Totally agree with you. I mean pre-pandemic it was common for me to go to the same restaurant and sit in the same server's section because they were great at their job. I enjoyed the food and great service and it satisfied my needs. I didn't spend the rest of my day wondering if my server was in love with me. They probably were like.."I like him he comes in all the time, great chit chat, he's respectful and he tips well..I hope he keeps coming back" Thats it. Theres gonna be someone else at that table as soon as I leave and hopefully they have the same experience that I just had. I think we put too much pressure on this whole business when we should be enjoying ourselves.