hypothetically

To be quite frank, trying to “appeal” to an escort is slightly naive. I would anticipate (and hope) most would make a healthy diet, exercise and personal grooming a priority. The bare minimum does not distinguish you from other potential clients. Money does. “One fish, two fish, red fish, blue fish”...it doesn’t matter so long as you have the budget. It may sound a bit more harsh than “I see all clients” (which I do). But where is the lie?

Most gift cards purchased in the U.S. have no functionality abroad. If you read the fine print, they can only be used at U.S. retailers, etc. Don’t make it too complicated nor stress. Clients purchase my flight often and I have no access to any of their personal information. Simply purchase the ticket and instead of sending him the airline confirmation email which can sometimes contain your name and last 4 of your credit card (dependent on airline) as it is receipt, simply send the accompanying PDF/E-ticket only which contains no details other than his name, flight time, seating info and the QRC code to board.

It’s disappointing, and then people my age are scolded for these ugly behavioral patterns but....who do you think we got it from? The generation of gays prior (who in all fairness had harsh reasons for creating these “identities”), but still.

Interesting, I lived in Wilton Manors right off of Oakland Drive for several years and trained at both LA Fitness and Island City Fitness with “hot muscle monkies” that were gay as blazes (not that it matters, my masculinity isn’t frail and I love all men), but I don’t own a gym...so what do I know? (Eye rolls....but masculine, as to not startle anyone)

Ummmm outside of the norm?? Where?? Alabama??? @Gymowner have you ever trained at a gym in New York City, Los Angeles, Dallas , Miami, Chicago? Hell, in some of these cities, effeminate men weight lifting outweigh the “masculine” men lifting. Surprising hearing this from a gym owner.

How can you guarantee any information you provide via the web or app on your mobile device isn’t in the hands of local authorities or in a gov’t database? If they needed to access that info, they certainly could. I wouldn’t obsess. You have less security/privacy in more places than you think...unbeknownst to you.

I keep reading “I’m a masculine man!” and visualize Gaston from Beauty & The Beast with that ponytail and perfectly crafted eyebrows. One of my favorite quotes from Michael Kaufman: I invite everyone to read this article.

No one, because neither of you are prepped to bottom.

Like most. ?

Not quite. One of the replies insisted masculine goes hand-in-hand with muscle, which is not true. You can step into most gay environments and see that men dress and act the part of what they want to attract. While some are not as clockable as others, there is a gimmick to attracting a potential mate. And with so many “masc 4 masc” bros pushing their agenda because their masculinity is frail (which is a feminine quality btw), you now have effeminate men trying to blend...all for the sake of some penis. Some of the most muscular guys I know are undoubtedly the most feminine. I’ve also met straight men who sound like complete pansies. So. Another example: you have some of the wealthiest men in the country that work in the tech industry in silicone valley walking around in Dockers and a Fruit of the Loom tee. Just because someone is not gaudy in their presentation and wears dingy clothes doesn’t mean they’re poor. It means they’re wise.

A mutual respect, class separation removed.

100%.

No. Long winded texts are not productive. Your $7,000 is Monopoly money if you cannot pick up the phone and communicate the authenticity of the arrangement by a brief chat. Saves both of us time and shows me you are serious about confirming details.

In my experience (and this is no one else’s but my own, before the hyenas come cackling out of the bushes)... Long-winded clients correlate with bookings that never come to fruition. More than half of my most successful and most monetary bookings with pleasant clients follow introductions that are short, well-written and straight to the point. “Andre, love your profile, I’m interested in booking you (insert dates), would you be available to discuss (insert time).” End scene. The phone convo should also be short and sweet. Clients who unload about their most intimate desires and fantasies all in one go is a turn off. I’ve entertained these clients and they continue to elaborate with no booking date in sight and simply want to engage. I understand everyone communicates differently, but even my first timers and clients with cold feet get straight to the point. “Hi. I’m a little nervous, I’ve never done this...” That’s my cue as an empathetic provider to be a little more assertive and suggest we have a call to ease any anxieties and discuss how we move forward.

Considering communication between a new client and provider is already a mine field, I wouldn’t welcome unsolicited feedback. If it were a regular, a client whom I trusted and whose opinion I valued.. absolutely, I love feedback. But a new client, i’m good. I’d also welcome feedback from a seasoned escort before a client. I have an escort/porn actor “mentor” and it has really aided me in the business.

Stories like this (from grown men) really baffle me considering the resources available and the money being poured into sexual health campaigns about PEP and PrEP. If you’re an adult and not well versed on the risk surrounding a “slip up,” you shouldn’t be (excuse my language) fucking at all. While I realize your situation is different..there’s nothing I detest more than reckless clients who reach out requesting BB and inquiring if I’m on PrEp, only to find out upon further investigation that they are not on PrEp themselves. Don’t panic after playing Russian Roulette. You were not held against your will. Clients should be held to the same gold standard of sexual health as providers.

That one topic??

Tonnnns.

The headline doesn’t even make sense. 5G and the ability for the robot to operate on high speed internet doesn’t in any way affect its aesthetic nor make it look real. It still looks like an expensive baby-doll lol. Daily star is also a trash source for “news” lol

I respect what they’re doing but find that it really limits your options in contrast to AirBnb which offers some beautiful properties in Spain for reasonable prices. If you desperately want a gay host, go for it I suppose. But there is much better on Airbnb, IMO.

I’ve never used the antidote as I don’t really know enough about it to casually use it other than for its sole purpose (an emergency). And I’ve never had any issues that made its use necessary. Prices vary from 200-300 depending on the source. Rev for men has been a great resource for men in NYC looking for education about Trimix prior to committing to using. I found out about it from a physician on Scruff named Dr Trimix, who represents RevForMe. If you have the app do a username search. He’s very helpful. Otherwise, you can reach out to https://revformen.com/

There is no definitive nor concrete answer. While the rule of thumb is 90 days within a 180 day period, I’ve learned it is really at the discretion of border control/customs and from where you enter and exit the country. Additionally, what country you are from. I know many boys who have dodged a bullet and received a slap on the wrist but I also know boys who have been fined, detained and deported.

Safe? Alive? I’m not knocking condom usage, your body/health, your prerogative but....thats rather dramatic considering in 2019 not only does antiretroviral medication exist, but surprise, so does pre exposure prophylaxis.

Agree. I like being swole seasonally but it serves absolutely no purpose. It does not yield the result you think it will long term.

1. The erection doesn’t ache (to begin with). In my experience it does begin to ache after several hours, immediately prior to it wearing off, as your penis is so hard and engorged with blood for an extended time. But by that time it just feels like you’re walking around with a steel bat and it’s not painful but it’s not very comfortable either. 2. It feels amazing until you begin to get sore after several hours. If it aches from the onset of the erection, I’d recommend a lower dosage. But Trimix is a quick fix for ONE THING, a flaccid penis. It does nothing for your libido or thought process surrounding sexual encounters. Injecting (if done properly) doesn’t really hurt even if you have a moderate tolerance for pain. It’s about as “painful” as getting blood drawn. The visual of a needle being inserted into your penis might cause you to sweat and delay the first couple of times lol but you’ll get use to it if you’re using it regularly.