nycman

I generally like to have a low key catered dinner at home with 10-12 close friends. No presents. No crazy cakes or balloons. Just a civilized dinner. The milestones are another thing....I usually celebrate them with casts of thousands (ok....hundreds). I think people should commemorate birthdays more....fuck it....we survived a fucking plague folks....be thankful and celebrate life!

Yep. Well known scam artist. Move on.

Move on. Would you pay $5 at the grocery store to find out the price of the peaches? Of course not.

I know first hand that your doubt is VERY misplaced. That’s all I’m saying....

lmao...my bad. Masseurs.

It’s a private club. Discussing the masseuses here in public could easily cost them their jobs. Not cool in my book. Have a drink at the bar and discuss with the numerous “not completely straight” other NYAC members there. Discussions outside the club....are not appropriate. One wonders how you ever got in.

I’ve said this before but I had nice experiences with him in Vegas several years ago. We are both tops so the sexual chemistry wasn't 100% for me, but I knew that going into the meeting so I was ok with that. As a masseuse he was Grade A+. Obviously, others have had different experiences and YMMV.

If you didn’t get the reference....don’t feel bad.....neither did Meryl Streep..... Fast forward to 12:20...... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_L59l9EYi0

Unlikely. Any chlamydia and/or gonorrhea that gets on your finger is going to have to come in contact with another “mucous membrane” (e.g. asshole, piss slit, or mouth) in order to infect another person. Most people sticking their fingers in someone’s ass don’t immediately stick those fingers into one of the above listed places in another person.....hence the low risk of transmission. Of course...if you’re fifth in line as a fisting bottom in an all night Pigfest... .....your mileage may vary.

I've got a sweet tooth For licorice drops and jelly roll..... Looks like Hansel needs some “sugar”in his bowl....

You had me at Hieronymus Bosch.....

If you've been there....you’d know that MY bedroom IS a special setting. Grin

Sounds like the guy is an asshole....but I wouldn’t classify the given scenario “dude you can fuck me.....just don’t cum in me......oh fuck you came in me”...as rape. When you let a man put his penis inside you...only a moron doesn’t think there’s a possibility that he’s going to cum inside you. I think we have to be very careful when we start broadening the definition of “rape”. Rape is sexual assault....not just a sexual partner...who happens to be an asshole. To make the ad absurdum argument...what if I say “you can fuck me as long as you don’t touch my balls”...and in the heat of the moment you forget and touch my balls....is that rape?

I don’t know about you..... But my finger isn’t up people’s asses in a “day-to-day”setting. To answer the question, fingering someone without a glove is relatively low risk. Just guessing, but the greatest risk in that senario would be getting herpes on your finger (herpetic whitlow). In theory you could transmit other diseases by fingering multiple holes but that risk would remain the same with or without gloves. Baring an open cut on the finger, I’d say the risk of HIV transmission is near zero. There’s a reason those finger mad lesbians....have the lowest STD rate.

Funny, hand holding in public is a million times more “intimate” to me than all the private fucking and sucking in the world. I think part of it is growing up in a time and place where the very small act of holding another man’s hand in public was a very real and large act of defiance. When you openly held a man’s hand in public you were basically saying to the world ....I’m willing to physically fight and die for this love if I have to. And although times have certainly changed, to this day when I hold your hand in public...in my head..... it’s us against the world. So no, I wouldn’t hold an escort’s hand in public, unless I had grown very close to them ....it’s far too “intimate”....for me.

For those that might not get the reference..... La Gioconda....is the Italian name of the Mona Lisa. And her enigmatic smile. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mona_Lisa

Lucky for you..... I got ALL these Daddy issues!

Long live a well rounded education! The individual elements are not nearly as important as the astounding combination of the integrated whole. Put another way....Shakespeare is meanless.....in isolation. Yet in the context of a well balanced education...he is as important to me as the air I breathe.

Welcome to the forums Arsetiy.....yawn.

Your taste seems to skew towards the younger end of the 20 year olds. There’s nothing wrong with that....just be aware that younger men can have a harder time being “present” for longer periods of time. Granted that’s a sweeping generalization but I’d be sure to do some 2 hour “trial runs” before I committed to an overnight. True of any overnight hire, but even more so they younger they are.

It’s all over the place. Geography is a big factor as well. I pretty much never do overnights in the United States. The fees charged aren’t worth it in my opion. Thankfully Europe is another matter. Also, Europeans seem to better understand the conspect of escorting that extends beyond just bedroom gymnastics. I have shared some truly wonderful evenings with some astoundingly beautiful European men. In America?...not so much.

As I said before....the mass spectrophotometer doesn’t lie. I’m still sad...a man died.

We all kind of assume you see him everyday...... Your apartment does have a mirror....doesn’t it?.....Alex.

“and god help you if you are an ugly girl course too pretty is also your doom cause everyone harbors a secret hatred for the prettiest girl in the room” - Ani Difranco “32 Flavors”

I once randomly sent flowers to a boyfriend’s very public and very gay place of business. I happened to be on the phone with him when they arrived. His shocked, tearful, and heartfelt reaction was priceless. Of course, later he was “mad” at me for causing him to show those emotions in front of his very butch and hunky co-workers....but it was worth it. Send flowers!