Mark4133

This post made me miss my time at Equinox on Market St in the Four Seasons. It was 99% guaranteed cruising, especially in the mornings before work. Met so many guys in the steam room, dry sauna, and back shower (for wheelchairs) with the curtain vs. glass shower door—it’s a bit dizzying how much action goes on there. Anyone else experience that kind of action?

Thanks for posting! Hot...reminds me of some of my first massages in the 90’s as a young adult in San Francisco, from the local newspaper under personals or therapeutic services. Somehow they turned out very similarly although there was much more massage involved!

Hey guys...curious if anyone has received a “wet” treatment (body scrub, vishy shower, mud treatment, hammam experience, etc) at a spa that turned into more? I’ve been thinking about getting one of these treatments and asking for a male therapist. With all of the water and spraying, I have to think the opportunity for him to take his clothes off would be there. I’ve received body scrubs at asian spas where the attendant is in his underwear and definitely gets up under your balls and ass crack but the attendants are usually old, out of shape men and you are out in the open. I also had a treatment at the Kabuki Spa in SF where the masseur starts with you in a bathtub and does a back scrub before the massage. Had a hot masseur who got me hard by scrubbing my chest from behind me—swear he was focuing a lot on my nipples. Unfortunately he gave me a lot of privacy before getting me face down on the massage table, so he missed my hard on.

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I can't say I've had a massage that hasn't turned into something I didn't expect. I've always booked based on what I can tell the services are going to be. I typically avoid the spas at hotels and book off the sites.
 
Regarding the discussion about placement of hands: as a former bodyworker, yes, having the palm up is a good signal. I never gave a massage I didn't know where my junk was in relation to the clients hand etc. That was almost always the sign to me that they wanted to go further, if my junk got a little grope, or brush. In terms of moving my hand as a client, I tend to be a squirmer when getting a massage, constantly moving my limbs, hips etc. when they aren't being worked on.

In summer 1986, I took a solo road trip from the Bay Area to Portland, Oregon. Late at night on my drive back south, I pulled into a rest stop on I-5 intending to sleep in my car for a few hours before continuing. I was a poor college student at the time and didn't want to pay for a motel. Another guy pulled in next to me, cruised me, and we ended up spending the night together fucking in the front seat all night. He was on his way from Seattle to San Diego. In the morning we just said goodbye without exchanging numbers. This was years before cellphones and the internet.
 
A year later, having just graduated from Cal, I was on my second night in Amsterdam at the start of a two-month European vacation hanging out at a bar on Warmoesstraat when the same guy walked in. We both recognized each other, started laughing, and had a few beers. We ended up in bed together that night at his hotel. More comfortable than the car.

I’ve (surprisingly) had multiple experiences at legit spas both in Vegas (the old Mandarin Oriental, Cosmo (twice, different providers)) and SF (Four Seasons, St Regis) and once in India (Oberoi, New Delhi). Also 4 separate Zeel experiences, come to think of it. All were unexpected and had different endings, but generally it starts with grazing, getting a hard-on and then more action. I think we all know the tricks...keep your hands close to the edge of the massage bed, for maximum grazing opportunity...position your cock down between your legs in case he peeks or decides to do a nice inner thigh massage...don’t be shy about getting hard—it’s your way of expressing interest in case he has any doubts. They’ve resulted in hand jobs, some without HE...blow jobs, mutual. Happy to share more experiences—DM me!

Get as close to the edge as possible, palms facing up. If he doesn’t want them there, he may place them closer to your body. It’s still worth a try to move them back out (casually). —might give him the right hint.

This Dan Broughton vid might be a repost. But so hot.
 
https://m.boyfriendtv.com/videos/259886/big-cock-doc-7/

This Dan Broughton vid might be a repost. But so hot.
 
https://m.boyfriendtv.com/videos/259886/big-cock-doc-7/

A bit off subject of massage experiences, but when @@Cruiser7 mentioned barbers who knew how to distance their bodies from touching their clients, it reminded me of a guy I once frequented for haircuts. It was in a chain type salon with both female and male stylists. He was definitely an attractive young guy.
He would routinely maneuver himself so that his think semi hard cock would press against my arm. After a couple of these occurrences, and as the semis became full on hard, I began to acknowledge it by gently pressing back. Nothing was ever said, and nothing ever happened (like his phone number on his card, or such), but it continued as long as I saw him. Wonder what more I could have done, if anything?

He started with casual brushing of his crotch/fly on the side of my hands to test whether I would move my hands away/toward my body. He would reach over my body a lot and lean in to the table and my hands/side body. (Most masseurs keep a distance to the table but he didn’t do that.) I kept my hands pretty steady at first and then started slightly moving my pinkie finger until I felt him pushing harder and until he was hard. I then started rubbing his hard cock through his pants with a full hand as he started working my inner thighs and hole. Then we went and locked the door and the rest is history. It was funny because as he locked the door, he reminded me that he’s not supposed to do this and I told him I was clearly ok with it and wouldn’t report him! ?

It was during the winter break of my freshman year in college. I was in Waikiki, lying on the "gay beach," when a fit older guy approached me. He chatted me up and gave me his business card and offered me a free massage. It was very clear what his intentions were, and I was all for it. He was tall and well-muscled, a former bodybuilder, and a certified massage therapist. (I realize that this reads like a "Dear Penthouse" letter, but just go with it.)
 
He had his massage table set up in front of the TV with a mirror under the head cradle so you could watch gay porn in the reflection. I stripped naked and got on his table. He was very clearly a professional masseur and gave me an excellent massage. While he worked on my back, legs and butt, my hand was introduced to his extremely hard, veiny, and impressively large cock. I was a bit trepidatious at this point as I was fairly new to anal sex. But he was a sweet, tender gentleman and took his time with me.
 
The massage proceeded gloriously with him stretching my body in various positions, maximizing the amount of contact between us. He teased my hole and slowly began to open me up. When he flipped me over onto my back, I was hard and ready. He picked me up and took me into his bedroom. And...well, you know.
 
All this to say my first experience was amazing! It certainly defined an aspect of my sexuality which I continue to enjoy and explore to this day.

One of my massages in Vegas ended up with the masseur locking the door and us both fully naked and having sex on the table. Since his first move started around halfway through a 90 minute massage, we had a lot of playtime.

I had a very similar experience, also at an upscale hotel spa in New Delhi. After the massage, the masseur asked/told me to take a steam in the steamroom and that he would meet me in there to do more massage. A few minutes later, he came in wearing a towel and massaged my shoulders. We ended up jacking each other off and then both cumming. I wanted him to come up to my room but I wasn’t so gutsy at the time. Thanks for reminding me about this hot incident!!

No experience with him. However he also has an ad on a4a. Big guy, 6/1. 205 pounds. "Versatile Top" "Text me about other available services."

Something got me thinking the other day about some hot masseurs who helped me get started with being intimate with men in my late teens/early 20s. There were some memorable masseurs in the SF bay area who you could only find on ads in the Chronicle, the BAR, or Frontiers (no internet ads at the time). Anyone remember Hunter, the marine in the Castro? I had one of my first massages with him and it was actually a threesome, because he already had another guy there. He had an ad in the Chronicle. There was also Steve in San Rafael. He was actually my first ever sensual massage, and let me explore with him sexually—good teacher who was about 20 years older than me. First kiss with a man. Then Kevin in Oakland. He did his massage out of a small studio but let things go beyond massage. Lastly, a guy named Dave who had an apartment across from Kezar stadium. Long haired hippy type with a hot body and very playful. They are all not practicing any more (is my guess) but I really enjoyed those massages and experiences. If you met any of these guys, would like to share stories.

This is a hot video. The beginning of it reminds me of legit massages in foreign countries where they don’t drape so much, they aren’t afraid to get into sensitive spots like the groin, lower abdomen, inner thighs, and they often graze or flat out adjust your cock and balls or move them out of the way to massage certain areas. Not to mention, the massaging the crack with soft, accidental touches to your hole. When I was in India years ago, I stayed at a high end hotel with a spa. They offered massage for $40 for guests so I got one a few times a week. They only allowed same sex therapists so it was easy to get who you want. They used a small hand towel for draping and I often got a hard on with the towel dropping off during the massage. Typically they don’t bother to put the towel back on which allowed them to accidentally graze my cock with their forearm or side of hand. Once it turned sexual but I didn’t mind when it didn’t. I just went straight to the steamroom or shower to jack off.

This is a hot video. The beginning of it reminds me of legit massages in foreign countries where they don’t drape so much, they aren’t afraid to get into sensitive spots like the groin, lower abdomen, inner thighs, and they often graze or flat out adjust your cock and balls or move them out of the way to massage certain areas. Not to mention, the massaging the crack with soft, accidental touches to your hole. When I was in India years ago, I stayed at a high end hotel with a spa. They offered massage for $40 for guests so I got one a few times a week. They only allowed same sex therapists so it was easy to get who you want. They used a small hand towel for draping and I often got a hard on with the towel dropping off during the massage. Typically they don’t bother to put the towel back on which allowed them to accidentally graze my cock with their forearm or side of hand. Once it turned sexual but I didn’t mind when it didn’t. I just went straight to the steamroom or shower to jack off.

This is a hot video. The beginning of it reminds me of legit massages in foreign countries where they don’t drape so much, they aren’t afraid to get into sensitive spots like the groin, lower abdomen, inner thighs, and they often graze or flat out adjust your cock and balls or move them out of the way to massage certain areas. Not to mention, the massaging the crack with soft, accidental touches to your hole. When I was in India years ago, I stayed at a high end hotel with a spa. They offered massage for $40 for guests so I got one a few times a week. They only allowed same sex therapists so it was easy to get who you want. They used a small hand towel for draping and I often got a hard on with the towel dropping off during the massage. Typically they don’t bother to put the towel back on which allowed them to accidentally graze my cock with their forearm or side of hand. Once it turned sexual but I didn’t mind when it didn’t. I just went straight to the steamroom or shower to jack off.

This is a hot video. The beginning of it reminds me of legit massages in foreign countries where they don’t drape so much, they aren’t afraid to get into sensitive spots like the groin, lower abdomen, inner thighs, and they often graze or flat out adjust your cock and balls or move them out of the way to massage certain areas. Not to mention, the massaging the crack with soft, accidental touches to your hole. When I was in India years ago, I stayed at a high end hotel with a spa. They offered massage for $40 for guests so I got one a few times a week. They only allowed same sex therapists so it was easy to get who you want. They used a small hand towel for draping and I often got a hard on with the towel dropping off during the massage. Typically they don’t bother to put the towel back on which allowed them to accidentally graze my cock with their forearm or side of hand. Once it turned sexual but I didn’t mind when it didn’t. I just went straight to the steamroom or shower to jack off.

This is a hot video. The beginning of it reminds me of legit massages in foreign countries where they don’t drape so much, they aren’t afraid to get into sensitive spots like the groin, lower abdomen, inner thighs, and they often graze or flat out adjust your cock and balls or move them out of the way to massage certain areas. Not to mention, the massaging the crack with soft, accidental touches to your hole. When I was in India years ago, I stayed at a high end hotel with a spa. They offered massage for $40 for guests so I got one a few times a week. They only allowed same sex therapists so it was easy to get who you want. They used a small hand towel for draping and I often got a hard on with the towel dropping off during the massage. Typically they don’t bother to put the towel back on which allowed them to accidentally graze my cock with their forearm or side of hand. Once it turned sexual but I didn’t mind when it didn’t. I just went straight to the steamroom or shower to jack off.

This is a hot video. The beginning of it reminds me of legit massages in foreign countries where they don’t drape so much, they aren’t afraid to get into sensitive spots like the groin, lower abdomen, inner thighs, and they often graze or flat out adjust your cock and balls or move them out of the way to massage certain areas. Not to mention, the massaging the crack with soft, accidental touches to your hole. When I was in India years ago, I stayed at a high end hotel with a spa. They offered massage for $40 for guests so I got one a few times a week. They only allowed same sex therapists so it was easy to get who you want. They used a small hand towel for draping and I often got a hard on with the towel dropping off during the massage. Typically they don’t bother to put the towel back on which allowed them to accidentally graze my cock with their forearm or side of hand. Once it turned sexual but I didn’t mind when it didn’t. I just went straight to the steamroom or shower to jack off.

This client has a thick one under his towel
 
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