Is the attraction sexual or romantic or both to the woman? What about your attraction to men? I have been learning to separate these two types of components of love. Romanticism vs sexuality. For me I have never fallen in love with a man or woman which is why I think I’m aromantic( not to be confused with asexual). I obviously have sexual urges for men. I think that is why I hire for sex, and am satisfied with that alone, without wanting the romantic companionship like kissing, hugging, cuddling, holding hands, saying I love you, that sort of thing.