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I’ve seen someone in SF a couple of times who would ask me if I wanted to be cuffed up, and put a blindfold over me when he’d turn me over. I never said yes to the cuffs, it kind of scared me, losing control that way. But I couldn’t help but feel that I was missing out on something. As someone who has no BDSM experience and only seen some depictions of it in porn, I probably have some misconceptions. Would love to hear from folks who have had this experience, if there’s a “way” to enjoy this type of massage, or if it’s just simply not a fit for some people?

Mike has excellent technique and you can tell he’s had proper training.

This guy is regularly featured at the top of the rentmasseur page…not sure what to take from that. also red flag: rentmasseur says he was fully vaxxed 2/2, but his rentmen profile says 3/3…which one is it 🤨

The original Paul Wagner 😍 didn’t know he was back!

Wow, and the two other scenes in the related videos section…

A potentially stupid question: why are they “allowed” to post that kind of detail when providers on masseurfinder are not allowed do and providers on rentmasseur very rarely do? Is that by choice or by law?

Darn it’s been removed!

Bump, wondering if anyone has tried him out? He took down the profile for a bit but it’s been back up for at least a couple of months again.

https://www.everydayporn.co/videos/84630/massagebait-fat-oiled-cock-jack-andy-lex-ryan-720p/ yummy

Full version: https://www.yourporngod.com/videos/77692/atlas-grant-and-kyle-prince2/

https://www.yourporngod.com/videos/6223/gayroom-rubbing-my-gym-buddy-jordan-boss-adam-bryant/

Angel in SF comes to mind for me as someone who fits both. It looks like he took his profile down though. Also recently tried Tyler in Seattle. The potential was there. So they do exist, but hard to find! Our friends here are great resources for finding them

It’s a great massage though if you’re sore from a workout. He has a great understanding of the muscles. It’s too bad it’s therapeutic only.

It’d also be nice to know if extras were discussed ahead of time or not. And whether there was an upcharge or part of the pricing already.

Just to clarify, I was not thinking of hiring an escort to talk through my breakup. I have a therapist and friends for that. I would be hiring for a sexual reason, but more in the hopes that it would be somehow emotionally healing for me vs simply fulfilling a carnal desire.

Which of his massage types did you select? I wonder if the extras were specific to one kind?

Google search yielded this video: If that is him…hot damn! Hoping someone here’s had experience they can share!

Thank you all for your thoughtful advice and kind words to help me see my situation in a different light. It’s nice to feel understood and not judged. I think given what people have said, I am going to wait until there’s a little more emotional distance from the breakup before hiring, and instead use it as a “gravity assist” to propel myself to better days when I’m done being sad and depressed about it.

I am going through a tough breakup that has left me feeling ashamed of failure and hopeless about ever finding love. In short, I’m emotionally vulnerable/in need of some validation. Part of me wants to hire for sex to help make myself feel better/wanted/prioritized, but the other part of me that completely overthinks everything knows that anything the escort says or does would be an act anyway, so the validation would be fleeting at best, completely mechanical at worst. Anyone have any advice on how to make the most out of hiring an escort to help get over a tough breakup? Is there anything I should request? Would it be awkward to provide the full context to someone I want to hire? Or perhaps the answer is to not even go there in the first place?

Why stop there? Just send this link to any and all who asks what you’re looking for in a session! Lol

Any updates or recent experiences? I read his blog on rentmasseur and looks like he’s married, but lists erotic…so interested in what the extras are like. Please PM if you have details!

Do you know who the masseur is? Would love to see more of his videos

Just FYI I texted spicylatino today and he responded saying he no longer does massages. Darn. in other news, looks like Lukas with positive reviews from other threads (used to be from Indy) now lives in Tampa.

Here’s part 2: https://www.gayforit.eu/video/854678/Cade--Quin-Part-2

I took the plunge on the onlyfans...kind of disappointing. Not going to renew for sure. Not that many videos, and I was looking forward to the Billy Essex one but I guess it’s only on Billy’s OF page?