I just finished an hour with Apoloman at his hotel in San Francisco. What follows is an unnecessarily long and detailed thought dump.
Short version: He is beautiful, fun, and great in bed. One of the top five providers I have hired in my 25+ years of hiring (out of 150+ providers).
Are his pictures accurate? Yes, except he is not as shredded. He is still breathtakingly beautiful, has abdominal muscles, and a very built body! You can tell he works out 5-7 times per week. But if you explicitly want him at the extremely low body fat percentage he is showing in his pics, you’ll have to wait for his next deep cutting cycle. As for his face it is exactly as pictured. It is rare I get romantic about providers, but him looking into my eyes and smiling at me is surreal. It is like getting with one of those Calvin Klein model I have always fantasized about. He looks 28 as listed in his profile.
Is he friendly? Yes. I asked if we could start by talking and he was comfortable answering my open-ended questions about things he had put in his profile. I am a huge fan of porn where the cameraman/director is talking to the beautiful star as the star undressed and strokes. I did that with him, and he was very fun to talk to. He smiles and even told a few jokes. I confess my dream guy is a sweet humble sexy midwestern corn fed American boy. Apolo (that is not the name he goes by in person so feel free to ask him and he’ll share what to call him) is from Argentina and English is his second language. If you try to have a long conversation with him, he will occasionally not understand or use the wrong word, but he is sweet and self-confident about it. If you are an immigrant to the US or grew up with them, I suspect you’ll have no problem making yourself understood. We shared some detailed fantasies and memories with each other, so don’t be shy if you like that kind of stuff.
Any weird vibes or hiccups? None. The initial text communication was effortless. He shared with me that he often goes to bed at a reasonable hour and wakes up at a reasonable hour, so your midnight texts might not be answered until the next day. I shared with him my general stats without him asking and he did not ask for a picture or deposit or anything unusual. When I got there, he did not ask for money up front and offered me water. He did not watch the clock, but I did. I generally don’t like to overstay the hour, but he was telling a me a story and so I ended up leaving a few minutes later that the allotted time. He asked for $400 and I paid in cash, plus tip. He said Venmo would have been fine too. And he’ll tell you what hotel he is staying in. You can check out the reviews. I’ve been to it numerous times with other providers. It is clean and cute.
What about the actual time spent in bed? Divine. I don’t know what is allowed on this forum so if you have questions about his stamina, performance, positions, endowment, hygiene, etc. please DM me. But I had no complaints in any of those departments. His profile said “ask me” on the topic of protection and I did because I don’t enjoy condoms and don’t use them with providers. We discussed the whole active/passive thing, and we synched up perfectly in that regard. My nipples are sensitive, I showed him the pressure I like and he tended to my chest expertly the whole session.
What if I want him to take control and ravish me? I don’t know, we didn’t do that. But we talked about Dom Sub stuff, and he confidently shared with me that he can Dom. He doesn’t do “crazy” stuff. Stigmatizing language aside, I think you can lovingly and directly ask if he will do something with you and he’ll let you know. Nothing surprising was on his “crazy” no-fly list.
@Chancealot mentioned that Apolo ghosted him. Chancelot has been on the site for 4+ years with 400+ posts. I don’t know him, but I trust he is a good human and his experience alone kept me from even considering Apolo for a long time. I don’t think we are the measure of our worst day on the job (I have no idea if Apolo ghosts often or just that once) and so I decided to give Apolo a chance. And who am I kidding, the possibility of him being real was too much of an incentive for my heads and heart. My guard was up the whole way over to his hotel, but evaporated within 2 minutes. What Apolo did to Chancelot is not ok, and so far, Apolo has treated me with kindness.
Is @Dinoes glowing review fake? I dunno. Like many of the folks on here, I don’t usually pay any attention to reviews from clients who join, post, and leave. But my experience was consistent with the Dinoes’. Well except I was not passive with Apolo in any of the connotations of that word.
Why is he in Cleveland or New Jersey or Delaware or some small market? I feel silly now that I asked him this. Like I was waiting to catch him in some suspicious answer. Anyway, ask him if you care. It is a very normal reason. Nowadays when he is NYC, SF, DC or whatever big market he is for hire.
@montroyal mentioned that Apolo was “Very standoffish, no personality.” I don’t know Montroyal and I can say that Apolo was lush with personality during our hour. With me he was not “bitchy” (sorry for the misogyny in that, but there is not a good synonym) or distracted. I hired him on a mild sunny Sunday SF afternoon; I was the first client of the day (not the last of the day he let me know) and maybe I just got lucky. But know that if you also get lucky, you’ll meet a sweet sexy funny genuine man.
Why the fuck did you write all this? I think it is because I was so ready to believe he was fake or mean or disappointing. The hurt part of myself was banging around pretty loudly telling me to not waste time. But another part of me took over the executive function and urged me to give it a try. I’m 53 and still excited for what life has to offer, but it is not just going to come sit in my lap, I have to go find it and put it in my lap.
I hope you hire Apolo and I hope you have a blast. And if a part of you is scared or jaded, I hope it goes well and I hope he helps heal that part just a little. And of course, DM me for the naughtier bits. Love you guys!
I saw him last weekend. You'll be the only person in the room with him. What I mean by that is he is completely focused. No phone, no distractions, just a wonderful partner in the bed. Loves foreplay and is a great kisser. He is versatile but as others have mentioned he leans bottom. Body wise, very hunky and muscular. Also a non-smoker (important to me). Has a nice infall in Philadelphia with ample street parking.
I saw him last weekend. You'll be the only person in the room with him. What I mean by that is he is completely focused. No phone, no distractions, just a wonderful partner in the bed. Loves foreplay and is a great kisser. He is versatile but as others have mentioned he leans bottom. Body wise, very hunky and muscular. Also a non-smoker (important to me). Has a nice infall in Philadelphia with ample street parking.
I'm new here in the company but I've been on RM for years. Met with Ezi on a regular basis when he lived in FL. He moved to PA about a year ago and I've been missing him ever since. Every meeting was like a dream come true. He's very kind and accommodating. He came back to FL on vacation recently and texted me to let me know. And of course I jumped at the chance to see him again. He also told me he was moving back to Fl. I'll be waiting.
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After years of looking I believe I may have found a guy in Philly who can become a regular for me. Posted his escort and massage ads above. Relatively new to the business and Philly. Met him for full service and hired as a bottom focusing on BFE. Great communications (he's very open and inquisitive), Brazilian and his English is excellent, even hotter and more handsome in person. Offers in calls as well. DM me with any questions - happy to share.
Limited prior thread for massage:
I’ve seen many different styles over the years. Personally I prefer them wearing regular clothing. For me, there’s something very sensual in the “reveal”.
I’ll second this. I’ve been with him about a dozen times, all but one (the first one) was an overnight. At that first meeting I opened my door, he walked in and gave me the most incredibly passionate kiss that made my knees go weak. In addition to that, he’s just an awesome guy. No drama. No bullshit.
Hey! I hope you had a great time in the city. I'm very happy that I was considered and for being part of the conversation thanks for these amazing people that I've met over the years. I am sorry we did not meet but I hope you found someone worth your time.