nycman

And photo #9 on friendboy is two toned. Seriously bad editing on the photos...or at least let’s hope that’s what it is.

Get new friends.

I never knew this. You learn something new every day!

Should I take a job in Shanghai? No....next question please.

That’s not entirely true. I’ve been “out” since my late teens. As I said, everyone around me knows and I don’t hide it. The problem arises when someone new enters my circle. It may not be immediately obvious that I’m queer. Although I don’t hide it, I don’t talk about it every minute of every day either. So for me “coming out” has been an on going process for decades. Other than wearing a rainbow flag on my forehead, I’m not sure what more I’m supposed to do other than to just be frank and honest whenever the topic arises. A funny story.....at the office a few weeks ago they were handing out rainbow flag pins on National Coming Out day. A well intentioned young straight employee timidly approached me to ask if I’d wear one to identify myself as “you know....”just a supporter”....of the LGBTQ community”. I said, “baby, I’ve marched in protest around the White House, sewn quilts till my fingers bleed, paraded down 5th Ave in the blazing sun for decades, repaired bicycles in a tent in the middle of a nor’easter, taught terrified college students how to put on condoms in the middle of a raging epidemic, held the hands of dying strangers, offered HIV testing in a bathhouse at 2 o’clock in the morning, and fucked hundreds of men up the ass....I’m a little bit more than “just a supporter”. His jaw dropped and I took my pin....so yes....it’s an on going process.

In general, I keep my mouth shut about my sexuality. I’m out to all my friends and at work but I just don’t get into daily conversations about it. The only “problem” I’ve had is when I’ve met new people who assume I’m straight. Occasionally they’ll mouth off with some homophobic crap before they realize I’m queer. That makes the conversation awkward for both of us.

Alcohol is always important in a relationship..... Either by the presence of....or lack there of. I’m a one drink a night man. Two is a big night out. None is no problem. Drunks are messy and boring. And active alcoholics are to be avoided at all cost.

I find his threads to be mostly meaningless fluff, occasionally offensive, and once in a blue moon...enlightening. In other words....it’s the same way I feel about 99% of the posters here. He’s just more prolific than the rest of you. One of the things that I love about this message board is that it’s always had a bit of the Wild West feeling. We are, for the most part, left to our own devices. It’s rare and it’s something for which I am very thankful. I’m against censorship in any form. Don’t like the topic of the thread?....skip it.

May I suggest Philadelphia?

I would guess a Petrus 1989. I was a guest and I didn’t ask the price....but I believe it goes for about $3k a bottle .....we drank several....not to worry.....the host’s remarkable cellar had an entire bin full of it along with several other bins full of Petrus from other vintages. For the record....I didn’t think it was all that great.

When I’m clean shaven.....I have a strong preference for clean shaven. When I have a beard....I have a strong preference for beards. I always like goatees....and I always hate mustaches. Strange....but true.

Well...he certainly picked the right RM name. He’s cute....but that mop top hair cut....ugh. When he changes his name to “crewcut”.....let me know.

Even in his porn he looks like a “do me” bottom. In the right scene that can be hot....but usually it gets boring fast.

He got a great sense of humor as well.

Just a reminder to LIVE people! All the money in the world.... can’t save you when your time is up.

I can confirm.... He’s real....southern....cute....and bottoms like a champ!

No THAT I would buy tickets to see!

You say that like it's something unique..... Are you new here? Grin

With the right friends.... The right amount of booze.... The right setting.... The right songs... And the right DJ...... It can be kind of fun. If any one of those 5 things is off...it’s just painful.

Holy Moses...if he is indeed 6’2” and can bottom.....I might be in love!

Lmao...... Hey....if he can get it....and that’s a BIG “if”......more power to him!

It’s not rocket science....it’s inbreding.

Ask me = next. Too many fish......

Of course...Texas was the first to have one.... Correction: My bad...typed too fast....Washington State was first.

I never realized it was Dan Aykroyd.....and of course now it's obvious....lmao!