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SHUBEAR reacted to + Pensant in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
Beware of Friendboy and Mintboy, as evidenced by many threads and posts.
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SHUBEAR reacted to big-n-tall in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
Yeah it's fake. The guy pictured, Joshua Armstrong does a lot of domination, muscle worship, and jerk off vids. I would figure if it was him he would capitalize on whatever level of fame or notoriety he gets from his vid work.
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SHUBEAR reacted to + glutes in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
And good to have members like you with skills to track down and report these fraudsters.
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SHUBEAR reacted to coriolis888 in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
More data,
No question, the ad is a fake.
I just found another video he made in 2014 where he speaks in a heavy English accent.
https://www.facebook.com/joshuaarmstrong1989/videos/1490689621191321/
The real person in the photos is quite active in England.
Using the links, you can find many of his photos and videos.
The person who placed the bogus ad and "borrowed" the photos for the ad is not too bright or not knowledgeable about photo tracing.
It is good to have this site so we can weed out the fraudsters.
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SHUBEAR reacted to coriolis888 in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
I found more than twenty photos of him, some of which are the same photos as found in the ad.
https://www.instagram.com/joshuaarmstrong_uk/?hl=tr
The problem with the photos is that they come from an instagram page where it says the person in the photos is from the U.K.
As most of us know, England has been closed to most tourist travel since March of last year.
There is an additional link at the above provided link that takes you to some videos made by the person in the photos. The videos can be viewed for a fee. Again, payment to view the videos are to a U.K. company.
I think it is highly unlikely the photos in the ad are of the person placing the ad.
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SHUBEAR reacted to rvwnsd in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
Agree. A couple of other things jump out at me:
The face in the tank top picture is so small that you can't tell whether it matches the other face pics. While the other face pics are of the same guy (you can tell by his right eyebrow) they appear to be f different vintages Notice there is no last login date. That's the Friendboy equivalent of an expired profile. All that plus the warning makes me say "pass. "
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SHUBEAR reacted to rhicks408 in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
The pic doesn't resemble 5'6 144lb at all...
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SHUBEAR got a reaction from marylander1940 in 411 - Hot Guy Darrel in OC
This dude ... F**K! He is a STUD. I'm worried he's WAY too good to be true. Anyone?
Hot guy Darrel in Orange County, California, USA (friendboy.pro)
I noticed the warning, but, am not sure if it is from experience or suspicion.
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SHUBEAR got a reaction from chadLA in Zachery Scott
He occasionally spends some time in Palm Springs. I live in So. Cal. and this has been a HUGE bonus. He's quite fun to play with.
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SHUBEAR reacted to Jn8028 in Zachery Scott
Exactly the vibe I've gotten from Zach after meeting him several times. The dude enjoys having sex. He's definitely at least 10 years older than he puts in his ad but as everyone else has said, he still looks damn good and I'm about 10 years younger than him. An amazing kisser and definitely endowed with something that made me briefly want to reconsider my decision to hire him the first time when I got a look at what I was dealing with. The guy knows what he is doing and honestly worked some magic with my body. It was a fantastic time and I've met up with him every time I've been to Vegas ever since. Unfortunately, it's been over a year now!
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SHUBEAR reacted to Bargara Leatherboy in So Torn! Advice Requested
Wow , sorry that your much wanted experience was lacking.
Yes you give an honest review.
after all you did your research and relied on that .
I know I do read reviews on sometimes on RM I will message a reviewer for more clarity.
As gentlemen who hire, we owe our fellow gentlemen the respect of honest reviews. It is how we keep this industry honest
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SHUBEAR reacted to Bargara Leatherboy in So Torn! Advice Requested
F**king is not chemical. - if he cannot manage that he should not be taking the $$
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SHUBEAR reacted to Studsearcher in So Torn! Advice Requested
I think that’s the kind of review we could use more of. I’ve had a few similar experiences - their appearance and personality are as expected, but they can’t perform as expected. I think that doesn’t matter to some clients, especially those hiring more for the company, but to others it does. It’s not a one star out of five experience, but maybe a 3 or 4 star. I’ll need to start leaving reviews like that myself when I get back to hiring.
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SHUBEAR reacted to tenderloin in So Torn! Advice Requested
This is a great example of where the provider could have created a win-win. Imagine if he had said something like
"I'm not a machine, and while we seem to have had a nice time together, unfortunately today I couldn't provide the main thing you told me you were looking for. So I am going to discount the amount I am charging for my time by 50%."
That gesture would come from someone thinking long-term and interested in building his brand. Unfortunately, there are not many out there like that.
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SHUBEAR reacted to Epigonos in So Torn! Advice Requested
I'm not into being fucked so this issue doesn't arise when I hire. HOWEVER, if I were and the escort couldn't or wouldn't perform I'd write a highly critical review stating just that.
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SHUBEAR reacted to + purplekow in So Torn! Advice Requested
Well I am a client and I have hired with the expectation that I was going to be topping only to find, despite chemistry, horniness and willingness, I was just not able to get home. Mostly it was not getting hard enough to penetrate a really tight hole and sometimes it was not getting the escort to relax enough and for those situations, I would not consider writing a bad review. But if the escort had agreed to bottom and then "backed out". I would definitely write a negative review. So if he tried but there was not success, I would write a review and mention that although you had hoped to be topped, that did not happen but the rest of the meeting went as planned. If you think he really did not give it the old college try, then make that point.
Hey, at least you get head out of the deal.
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SHUBEAR reacted to kingsley88 in So Torn! Advice Requested
But I thought you're paying for his time? Honestly though do you think it's because he had another client before you that day? Also, do you think he needs to use Viagra?
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SHUBEAR reacted to marylander1940 in So Torn! Advice Requested
Sorry to hear that. Was he able to get it hard and later lost it?
Did you describe yourself to him accurately to make sure you guys were a match?
How long into the hour the main even was supposed to happen?
do you take Viagra?
Your opinion on reviews seems reasonable.
we had a former frequent poster who had several guys backing down because "they didn't prepare" and he never dared to suggest the guys to go get an enema from a Rite Aid, CVS, Wallgreens, etc.
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SHUBEAR reacted to marylander1940 in So Torn! Advice Requested
Good point but even if that was the case he could have taken another 1/4 pill, a big glass of water and perform.
I know escorts who "evaluate the situation" after the meet the client, take the pill or not after. Chewing Viagra (instead of swallowing it) on an empty stomach as told by our resident Dr. @Unicorn is also a good way for it to make fast effect.
It takes 2 to tango and not all positions (legs up, sitting on it) are not possible with all body types of clients. Before PrEP I would always put the condom at the very last moment and after fingering with lub to get him ready. I always hated when guys would star searching for poppers right after I put on the condom and other diversions.
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SHUBEAR reacted to + purplekow in So Torn! Advice Requested
Viagra is no guarantee
That one will be hard as one needs to be
If the hole is real tight
Not all of one's might
Can assure a flawless entry
You say what about poppers
To prevent those cock entry stoppers
Sphincters can be
Quite ornery
For even the finest of toppers
But there is no need to despair
If you want to, but cannot get there
There are other means
Some hot, sexy scenes
That guarantee a spew in the air
So listen those I have friended
If you plan not your cock is upended
Just use your mind
And you will find
That a mouth can be gaily rear ended
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SHUBEAR reacted to rvwnsd in So Torn! Advice Requested
I think you should write a review. However, you should avoid criticizing the escort and instead report the facts: you did not feel warmth and connection when he arrived; he tried to top but was unable to perform; and you had an all-oral session. You don't know why he was unable to perform (could have been due to a lack of connection) and it really isn't relevant. The important part is he was not able to top you despite trying to do so.
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SHUBEAR reacted to Michael PhD in So Torn! Advice Requested
You should be factual in your review. I think you can convey an honest review without being unnecessarily critical or disrespectful. These reviews are the most important ones... seems like many, including myself, want to give praise when it’s a great experience but don’t balance that with honest reviews when things didn’t go as hoped for or planned. I think many would appreciate your review.
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SHUBEAR reacted to orville in So Torn! Advice Requested
I hear you sister. A Provider should take a gig only if he has the skills and tools for the job.
I respectfully disagree! There is a chemical ingredient called Sildenafil very useful for F*cking!
LOL! Right?!
For some "Tops" viagra is not enough.
Age also plays a factor.
A dose increase to make your cock hard,
could also make your heart stop.
Oh, the dilemma.
I agree with these 2 statements. Write an objective review.
Treat it like the review of a contractor who didn't finish the job you paid for.
The discounted rate shouldn't affect your review. He shouldn't take jobs if he's not in prime conditions.
This is not a cheap service or hobby, and in some way, your time and money were wasted and not fully respected.
I avoid giving negative reviews if the session wasn't incredible but the escort was "functional" and did everything that was promised.
But in this case, you made clear what you wanted.
After the review, some might read a little abuse in both parties but at least he'll have a chance to improve his service.
I will piggyback on @tenderloin advice and say that a less than stellar review is also an opportunity for a win-win situation.
If he's smart and values his reputation, he'll make it up to you with a follow-up session, if not discounted, with some other benefit.
Good luck and if he doesn't respond well don't get discouraged. The ocean is plenty and there's a myriad of good providers out there.
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SHUBEAR got a reaction from CuriousByNature in So Torn! Advice Requested
LOL .. He was nicely endowed! But, alas .. that was not an issue.