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blackmusclebear got a reaction from NYSlim in NYC recommendations for deep tissue / sports massage?
I second Leo! Great guy and massage! And sexy AF
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from Massageislife in NYC recommendations for deep tissue / sports massage?
I second Leo! Great guy and massage! And sexy AF
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from thomas in NYC recommendations for deep tissue / sports massage?
I second Leo! Great guy and massage! And sexy AF
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blackmusclebear reacted to pubic_assistance in 411 on Adamzz in NYC
I've met more than a few masseurs over the years who had some objections to full escorting, even though they provided erotic massage sessions. Eventually the number of regular clients asking for more is a temptation that gets them past their moral objection to the business of pounding for pay.
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blackmusclebear reacted to Aa11aa in 411 on Adamzz in NYC
I saw him about a month or so ago. Very handsome man (for those concerned about looks and not seeing his face). Looks like a mix between Latino and middle eastern. His body is exactly as show in pictures. He hosted in a very clean apt in Harlem. Massage skills I would say were a B at best, a lot of slow rubbing and light pressure. The extras were okay, definitely nowhere what I would call tantric but still a fun time. I wasn’t looking for a super erotic experience so he may be open to more with someone looking for that experience. He’s absolutely good looking and very kind. Also fairly generous with his body, so it made up for the parts that were lacking. I don’t remember what I paid but I do remember it was on the higher side. I would repeat.
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blackmusclebear reacted to musclvr in MassNow in London? A/KA Lipe
I met with Massnow.
The shirtless pics in his rentmasseur profile are reasonably accurate. He's hairier and has more of a muscular, rugby-build, with no sign of an 8-pack. Handsome, mixed-race guy from Brazil. Very friendly, conversational, good English. The pictures in his ad showing a massage session are not him, because he is free of tats.
As John Galt reported, the massage moved quickly to sensual. The massage itself was more Swedish with a little deep-tissue here and there. For my tastes, there was too little actual massage before it move to sensual and then to erotic. Maybe it was because what I had communicated to him in advance about what I was looking for in a session.
The session delivered everything I asked for, done mostly well and with passion. But it felt like an express meal service. I like longish sessions, with a slow build-up. This was not. After I left, I realized that my 2-hour session was only 1-hour, and that I had paid for 2 hours. I thought that the time had flown by and didn't think to look at the time until I was out on the street in the throngs in Chinatown.
Would I repeat? No. London has so many other choices. My London fav remains MasseurBrazil, who is currently traveling.
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blackmusclebear reacted to musclvr in MassNow in London? A/KA Lipe
By the way, your avatar, Michael B. Jordan in Black Panther? Still gets my heart all a-flutter. Or, really MBJ in anything. Preferably in a state of undress.
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from Jared77 in 411 on AlejandroVegaz
Was looking into him as well for my trip to Seattle
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from musclestuduws in Equinox Steam Rooms (NYC)
I’ve been a member for a while and it’s actually been pretty rare for that to happen. When I used to goto NYSC it was a thing that happened often and I participated.
I recommend going during down times. 50th and Columbus Circle are pretty notorious but I wouldn’t risk my member on a moment unless it happened naturally.
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from Norcalbidad in Wi Spa in LA
Now I have to look into Grand Spa @Pd1_jap!
Whenever I'm visiting LA, I go to Wi Spa to relax and look at hot naked guys but never expect any action. I just enjoy my time there and have a meal. Last time I went in October I did meet a hot guy on Grindr that lived by Wi Spa and he made up for everything.
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from EastbayMike in 411 Topherfit in NYC
I think he’s the sexiest out of the trio.
Curious how his services are solo.
6 hands feels like a lot and 2 of those hands probably aren’t doing much.
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blackmusclebear reacted to + ThroatCummer in 411 on Jared_Cross in NYC
Private, constructive, authentic feedback is the best. It really helps 10x more than a review in which the reviewer is writing to the public and not the escort themselves.
Take some time to think about your expectations for the sessions. Think about where it fell down and you were left feeling less than 100% satisfied. Consider your own mindset going into the session. Read it over and maybe re-write some of it once or twice before sending it directly to him in a private message. Sprinkle in some words about you maybe not being 100% upfront and forward with what you wanted, that this was your first time hiring (even if he knows, mention it twice more), and give him a solid three tips to improve his future escorting from your perspective of your time with him. Most importantly, come from a place where you want to develop him into the best escort he could be.
If he's truly into this business for the right reasons and loves what he does, he will also love your feedback. He may not reply at all and that is okay. He may also reply and be a total dick. If that is the case, you have your answer about the session and that may actually warrant a negative review.
BUT. If he values your feedback and genuinely wants to improve, there's a chance you get a free or severely discounted repeat session out of it. In fact, I would argue a repeat session with him would also be so much better than you would be expecting. He would be offering that in order to improve his skills as an escort. That means he is, or will eventually be, an amazing escort.
People in general value good feedback and genuine concern for their development, no matter the industry. It's how you make actual connections in life. Authenticity, when delivered this way, isn't just a catchword people throw around these days. It's life-altering.
Just my constructive feedback to you.
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blackmusclebear reacted to + azdr0710 in First time hiring a provider
you don't need to send him pictures or video as long as you've described yourself accurately.....all sounds set as long as you've come to an agreement on the cost, meet place and time, and other logistics.....don't pre-pay or send a deposit, but tell him you'll pay at the end if he wonders (you may need to flash the money at the beginning to appease any worries he may express)......smile, talk slowly, look him in the eye, firm handshake, fun and kick-back time.......don't send too many giddy texts!!.....a quick reconfirmation at some point tomorrow, then let him do the texting if he's coming to you......if going to him, one "here" text to him and he'll let you know if he's ready........some small talk, then offer to massage him a bit, then let him start pushing you around (if he hasn't started already)......I assume you picked somebody who is comfortable and experienced with what you want to happen......if you want more advice for a newbie.......
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/
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blackmusclebear reacted to SouthOfTheBorder in Usual rates for hiring in NYC?
right - because I’ve lived here for years, I’m not stupid & understand there is no need to overpay for same services that can be had for less
advice to people visiting nyc - pick your top 5 and compare rates & availability. $300-$350 is the going one hour rate. It should be less per hour if booking multiples. Look for providers that have lived in ny for years, not the visiting providers or new arrivals. If quoted more than $350, buyer beware. If they ask for Uber after the negotiations are finalized, cancel & move on to the next. There are many options & you don’t need to overpay. Dont pay a deposit & tip only for superior service. if you can avoid letting the provider know you’re a tourist, that’s advisable
*if you’re a celebrity, politician or member of the 1% - disregard
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blackmusclebear reacted to allyouknow in NYC Muscle Masseurs Who Might Bottom
wait a minute you guys have sex with Masseurs?
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blackmusclebear reacted to lanyc in NYC Muscle Masseurs Who Might Bottom
Thanks for the passive-aggressive help!
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from Unonymous30xxx in 411 in Brewster_Masseur in NYC
I would probably hire him for his other services instead of the massage. That ass looks incredible.
New profile and no reviews is a hinderance.
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blackmusclebear reacted to pubic_assistance in 411 in Brewster_Masseur in NYC
Thank goodness.
I'd hate to think that ass wasn't available a la carte
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blackmusclebear reacted to Fidler in 411 in Brewster_Masseur in NYC
I tried him out today. He was as good or better than his pictures and the massage was actually quite professional and good. Though he was nude throughout, the erotic part was reserved for a HE at the very end, with very limited mutual touch. I enjoyed the experience but not sure i would repeat unless there was a hint that he was was willing to do more. Nice guy who is very hot.
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blackmusclebear reacted to prof in Mexico City Masseurs
I logged on to recommend RobertoCarlos and saw that someone beat me to it. I saw him in Chicago. When I tried to reschedule, he was in Mex City, & he did not make the promised return. Warm, welcoming, intuitive, skilled, generous--everthing I had hoped for, plus a few things I had not imagined. No upsell. Genuinely nice guy, plus incredibly hot. Book him now!!
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blackmusclebear reacted to + KensingtonHomo in Eli in NYC
This is a perfect example of why this forum is so great. For those who had great experiences, that's absolutely awesome.
But based on his "mercurial" personality, I wouldn't risk a bad or disappointing experience by booking him. There are other, more reliable providers with great reviews or whom I've previously seen to risk my money on someone who's giving "Jekyll/Hyde" to certain clients.
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blackmusclebear reacted to sportymilguy in Eli in NYC
By chance does anyone have the photo of Eli's penis? I remember it being quite impressive.
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blackmusclebear reacted to Michael PhD in Eli in NYC
That has happened to me with others. I usually chalk it up to the fact that I scheduled a massage and cannot assume anything more will happen unless it’s specified. I now try to read the room and more often than not, let the masseur take the lead until I know where things are headed. Then it’s go time and I match their enthusiasm for more.
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blackmusclebear got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Andrew in Chicago
I forgot to report back from my earlier comment on Andrew.
I got a massage from him over the Summer. Nice young guy. Made me feel comfortable. Less toned than his pics but still cute.
The massage was good but I personally wouldn't repeat. HE was given by R2D2
It might be a YMMV type situation.
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blackmusclebear reacted to Frog in Is cum tasty?
A couple of years ago I was in the US on business, travelling with a younger (29), super good-looking, male work colleague and we were sharing a room. Keeping it professional we were, of course, in separate beds!
On the second night, I woke up in the middle of the night to hear him mid 'dangerous wank'. The sound of his muffled breathing and slow stroking of his cock was more than I could bear and so, without him knowing (I hope), I joined him stroke for stroke before, judging from his stifled sigh, we both came at the same time.
I guess we must have just both fallen asleep, but in the morning, while he was down at breakfast, I found his cum-stained briefs tucked under his bed where he'd cleaned up from his nocturnal emission. The cum was still damp from the night before and so I put them in my mouth, shot my load alongside his and, now wet with my fresh morning load, put them back where I'd found them.
Plenty more stories just like that...!