Gymowner

Aaron im so glad you really enjoyed your time with this uber stud. He is the most courteous, "southern gentleman" you could ever find! If you like super clean cut blond muscle with the most insane quads, guys you gotta hit him up. Spoke with him recently and he may be coming to vegas at the beginning of the year for a time to get away from the midwest cold and give his vegas muscle addicts some much needed time with him.

Oh crushme... vegas diesel is so up your alley it's not even funny! And he is now out of southern indiana! Sent me a video of him cutting and he is sliced right now and huge. Handsome as anyone on the sites and the most genuine wholesome respectful guy you could ever be around!! He is not a sex escort. If muscle worship is your thing RUN to him!

Well said. It has to boil down to one thing....CHARACTER. I said this about one of Reese's escort friends once and was attacked unmercifully for it. Yes they have great bodies. Yes they have personalities. It takes time to see a person for who they truely are and that is thru their CHARACTER. If this same text said "nig@#%r, fuck you go die" and a black man came on saying how well he got along with the escort and that he was sure it was a mistake, how would we all feel then? Is it ok to rationalize behavior again because of muscle and dick size? The escort has every right to say what he wants about how he feels. We also have the right to choose how we want to react to it. Character is so often looked over in our society.

$350 wouldn't be bad if he fucked your brains out, stayed hard the entire time and exploded like a volcano. Since you have no idea of this, offer him $250 and a $100 tip if you feel he did a job well done. Negotiate men... negotiate!

Everyone can do what they want. Its their freedom of choice to do so. I'm scratching my head though at other threads where an escort came out as a conservative or was known to say the "n" word. Oh my lord how people would cut him up, claim to never see him again etc. Yet when a muscle monkey says to one gay, he says to ALL gays, "go get aids and die" because he has a big cock he will still have his faithful followers. If one of my faves EVER was proven to do such I would drop them in a nano-second. Difference I guess of each of our feeling of self worth here. I have no need of muscle to ever be in my life to be or feel validated. Plenty of other people or things to fulfill me in life. This is how the text would go.. "so and so, I saw your horrible proven remarks on m4m today. While I enjoyed our time immensely I cannot continue to see you. I just wouldn't be comfortable knowing this is how you felt about me as well. That was a very horrible decision on your part. I wish you well and hope you grow as a person. Good luck". And that would be it!

I text him about 8 months ago. Told him what I was interested in. He quoted me his price "x". I replied back that for what I was looking for other top notch escorts I give them "y" and they are happy. He then replied back with a lol then said " I wouldn't get out of bed for "y". You better stickto your "top notch" escorts then. Little did he know that one is a very good friend of his! Appears he has disdain for his way of making money to fund his lifestyle. If all goes well he may or may not show up for the appointment (this has happened to many here), yet if you challenge his position, very arrogant or down right vile things come out showing his true regards. I wouldnt be surprised when he text the "go get aids and die queer" he was partying it up and had a good laugh with all around him.

I for one usually hire only straight guys. For reasons I've mention on the boards in the past. Most straight guys are awesome! Was at piranha nightclub last night. Met a guy that was a hottie. Vibe he was straight. Sure enough his girl came over. Had a great open chat with him. He even mentioned he did a solo video in the past for a porn company. Man he was just an easy going awesome guy. Cant agree more to not pigeonhole everyone into being a hater. That being said, when we do come across one... hit him where it hurts the most...not on the chin...in his pocketbook!

interesting that rosanne lost a huge mega million dollar contract for saying something off putting and ignorant yet not nearly as offensive as "i hope you get aids and die". boycotts all over the place until she lost everything. i hope we as a community can do the same for this level of hateful intolerance with the same said outcome. if not, then we should be ashamed of ourselves to put a muscled body and "getting off" above our humanity and dignity.

telling someone to go and die, especially from such a horrible horrible disease allows noone in my book to stick up for such actions...period!

Not at all

Supporting your position by generalizing straight men to act like this is about as repugnant as the idiot who made the statement. When heterosexuals made generalized claims about "queers' to support their position all hell broke loose. How easy it really is to be a bigot eh?

This is an asshole. Does this idiot realize that more than likely 1/4 of his clientele has the virus? Maybe hatred for what he does and who he is?

Wow this is a douche bag. That is the number in his ad. I text him and his remarks to me were less than flattering I can assure. Not to this degree but I never hired nor ever will.

apollo phoenix did do a gay vid of sorts with the guy from sg4ge. he got a blow job from the dude.

sexymonk sums it up perfectly. i wonder how many of the men lending out their hard earned $$ do it for reasons of insecurity and the need to feel liked. talk among yourselves.

Florida, yes there are good guys out there. The good ones will put the "onus" on themselves and trying to find a way to earn the money. Not "borrow" which really means "give it to me".

And one more thing guys. A legit escort would offer to set up an additional session so he wouldn't have to ask to borrow the money. "So and so... I'm really in a jam financially and need money quickly. Can I ask a favor? Can we schedule a session in the next day or so so I will be able to pay my bill"? That would be a legit person asking for a legit way to make, not borrow quick cash. Guys... please, please, please read this and learn the lessons from those who have already made these mistakes. And if you are so smitten, so "in love" with the said escort, stop and go directly to a shrink and figure out why you have such a need to be dumped on. Makes it sound like the woman who writes, then falls in love with the inmate in prison.

Sorry guys but again scratching my head here. Not trying to put anyone down yet we all have to grow up here and be smart about it. Generosity is fine. If he asked for the money..GIVE it to him no questions asked. If you cant afford that when he asks to borrow money tell him "better yet let's have an extra session on x and you can leave with that money after the session". My regular who has moved recently lost a day job he had. Somewhat bummed out knowing money would be tight till he left. I said "I have an idea. Let's get together twice a week instead of once a week till you leave". Helped him out financially and no need to ever ask me to borrow any money (this is a great guy and I highly doubt he would have ever asked in the first place). Benelovency is an awesome thing. Give freely and generously when someone is in need. Setting up a situation to be taken advantage of is another.

Tom, I dont know if his tone is demeaning. I know I for one am trying to help. We are talking about grown men here... not children. He is correct if self esteem is an issue from things that did or didnt happen in life, money would be better off used to find out why these issues are here in the first place. Let's not forget what the escort is for. An hour or two of companionship. To go beyond that needs to be looked at.

So Living... what is your said "optimism" in this sort of situation? That the escort becomes even more gorgeous over time while finally stating to the world " this John is the best human being I have ever met. I am becomming attracted to him day by day and cant stop thinking about him. I no longer want to take money from him but will ask to move in next week with him" You use supporting writings to make a point. Yet what concerns me is that your last paragraph doesnt try to help the John say "no" to these warning signs yet make a point of others using "defensive pessimism" when trying to help. When a mother sees her child putting his hand up to a fire on the stove she quickly takes him away and gives him a lecture with "defensive pessimism". Is that wrong? Or should she help him "identify the warning signs so that next time he is better prepared? Both are parenting to help. Just a different way to help create the urgency to not do something again. That is the point here.

Everyone needs to wake up, stop thinking with the little head and please stop calling and thinking of these guys as any sort of "gods" whatsoever. Please stop that! Most of the guys hiring are far more successful, have led far more interesting lives and need to start acting and thinking like the status of people they are. Thinking anyone is a "god" creates the thought process that that person is far inferior than the one that is a "god". Man what a lousy way to think or live. Which leads to this sort of manipulation and taking advantage of. Who is more at fault? The one doing the taking advantage of or the one allowing this to happen? Guys.... most on here have really big things to deal with and have accomplished in life to let such a trivial thing like getting off or needing false friendships with a young good looking guy to even be having such discussions. Once in awhile companionship...sure. think about this guys! Noone is putting anyone down here but damn, wake up men! Again....they have what we WANT. We have what they NEED. Who do you think is in control and holding all the cards? Alot of bad poker players here I'm afraid.

I love when guys with huge cocks get an arm sleeve around it...an arm sleeve!! Imagine if you were the tattoo artist on that one "sir you have to keep that monster hard the whole time I'm at work on it. It will take a few hours. Go take a few viagara and I'll make sure to do my best keeping it rock hard the whole time". Whew!!!

Tom it seems to be very prevalent on these boards that many many gay men fawn over their "muscle gods" to a point that if they saw the "muscle god" shoot someone in the head they would justify a reason for it since their beauty clouds all sanity. We see it over and over here. I wouldn't say it is a "diss" as much as it's a wake up call. When you hear the same thing over and over it gets kinda crazy. If one guy on here can snap into sanity just when one of these "muscle gods" is ready to go in for the kill and stop him in his tracks, then all will be worth it.

just make sure you keep it on a business level and you should bo ok. guys...im not saying to be still and unfealing with the escort. on the contrary! the time you spend with the escort should be warm and to your needs for that time. to "hope" it goes beyond anything but this is the foolish part. as wolfer said above, many people in many situations fool themselves and get taken advantage of.

wolfer you said it perfectly!