nycman

Baller, I just found this beautiful thread. Thank you for sharing. While the "family" life was never for me....I do admit to a twinge of jealously when I read your posting and the obvious love and joy they contain. Congratulations on being a great dad!

Fuck...I don't even LIKE blonds....but I'd still do him.....just to complete the trifecta!

I've been a couple of times and I've really enjoyed it. Buff Daddy is a class act and it's reflected in the men he cultivates. Everytime I've gone, each dancer has made it a point to stop by and politely say hello. A little harmless flirting but no hard sells. It hasn't been that busy when I've been there. About 6 dancers and 3-4 patrons at any given point in time. That's fine with me. Personally I don't like too many distractions. I generally lock onto one dude and spend my time and money with him. That's just my nature. I've never noticed jealousy or any pressure from guys I'm not into that particular night....which of course dramatically increases the odds of me spending time with them in the future. You can tell even the guys you're not spending money on are paying attention and trying to make sure you're having a fun time. Smart dancers know their day will come and that what's good for the club is ultimately good for them all. The guys he advertises for the night actually show up...which is a another huge plus. There's no booze....but there are soft drinks and water available. I just stop by a near by bar on my way over and have a martini before hand. I actually prefer that set up. Since I have to drive a good ways to get home....it keeps me out of trouble. The place looks a little industrial and scarey from the outside, but it's actually pretty nice in the room where the dancers are performing and the private rooms are spotless. And there's almost always one Long Island Guido in the mix....what's not to like?

Actually, I believe that is the cap on what they are REQUIRED to offer if they can't get you to your final destination within 2 hours (4 hours international). There's nothing that says they CAN'T offer more.....they're just not REQUIRED to do so. Right now....I'm betting United would be willing to pay a shitload more...to make this all go away. Funny, all the laws seem to be written about being "denied boarding".....he was allowed to board...that wasn't the issue....it's the forceful removal AFTER he was allowed to board.....I don't see such clear laws about that....I'm willing to bet that that's why United it playing up his "disruptive" behavior....for which they CAN forcefully remove you. The lawyers are going to have a field day with this one!

Same here. Sometimes a guy's "private" sexual life and his "professional" sexual life are two very different things. All I care about is his "professional" life. Some guys I've hired are total tops in private, but are worried about getting hard with guys that they're not sexually attracted to, so they're total bottoms professionally.....works for me!

Oh yes...escorts talk. Once after a particularly athletic, sweaty, and fun time with a new hire we were laying in the bed soaking in the afterglow and he rolled over and said "I heard you were a great fuck but I didn't expect THAT!". He quickly realized the slip of his tongue and then clammed up fast about whom had said what about me. It was flattering but nonetheless it was an eye opener for me. Oh yes...escorts talk.

Who on God's green earth would fight AGAINST manspreading? I think it should be MANDATORY! And yes, I agree that this "campaign", "political statement"...or whatever it is....has nothing to do with manspreading. It has to do with the "inappropriate" touching of strangers in public....an entirely different topic in my book. (although I doubt feminists agree with me....and I'm ok with that).

I like my men big, beefy, and bottom..... Seriously...what's not to like?

Damn.... I never wanted to visit Columbus Ohio before.... Fuck....just looked it up.....Things to do in Columbus. Seems a football stdium, a statehouse, and a botanical garden are the "highlights"....seriously? Guess we'll just have to stay inside and fuck all day!

Damn he looks like fun....and I fucking love the name RuffHaus! To me his look is very NYC....not so much LA. Unfortunately I don't know a damn thing about him, but if I were stuck in LA....I'd take one for the team!

Don't know him He's damn cute....but $200 for 60 minutes seems a bit high to me.

Yep...he's still got dippy hair....glad I could help! Grin

He never shows his legs? He tilts his head the same way every time? He only owns one pair of sun glasses? This is like a picture puzzle!....I can't wait for the "correct" answer!

Funny thing is....I bet he thinks his blond hair is his biggest asset. When in fact....it's his worst. For the record....I think his body is hot...and I don't even like twinks!

You're assuming he swallowed....grin

I've always felt New Orleans was a dump. IMHO Katrina didn't wash away ENOUGH. And that's coming from someone who LOVED the East Village in the pre-Giuliani era. Although, I admit I have enjoyed coffee and beignets at Café du Monde at the crack of dawn.... Once the sun comes up though....it quickly returns to being not much more than Mississippi River swampland. And every gay man I've met in a bar there....was more than a little "off"....it's a strange place....and not in a good way.

You'd have to ask him to be doing something "specific" in the selfie. "Hold up 3 fingers"....was very popular...in fact too popular....people were lifting photos from profiles where there were "3 finger selfies" available to steal. Personally, I tend to just take one for the team. If I REALLY cared....I'd ask him to hold a sign up with "NYCman" and today's date on it in the selfie. I've never asked for that, but I have had men provide that without my asking when they sensed I was getting cagey. Every time, it calmed me down and resulted in a very successful hire.

BUSTED!

One of his rent men reviews says his pics are outdated. Just FYI.

Wait! There's a CHANCE? D/C?....NYC?....fuck those dates already passed..... Milwaukee?.....not even for you baby Minneapolis?....seriously....you are wearing me OUT! Raleigh?...I can make that work!!! Palm Springs....wait...is that the Daddy's get together dates.....I was ABOUT to cancel...but NOW?....hmmmmmm! Vegas?...maybe?!?!?.....damn it ...wrong month! Fuck you move around a lot....which of course makes the chase that much more exciting!

Ok...I can't be the only one.....

I try to solve this "uncomfortable situation" by directly handing the escort their money and then immediately excusing myself to the bathroom for a minute or two to give them a chance to count their money without having to do it in front of me. Most don't seem to check it, but I'm not insulted in the least if they do Another option is to spread the bills out next to his clothing while you're getting cleaned up so it's obvious the cash is all there when he's getting dressed.

No information, but my god what a dippy haircut. Too bad, because he looks like he's cute otherwise... Well, except for the blond part.....grin

Are you insulted when the teller at the bank counts your money? When the cashier at McDonald's does it? When the clerk at the Kwik-E-Mart does it? I assume the answer is no and you shouldn't be when an escort does it either. It's a business transaction plain and simple. The more you lose sight of that the more you will get hurt....in many ways.