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100%, and I’d imagine there are a large number of users on the forum who are escorts, that refrain from participating in active discussions for this reason. I see very little commentary from escorts aside from the very few who engage regularly.

While both of these situations are absolutely awful, I don’t think either would warrant law enforcement to orchestrate a sting operation. An alarming number of people have been robbed or killed by serial killers/thieves via gay dating apps over the years and the apps have issued no warnings, nor have authorities taken any action. Additionally, I don’t anticipate gay men are going to report “unusual activity” to the authorities as all activity on dating apps is technically “unusual.” If someone is soliciting sex or drugs, the average gay man (who is not into it) is not going to call the authorities, but rather block or report them. As naive as gay men like to pretend they are, they recognize the dangers, destructive vices and lack of personal security synonymous with these hook-up apps, but no one is calling the authorities, because god forbid they take away what is many-a-gay-man’s sex lifeline. Gay men would prefer to tolerate whatever they have to than to have the straight authorities invade our spaces, both digitally and in real life.

Why things like this matter to people always baffles me. The spectrum isn’t just comprised of negative reactions. There are more perceptions other than those who are envious or projecting. Everyone’s motive is individual and that should be of no one’s concern. What’s anyone’s motivation toward spending money on anything they like/enjoy? It’s not our business.

Regularly. From my observations, how demanding a client is has little (if anything at all) to do with age. Individual needs and income play a much bigger role than age. Speaking personally, I tend to avoid “demanding” clients, as I feel there is a way to communicate ones wants without being demanding. If someone is demanding something from me, unfortunately we are not going to get along and thankful for the demanding client, the Rentmen archive is huge. I demand respect, above all. “Good luck.”

That thread always read suspicious as hell to me.

It is common. There’s no blueprint for what an evening with an escort should look like. While the majority of the forum may potentially scoff at you for not having sex. It’s not their money nor their evening, now is it? You do what you’re in the mood for and what feels most comfortable for you. Just ensure you communicate this to your provider ahead of time. It’s okay to say “I’d like to hire you for your time, I’m not sure i’ll be in the mood, let’s start with (insert activity/activities) and we’ll take it from there”. Ask him for a quote of roughly how much time out of his schedule you’re likely to occupy.

You’re being paranoid.

I recall. It was on Amsterdam or broadway right? Little dive.

We must’ve been neighbors. I lived on 71st & Columbus above what use to be Cafe Talulah for years!

I’ll be Rita Repulsa.

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It’s still around and seedier than ever. A few years ago, unknowledgeable of the type of place it was I met a client there and NEVER AGAIN. Whenever a client says they’re at the Senton, it’s a stern no from me.

HotelTonight is also great for “clients on a budget,” as it offers 3-5 star hotels for nearly half the cost. Because baby ain’t workin out of then Senton, ever.

Well considering Adonis lounge is a strip club, not a brothel, it’d be best to contact him via regular means. I don’t anticipate someone is going to walk out mid shift to service you. Why not before or after?

100%

God I miss living in Miami. So much Latino trade in Hialeah. Whew.

Hard for me to empathize when clients are seldom all of the above themselves. ...sure.

I don’t think it’s a big deal, at all. I’d be down for it. But not everyone is as open-minded as me. Again, it will greatly vary from person-to-person. You have to communicate what you’re looking with the prospective escort and see how he feels about it. If you have a rentmen client profile, elaborate a little in the content box.

Specific request are what we’e here for. It will greatly vary person-to-person. Will the session require a little bit of role playing as well or you simply want the escort to wear a costume? Speaking personally, I would prefer cosplay over role-play. I’m a horrible actor and it’s difficult for me to pretend something is occurring in the bedroom that is not. It feels unauthentic and I can’t fake it. With that being said, that’s why I always politely decline requests I’m not into; I’m bad at pretending. A costume is much easier. It is essentially the same as a client asking me to rotate, say, a variety of leather looks. I enjoy watching how elated clients look as I change.

Lol, well first.. 1) I’ve found that no gym in NYC is spotless unless it’s Equinox. Even then. 2) Every gym in NYC has “sleaze” (if you consider circle jerking in a stream-room sleaze..) but most have or will eventually disable their steam rooms because the boys don’t know how to behave. Unless it’s Equinox. Where you pay to get away with it. But it’s not the 90s, guys may saunter about and jo in the steam room but no one is actually fucking in the locker rooms. Do that at home. Someone, somewhere can host. 3) Every gym in NYC is crowded during peak hours. The only time a NYC gym will not be crowded is if you go during the day or if you go to a 24Hr gym and go after 9pm. 4) what is your budget? TMPL is in the heart of Hell’s Kitchen and is a newer concept of David Barton’s. It’s not the same price of say, Equinox, but it’s still not a cheap gym. 80% of the gym is gay. A lot of the members have migrated to Equinox. Planet Fitness is also in the heart of HK. Super affordable at ten or twenty dollars a month dependent on if you want solo club or multi-club access. You get what you pay for. While large, it is a very simple gym and can often times get dirty and overcrowded. There are gays, but due to its inexpensive membership rate the clientele can get...kooky. The layout also reminds of, idk, a Sam’s Club. It’s 24 hours also. A lot of Brazilian/Colombian escorts that live in HK go in the wee hours of the morning. Crunch has locations in HK and Chelsea, and has recently rebranded and knocked down some of their pricing to compete with the mid-tier gym (i.e. Blink Fitness). The Chelsea location is very large (in the former location of David Barton Chelsea/YMCA) and very gay. http://www.60by80.com/images/stories/new-york/tourist-information/perch/resources/newyorktoucrunchchelsea01.jpg NYSC is sprinkled about in both neighborhoods but I was never a fan because it’s either too dirty or too sterile. It’s such a quintessential New York gym, I can’t say it’s nice, but it’s functional I guess. Number of gays vary by location. Chelsea Piers. I just know it’s a gargantuan facility and offers....A LOT of everything. Pool, track, boxing rings; it’s essentially a sports complex if that’s your jam. Per what you’re looking for. I think you should go with TMPL or Crunch Chelsea. But don’t forget you have Blink Fitness, CrossFit, Barry’s Bootcamp (which is always very gay if group fitness/bootcamp style environments are your jam).

It is......New York.

It’s 2019. Social media is “the agency.” The number of ultra wealthy client/escort circles is small but they do exist. It takes a referral or a recommendation from another escort or client to grant one access. While taxing, it pays to make friends amongst “colleagues.” A lot of what you gentlemen are describing can also be found at any high end gym in New York or Paris (Equinox/Klay)

That was a lot of...details. What’s the takeaway??

@Mocha I wholeheartedly understand your frustrations, I do, but all of....this, is counterproductive.