Gymowner

it can be if you dont block the conversion of DHT. it only makes you lose hair though if you are genetically programmed to lose hair in the first place. just makes it happen faster. many "mass monsters" have beautiful heads of hair. think regan grimes. other shave the head quickly. think james hollingshead.

well you are correct. the guy i know casually thats also an escort said he got high at a clients place (drug user) and the client went and got the trimix and injected it. he was really scared that his "moneymaker" was gonna be on welfare after that! he said it actually was starting to turn blue and the doctors though not only would he have serious long term problems but might have had to cut out dead tissue if it didnt get better quickly. i havent talked to him since we knew each other out casually so i dont know what happened to him.

i knew a young escort casually... not from a hired position. he told me he was in the hospital. that he may lose some of his ability in the future to have an erection. it was from someone injecting too much of the trimix into his crank. said he had a hard on for something like 12 hours before he went to the E.R.

just saw him in a video. dont know how old the video is but he was hot as fuck in it! he had a terrible reputation in the past for too much partying, prima donna ways and blowing off appointments and sessions. supposedly a hard drug user. hopefully he cleaned up his act. "anything goes". if you are on prep id say go for it. his ass was amazing in that video.

Fuck yes!!

Exactly!! I would pick up the tab of course, but I have never nor would I ever pay for just a persons time. I've had a wonderful colorful life. They should pay ME to hear my stories!

sin... you are right on the money buddy! im going to continue as i said with what DOES work in our playtime and not push this to collapse everything. thanks for the feedback.

Very much so. My first real wish is I wanna see him dominate and toss around another bodybuilder then fuck him senseless. At the end fuck my toy while other bodybuilder is riding him silly. Boy toy is super, super strong. The escort draven navarro would be perfect, lives in my town and would LOVE this (I've hired draven before) but alas "too much testosterone in the room" boytoy says when I asked him about this. I have to respect his boundaries if I want his "jr" to work right and be happy. Sigh! I just have to be content with our get togethers as they are (which are awesome) and not push this and fuck everything up. This is just a gym buddy so I need to keep everything in perspective I guess

You bet I have. Numerous toys and even he even tried poppers. He is so tight getting a finger in is a task! I have been at the "point of entry" with jr so many times and right then his muscle contracts so hard it just forces jr out no matter how hard I try to stay there. Even the outer "ring" is extremely hard to get past at times. He continues to try because I am gentle and concerning. He has said if I ever tried to force it in like so many guys would he would end the session right there. He really does try. It's not smoke and mirrors. Now mind you this is all with him breathing and saying "I'm trying to relax and want it to feel good". I really think it's more of a mental "shutdown" there than a physiological one. He is a very alpha dominant type guy. Sweet but alpha. I just think his mind thinks "hey I'm not suppose to be in this position. I'm the alpha" subconsciously and literally forces out anything. Hence why he says a female diverting his attention on her and his masculinity in check might allow it to happen. He is actually telling me something. I'm just not wanting to listen. I just dont want to put out the effort and time for it to backfire I thought of the FTM idea because it still would be a stretch for him. He would get a pussy but not a big tit feminine chick he would wanna fuck all night. If it still couldn't happen with the FTM I'm sure he would just say "ok I tried. Let's end this" verses with a hot chick "hey I tried so let me just fuck her here a few times while she ready to go". Lol Mind you, we have an awesome time regardless but I think I'm just gonna have to try my bucket wishlist fantasy with another hot muscle straight guy some other time...sigh!

i agree sin. if i really thought this bucket wishlist fantasy of mine could be pulled off with the boytoy i would have just contacted the cute chick that said she was down for it and i would be writing about the event.

i dont know that he will but he said he thinks he would be able to bottom if he got to play with a real vagina and fuck it first. then assume my position for my fantasy. i never said nor hopefully implied that. he definitely wants me to get a female.... period. im not interested if he isnt already a willing and eager bottom. he is not. we were going in that direction then our sessions went back to him "ow this hurts too much" and it being like fort knox down there. he says "im sure i will be able to do it if i concentrate on the woman on top of me". yeah right! so i'm the one who suggested a FTM. a sort of compromise. he gets a real pussy to focus on and at least im not totally uncomfortable with a vagina in my face if its attached to a cute dude and not boobs, perfume and fake fingernails. now, if he is true to his word with the FTM riding him, he opens up and allows me to readily top him and both of us bring him to orgasm in that position... bingo! at that point i would be very willing to try the same thing with a woman the next time.

JEC you are right. I think what causes so much frustration in our community towards sexuality is the lack of understanding that there are parameters and definitions out in society. We all know of the gay that says "oh... he got a blow job from a guy once. See.... he really is gay. I knew it!". WRONG! it's been discussed like that on this board numerous times. And you can tell the gay is irritated by others when they dispute that allegation. If we allow ourselves to understand definitions it also helps us understand our own basic limitations we have and should have within others definitions. THEE #1 complaint I have heard over and over from straight guys (escorts, friends, etc) is gays that have no respect for the straight guys boundaries. "I enjoyed myself out at the gay bar with you last night but damn some of those gays were so aggressive towards me and felt they could grab me and just do or say whatever they wanted with me. When I said I was straight they said "yeah right" and rolled their eyes". I'll be done with this jibber jabber. I didnt mean to seem to hijack this thread about a handsome hot escort who had a wife but was said to bottom with men....At least for money. I was trying to piece together his situation in a plausible way that made sense to all. Again, let's go back and focus on this hottie. Sorry guys!

so far luke is definitely the best escort to fit this description without involving the boy toy and getting his opinion. i looked at luke's expired ad and as luck would have it he was in las vegas(!) but his ad has lapsed. one cant get the phone number for texting when an ad is expired. does anyone have luke's contact information that you could privately dm me with?

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https://expressinformer.com/transgender-man-opens-up-about-how-becoming-a-bodybuilder-helped-him-overcome-his-insecurities/&psig=AOvVaw0s3QAmS0x3Ew7WkKNOyf8R&ust=1599177822876000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAIQjRxqFwoTCODtw-TXy-sCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAj something like this would be a home run! https://64.media.tumblr.com/1584e6b98763cc52cb56d642475c5971/tumblr_o5ym0kBbFW1qjatuho1_400.jpg this would be a grand slam! https://i.pinimg.com/originals/08/5f/66/085f665b77438fafd9bf4853e3fdafe1.jpg i may fuck this one without the boy toy there!

luke so far is the closest i am thinking of. i have to be cognizant of the boy toys ability to transfer the thought of "its a guy im fucking" to being able to focus on "yeah thats a pussy down there all right. feels just like it". if there is too much hair or bush it may just be too much for junior's arousal. but im sure that sort of thing when i pick out the right one can all be requested and adjusted for. keep em coming guys!

AOG thanks for sharing that! imho from your description above your friend is still a bisexed heterosexual. not a bad thing at all, actually terrific! if he would have had stories of "when i was a young man i couldnt stop having a crush on a guy in gym class, i was so jealous when my crush asked a girl to the prom etc and sex wasnt involved just emotions, then he might be more inclined to be bisexual (feelings over sexual acts). your friends love of the sexual freedom and being desired by both sexes is awesome! he is a free thinker and free emotional player. my guess is he allowed himself to be sexually active with men because he never labeled himself as bisexual or "am i really gay". he was confident in his heterosexuality (he fell in love with a woman) yet wanted the freedom and sexual excitement to be with whomever he wanted to be with. his son would be more along the lines of a bisexed bisexual. a unicorn imho. nowadays they coin this "pan sexual". i will have sex with and love whomever i want to. why the new terminology? its just being bisexual. unless they fall in love with a bicycle...then they need help. so to me there is heterosexed/heterosexual, bisexed/bisexual and homosexed/homosexual. former is the act, latter is the innate emotions attached to the being. these can and are often intermingled. we all know of the 60 year old man that has a wife and kids. he finally at some point divorces the wife and starts to be his "true self". did he have sex with only women in his life? does he feel he truly needs to fall in love and live the rest of his life with a man? if so he would be a heterosexed/homosexual. we see them waiving the flags at tea parties all the time! lol and remember that just the functionality of the sexual act in itself if there is an external motivation "money, a new car etc" can also play into this equation. there is something other than a "hind brain" motivation at work. this is just a fully functioning hetero or homo sexual without the sex label involved. "fuck that woman for $1000" would fit this scenario. most male escorts and "straight" porn stars also come to mind. thank you again for your input.

hey guys. interesting post here.... i think. lol i was talking to a hot girl out the other night and we chatted for quite awhile. she said she was bisexual. i told her that on my bucket list of things to do i wanted one time to get with a straight guy and girl and fuck the guy laying on the bed on his back with his legs up in the air and the girl on top of him riding him. she said " i would do that with you". Ken Ryker did a bi movie in this position. with him at the end of the bed, another guy laying on his back at the end of the bed, Ken slamming his 11" monster in the guys ass and a chick on top of the guy riding his cock at the same time. only time i have ever seen this in a movie and it was hot as fuck! so i told my boy toy about this, showed him a picture of the girl and he said "make it happen... im down". the problem is that i have tried to top him many times. his mind doesnt allow him to "open up" enough and after a frustratingly long amount of time i sort of give up. i have entered him a few times and quite frankly its the tightest thing i have ever encountered. we just never were able to get any sort of momentum going. im afraid he will try for 2 seconds, say "this hurts too much so let me just fuck her all night" and i sit in the corner watching live straight porn. he swears that once he focuses with the girl on top of him he will be able to bottom in this position but i'm hesitant. plus... im really not at all interested in femininity or being with a woman. he said he wants me to try fucking a woman just once in my life while he watches. scary thought! lol so yesterday the boy toy and i got together. i discussed this again with him andi said "hey i have an idea. lets hire a FTM for the first time. if it goes well (him slamming the escort for awhile then being able to bottom and the FTM ride him into orgasm) then i would definitely consider the MMF situation in the future. he asked "whats a FTM"? so i showed him pics on the internet. he said "wow arent those just guys that get surgery and have their dicks taken off?" i showed him pictures of FTM's that had their female then male pictures and he was blown away! that testosterone can turn any female characteristics into male ones yet they still have a functioning pussy. thats the part he is interested in. he is very aggressive when fucking women to get his nut off. i think 245 pounds of muscle destroying a 105 pound female is too harsh but he says "hey... some women like it like that." my question is... does anyone know of a cute (in a male sort of way and somewhat muscular) FTM that escorts? if you are an FTM escort that fits this description would you ever be in Las Vegas? i have seen many FTM's in pictures and with all due respect, most are just hyper tatted grungy looking overly hairy men with a pussy. i'm looking for a somewhat muscular body that has more of a jock look, smooth or slightly hairy, facial hair and handsome abercrombie face. has to have a fully functioning (gets wet, orgasms etc) pussy. my boy toy even said "im down if they are kind of cute". we saw a few like this when i googled just looking at pictures. none were mentioned to be escorts though. so if anyone knows of a FTM that fits the bill and escorts for men and would be down for this scenario DM me or add a link of this type of escort here from rentmen. any and all help would definitely be appreciated!

hahaha... i had the exact same thing happen to me years ago with the infamous and departed andro kid. god what a hot stud he was! kind of looked like nick walker the bodybuilder but more handsome. andro said he had a client later that day that wanted to pay him for every load he shot so he couldnt cum with me. nature took its course and right at blast off he said the exact same thing "fuck it he wont miss one load". lol

i totally get it. non existent parents. chimpanzees teach their offspring better than our parents do their offspring nowadays. country cant continue like this.

I feel for some of these schmucks in life. I think it boils down to bad or no parenting. Parents MAKE you show up to work on time. Teach you life lesson with a knuckle sandwich if need be. I had a young personal trainer at one of my gyms start accepting clients at another of my larger gyms about 40 minutes from his home. About 3 months into getting a client base, the young trainer gets a ticket and cant drive. What's the easy thing to do? Not train clients anymore at that gym. Right? Wrong! His father got up every morning and drove him to the gym to get there and train his clients! Mind you... his first client was at 7am. I'm sure the trainer got a ride home from someone close to his home but for over a month he never missed a client due to the magnificent parenting of his father. And I'm sure it wasnt a pretty discussion every morning on the drive in!

saw he was coming to las vegas. text him yesterday. no reply. he is suppose to be in las vegas starting today. text him again. one hour later... no response. very very poor communication skills. if he is that flaky to set up an appointment i can only imagine how many times he flakes out AFTER setting the appointment.

cmen... you are right on point man! if the two guys above were from my town or stated "can you get together with me in a few hours? so far you are the only one i have scheduled today" i would have raced to the atm and flew right over! i have actually had that happen with a few "out of towners". were they telling the truth? who knows. who cares. their "performance" was spot on, my needs were totally met and if they had none or 200 clients that day after me i could care less!

tenderloin... i cant agree more! i remember the huge stud above even stating for me "man is the last guy i see tonight gonna get a face full!" wtf!

aog... let me ask you, did your friend ever fall in love with a man? did he ever get jealous when he saw this other man talking with another guy? did his palms get sweaty, his heart race when the other guy approached him? did he ever date or marry another man? conversely did your friend ever fall in love with a woman? did he ever get jealous when he saw the other woman talking with another guy? did his palms get sweaty, his heart race when the woman approached him? did he ever date or marry a woman? this would be, imho, the true definition of bi sexual or bisexuality. if he put his pants on on a friday night, goes to a gay bar and pick up a hot young gay to fuck, then on saturday does the same thing in a straight bar to fuck a woman, he would be bisexed. if at the same time just dated women with emotional involvement towards them, then he would be a bisexed heterosexual. as ive stated, if he got paid to have sex with men and never did the "deed" or emotionally fell for another guy and his motivation was to get "paid to get laid", then he is a sexually functioning heterosexual. think straight men doing gay porn. i am seeing a boy toy now that totally fits this description. your statement above makes your friend, in my eyes, a bisexed heterosexual. He freely had sex with both men and women but his emotions and lifestyle were only tie to women. i remember a few years ago talking to jaxton wheeler at an adonis party they had at share nightclub in las vegas. he said he never (up to that point) ever had sex with a guy outside of being paid in some way....porn shoot or escorting. and he is about as hot as there is in his scenes fucking the guys making it as real as possible. hell, you can even see he enjoys the sex. jaxton in my eyes is just a sexually functioning heterosexual. does this all fit on the sexual scale of society? i sure think so. in fact i believe it clarifies and in many cases allows a guy to be more sexually "free thinking". he now doesnt have to put a stigma or negative connotation on re-labeling his sexuality. if he thought "what the hell im down to try something new at least once", feel at the end of the day when he put his pants back on that he is still heterosexual and not feel that now he has to embrace re-defining himself or his emotions (thats the big thing for breeders), then he would be much more inclined and aggressive to "try it out". i actually had two guys years ago, on separate occasions, say "lets go" after this exact discussion. many may disagree. many may say "this is too labeling. sex is just fluid". i feel on the contrary. we label everything in our lives. people understand labels. people are comfortable with labels. funny how the new term coined is "pan sexual". its just a round about way of not trying to label oneself. that i "love what or whom i want". thing is that "being pan sexual" is a label in itself! its trying to clarify "who we are". just my observations of life and thoughts from years of asking questions.

I've had quite a few escorts tell me about guys that pay crazy amounts of money for a session of odd fetish type sessions. I pay a fraction of what they told me these guys pay. My point is, if you are interested in a particular guy and he quotes a higher than normal price, let him know you are looking for an easy session, explain you MINIMUMS you want in the session and ask him in a polite way if he will take "x". Many times they will.