blackmusclebear

I just tried him and had a good time. A strange technique - he may be self-taught - but he's serious, and very sensual. You can PM me for details.

Yes! Scott was my go to guy when he used to live in NYC (prior to Boston). Saw him regularly. Fantastic deep tissue massage (therapeutic only) and a super nice guy! I highly recommend him.

Hello Guys! This is long overdue but I felt it was time to try and interact up here as well as give a low down on some things about me and maybe clear up some stuff. Someone even said my ad was fake which gave me a laugh as I am real and breathing!!!
 
For any that don't know me I am Brian Strowkes, actor for many sites in the past such as Next Door, Active Duty, Kink , Dirty Tony, and more... I am based in Vegas not any of the small cities my ad sometimes says like Rapid City, etc ( this is because in Vegas there is either a LEO or Jealous Escort posing as so and harrasing prominent guys in the city) I love meeting new people so please reach out if you are coming to the area, I may just be around. I constantly travel to LA, SF, DC, Palm Spring, Denver, PHX, Philly, NYC, Boston, Ohio, Chicago, Baltimore, Raleigh, Miami, Texas, Salt Lake, Pittsburgh, Buffalo/Niagara Falls and a few others also.
 
This brings me to my next point the people who despite not even meeting get up here and try to bad mouth me... I am not a flake and besides the rare emergency that comes up in life you can guarantee I will be there if treated with respect during communication. With that being said I kind of wanted to break down some of the things that are off putting for me when communicating with prospective dates and also just some generals things about me:
 
1. If you just message "Hi" initially (that's it just Hi), I used to reply but just realized 99% of these aren't serious and waste time. If you are the serious 1% please just please introduce yourself a little more.
 
2. You fail to read my interests that are clearly listed on the profile and continue to ask unnecessary questions.
 
3. " How much for sex" or any similar explicit question is going to instantly sketch me out.. I am available for my time .
 
4. If I provide you with my donation for time and you come back in a offensive low ball manner and derogatory comment.
 
5. I always can usually host or travel when in a city for the same rate for time both ways.
 
6.Asking for more pictures or more explicit/private photos... My ad photos are current and nude mostly.. and are also listed by date. I haven't gotten fat ( This is the funniest question I get asked)
 
7. I may be kind of straight forward when setting up but if we confirm expect a sweet sweet southern boy to show up. I have to weed out the aggressive and rude dates as I prefer to not meet them for my safety.
 
8. I wrestle or play tennis tournaments while traveling usually so sometimes I do just get busy and can't reply instantly like some expect.. Sorry guys life happens but I also try to get back ASAP!!
 
I really hope this helps clear up some things or any confusion and I look forward to meeting all of you. If by chance we missed a connection in the past.. feel free to say hi again! If we have met say hi again up here Positive Vibes to everyone out here in this Jungle we are living in lol
Link - https://rent.men/Brianstrowkes

Herb

Am I the only one who thinks that starting to moan (during what's supposed to be a therapeutic massage) is odd and creepy?

Here's another approach to consider that might provide the opportunity to move things forward but also a relationship saving "out" should he not be interested or ready to provide any additional services.
 
The next time you're on the table, assuming the same thorough leg and butt massage and your same reaction, think about saying something along the lines of "I'm sorry, you're going to need to slow down. This feels so good, it's gotten me kind of excited. I'm kind of embarrassed. I apologize."
 
In this approach you are being very respectful of him, apologizing for something that's an uncontrollable response to the massage he's providing. He has the choice to continue what he's doing knowing that you're excited, or stop if that was not his intention. It doesn't put you or him in the situation where you're asking for help and he has to agree or decline. It might be hard for him (excuse me) to verbally acknowledge his interest or consent, but he may be OK continuing what you're doing without verbally acknowledging it.
 
If he continues, I wouldn't push it. I'd let what happens, happen even if it's just you letting fly solo. If he does continue, you might consider one more warning - "man if you keep going I think I'm going to cum".
 
I'd be profuse in my gratitude and ensure the tip reflects that gratitude. You can see what happens the next time. Maybe things will go even further.
 
Just my two cents.
 
I had a similar circumstance with a thai masseur I went to for quite a while. Nothing major came from it, but I really enjoyed the sexual tension and his playfulness at each of our sessions (and I think he did too).
 
Please keep us posted! This is fun.

Personally, it looks like he just got out of a Psychiatric facility.

https://nymassageaddict283494918.files.wordpress.com/2018/09/state-of-spas.pdf
 
Results here.
 
If you don't have the patience to read, in short, Utopia is the clear and away winner. Babylon gets props, 27 Men's Spa seems to be a spa on the rise.
 
Enjoy.

https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/blackstallionla
 
Anyone? There's a reference to a blackstallionla on rentmen in this thread - but the ad is gone/expired: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-blackstallionla.125841/

Update: Thanks to all who PM’ed about Living Fresh. I went today and would move this from the “hit and miss” category to the “skip it” category. Seems to have gone downhill. Massage wasn’t great and neither were extras. Mileage varies, of course, but I would recommend.

Didn't have to do it in the past and wasn't an issue to anyone but you of course but anyway if u have any useful information other than correcting everyone, speak and if you dont, move on!

I'm sure this is not your intent, but your posts are really not sitting well with me as I'm finding them borderline offensive. I'm fully aware of HIV testing information, and do not require said information bolded. Additionally, your mention of age ('Seems like this is something I should say to a 18 year old person, but I'm sure you are much older...') in your initial post above is entirely irrelevant and comes across as quite judgmental to me. Once again, perhaps this was not your intent but this is the impact your comments are leaving with me, and is the exact reason why some people are reluctant to come forward to share these types of experiences. I posted this information in the forum to share my experience, and also let others who may have had similar experiences know they are not alone. I respectfully ask that you reflect on this information and think twice before you make similar posts in the future.

Hey guys , it’s Ragin.
 
I’ve seen messages inquiring what happened to me so I just wanted to let past clients in NYC know that I never stopped giving massages.
 
I left SMS because of time constraints. I’m in the process of launching a software startup with some friends, so that’s where most of my time goes these days. However I still give outcall massages (and bring my own table).
 
I’d like to make it clear that I don’t offer extra services though. No offense or judgement to those who do, it’s just not for me. I’ve been massaging for 5 years now. When I first really got into it I was homeless in LA and many many guys (usually older) tried to pressure me into providing extras in exchange for food/housing/extra money/etc. Most became disrespectful when I’d decline.
 
I know a lot of lgbt youth (especially foreigners) who’ve fallen into unhealthy lifestyles because of these types of pressures. This has always left a bitter taste in my mouth (no pun intended lol) because I have a soft spot for our community, especially the youth. So long story short, I just prefer to keep professional work and private fun separate. Hopefully that’s understandable to most.
 
Anyway this has gotten long-winded so I’ll just say that my massages are as great as ever and still sensual without being sexual. I think most of my old reviews spoke to that fact. As long as you’re respectful and don’t approach me in a rude or entitled manner, you’ll get a friendly disposition and awesome massage.
 
If that works for you, I can be booked at
fitguymassage.com
(^hopefully this doesn’t count as advertising lol)
 
Or just message me here or on IG or Twitter under the same username.

I opened my Scruff and Grindr on arriving and immediately I started receiving messages offering massage in my hotel room from some of the world's best looking men. While getting sex in Turkey is pretty easy I wanted the massage experience and booked a four handed massage with two amazing looking fellows. They were at my hotel an hour later and discovered they couldn't actually speak English but used a translation device, which worked fine. They stripped to their underwear and started a splendid four handed massage with synchronized techniques, And despite my attraction I also wanted the massage after a 12 hour flight. when I turned over I saw that they were both hard and at that point it was hard to not just start having sex. One of the guys had the perfect ass so I shifted him over and started rimming him which made him go crazy, i ended up swallowing both of their loads and after we took a relaxing shower together, laughing at our awkward communication and kissing. I only regretted not being able to see them again, or book the scores of other hot masseurs on the APPS. I asked my Turkish gay friends why this unusual massage culture existed and they said that the Arab men from the Gulf prefer sex if its paid - and therefore higher quality and "worth it" so many Turkish men acclimate to massaging as a way of having an active sex life with the tourists. It was about $120 US for this journey to paradise.

Variety is the "spice" of life. Yes, I do.
 
Each has their own unique style that I value and cherish. It's fun to catch up with them on what's new in their lives and it feels like the first session sometimes.
 
I also think is helps to spread the wealth so to speak.

Well guys , I was too curious, so I took the plunge, and let me tell you, those eyes are real. He is really a gorgeous man, amazing body, however, the pictures make him look more muscular, but regardless he has an amazing body. Overall, not a bad experience but I will definetley not repeat.

I haven't been with him, but I have seen him walking the street and he is very sexy

I have always been curious cause he has so many great reviews.

For that price point, I would hire a professional to dance for me on an hourly basis, in the comfort of a luxury hotel room with warm towels and running water. And you would not worry about the liquor laws, since you will have your own bar. Create your own 2for1 special.
 
If the dancers are mediocre, that is a poor value proposition. Unless......it comes with a really good kiss on the neck.

I've seen him several times over the course of 10 years. I haven't seen him since last June. Wonderful massage. In my experience, he has gone over the allotted time. Nice guy. Looks like his photos.

I've seen him a couple of times too. Very nice guy and gave a great massage (he had started a 'spa-type' package that included a bunch of somewhat out-of-the-ordinary but very nice and soothing experiences that i would recommend as well).

Saw him tonight, thought he was excellent. Feel free to PM for more info.

I had my only massage with Alex over one year ago. I see him at the gym frequently and his photos are recent. He is a good masseur no question, his kneading is focused (opposite of Californian massage) and effective. He told me he does sensual massage but there is nothing sensual in his. He told me he is married to a woman and that he is not gay; nor was his demeanor gay-friendly. Thus, he does not like to be touched and when he started a sort of HE, it was so cold and mechanic that I said stop. His place is small but well appointed, large bathroom, very clean and neat. However he booked the next client exactly one hour after mine, so I had to rush to get a shower. In short: you want a good sports massage and nothing else, Alex can be your man. He is a clock watcher though.

Jake is my first choice in DC.