This was my experience too, and I did *not* like it at all. For me to be unclothed and him not, was vulnerable indeed and not sexy at all. He's shirtless, but he's an older gentleman not in such great shape (imho), so him being shirtless was actually a turn off. Maybe for people who like a "daddy type" he would exciting, but I didn't find him even remotely attractive. He's reportedly very well endowed, so I would have enjoyed seeing that. But in absence of that option, I don't really get why one would go to him for a therapeutic massage, where he can observe you naked, does some vague touching, but is never nude showing off the goods himself. For that, I'd rather be draped and go to a "normal" spa in town.