me, or because he doesn’t swing that way, so much that he wasn’t interested to actually get a happy end himself. But because I get great service from him anyway, I decided to keep him as my go-to. Like you, and mine is significantly shorter than your relationship with your masseur, I started to like and trust the guy. My conversations with him felt real. I became more comfortable. So came that one night, during the massage I casually opened a conversation asking how he gets a massage for himself if he ever gets tired and I also asked if he receives a happy end. He said he only gets massages from fellow therapist friends, and he said the gender doesn’t matter. He also said if friend therapists aren’t available, sometimes he would book a random therapist (on Thumbtack, i believe is what he said?). So I asked him, if it were a female and wanted to do more with you, would you do it? He said if she initiated, why not? So I was like, “Wow. That’s hot. She’s a lucky girl then.” We laughed and the massage continued. I don’t know if it had something to do with that talk, but it was that same night when the massage ended much better than our usual happy end that I couldn’t believe I finally got to “taste” him after about 10 visits. Haha! I guess my point is, you just have to be comfortable with the person and drop hints when you talk to him. Try to get him to talk about how he gets naughty himself if the opportunity presents itself and follow through the conversation. If he says “I’m not comfortable sharing,” then that in itself is an answer. But if he starts to share, pick up from that and see where it could lead you to more dropping of hints and flirty but friendly lines. Ask well-worded questions, never dictate what you want because it seems like you’ve built a good relationship with him already. Don’t be too pushy because oh my gosh I would hate to destroy a good relationship with my favorite masseurs myself. Good luck OP! Keep us updated.

I was gonna say the same thing about him, that he gives little massage and tries to do more of the extra stuff. With that said, I won’t repeat. Personally I like my masseurs to spend more time giving me massages than extras. I agree, he is friendly and charming.

Therapeutic only. I think he’s a YMMV kind of guy? I may be wrong. But with me, it was purely therapeutic. Massage itself was not bad, but it wasn’t exceptional either. For the reasons mentioned above, I only saw him once.

For a massage? As long as I walk in freshly showered, I’m good.

True. I like it when profiles have responses to mediocre reviews. And I also like to hear from anyone with recent experiences from him.

My favorite are the guys who still advertise in the $75-90 range for an hour service. I patronize them more. And I go to their studio thinking it be just a therapeutic massage. I give them signals that I am okay with a happy end (lifting butts etc lol). And then I end up actually leaving very happy. Haha. Of course, I tip them as gratitude for not overpricing their services. And it’s those guys that excite me. They’re usually the ones who give killer massages too. And I just like the mystery of whether they give HE or not. It’s a hit or miss though, some of them are strictly therapeutic unless maybe you’re their type? I have paid for guys who are at minimum $140 for an hour pricing, and among them I’ve had a number where the masseur gave a quick and weak massage for 5 minutes and then aggressively tried to get me off so they could end the session quickly. Ugh! I hate those kind of sessions and it’s usually (not all of them) the high-priced ones who do that.

Heading to Vegas for CES in two weeks. While I have my Vegas go-tos, I want to try another masseur or two. Anyone with recent experiences with Will?

Nothing to write home about, but the massage was decent enough. I’ve had better experiences with guys who give great therapeutic massage AND a good finish.

YMMV. My favorites: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/20954/ - decent massage, very happy ending. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/7251/ - release, and gives a killer massage.

Any updated Vegas or LA list? PM me your list please. I have Vegas ones.

Bump. Wanna know.

Seen him two or three times now, and actually planning to book him soon. I’m so happy seeing the positive responses about him here. Seems like he’s still consistent and I look forward to my next appointment with him.

Saw him some time ago. It was alright. While he did make sure I left happy I would not repeat because I am the type who likes to get majority of the massage time. PS: I also left oily lol.

I wish I read this before I hired him lmao. I remember he had this certain off vibe. He had ZERO effort to making some connection whatsoever.

Still looking at my options, and Jon’s most likely who I will be going for; I have reduced my options to two. I plan to book him this week or next week. Any new feedback/comments about him for those who tried him recently? He seems like a pretty good pick because I saw other users recommending him. And what I’ve picked up from this and other threads is that he doesn’t get a hard on but is okay with mutual touch. Comments were said that he is detached from customers. What do you guys mean by him being detached? Is it solely the hard on bit, or is there some other reason? I would appreciate any details yall could share.

Any more updates and tips from anyone? I am visiting Vegas again next month.

Been to several Vegas Strip spas a lot of times. Here's my personal opinion. Cruisiest (most as #1): 1. Caesars Palace's Qua 2. Mandalay Bay 3. Aria Best facilities (best as #1): 1. Encore 2. Venetian/Palazzo 3. Caesars Palace 4. Mandalay Bay Best layout, most relaxing (best as #1): 1. Venetian/Palazzo 2. Mandalay Bay 3. Encore DO NOT VISIT IF LOOKING TO CRUISE: 1. Vdara (too small) 2. Mirage (attendants frequently check/open steam and sauna room) DO NOT VISIT IF LOOKING TO RELAX: 1. Paris, Harrah's (dirty, small, even attendants are not attentive)

A noob question. When hiring masseurs online; after the service, do you still add tip on top of the advertised rates? If yes, by how much?

Sent you a PM re: LA. (Edit: added what PM was for lol. Been getting PMs about NYC list)