keefer

First, THANK YOU! I've read and re-read everyone's comments a number of times, slowly realizing that most of the questions I left unasked were just anxiety about being clean and relaxed enough to enjoy ... As for the advice - @oldNbusted handled the majority of questions with one link (and thank you for that). Reading @MassageDrew and @NuSingle reminded me that the rare bottom experiences I had, remember and fantasize about, started with (copious alcohol and poppers, and...) me on my back or spooning. @NuSingle, thanks for the comment about poppers. I came out in New York and Houston in the late 70's, poppers were integral to my coming out experience. A number of brands available in London are still quite good. I also realized that the phrase "size inappropriate" left too much to the imagination... The escort I'm hoping to start with next week advertises as 8 inches, and it was looking at his advert that prompted my question. There is a guy in Paris I sometimes fantasize about who is 9 inches, but I think of him as a very advanced classes best left for the future. finally, THANK YOU - I'm very much looking forward to next week.

Not sure if this is the correct forum, but could someone point me towards existing threads about learning to bottom? I'm a client, rent every few weeks, and have always seen myself as top or top/versatile... but the past few months find myself quite attracted to top and top/versatile escorts. I've not yet followed through, but find myself checking out a number of escorts who are size inappropriate for my extreme lack of experience... Is there a position that's easier than others... or is this all personal choice and patience and breathing (and lots of lube)? Live in London if you have any recommendations...