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Just to clarify, I was not thinking of hiring an escort to talk through my breakup. I have a therapist and friends for that. I would be hiring for a sexual reason, but more in the hopes that it would be somehow emotionally healing for me vs simply fulfilling a carnal desire.

Which of his massage types did you select? I wonder if the extras were specific to one kind?

Google search yielded this video: If that is him…hot damn! Hoping someone here’s had experience they can share!

Thank you all for your thoughtful advice and kind words to help me see my situation in a different light. It’s nice to feel understood and not judged. I think given what people have said, I am going to wait until there’s a little more emotional distance from the breakup before hiring, and instead use it as a “gravity assist” to propel myself to better days when I’m done being sad and depressed about it.

I am going through a tough breakup that has left me feeling ashamed of failure and hopeless about ever finding love. In short, I’m emotionally vulnerable/in need of some validation. Part of me wants to hire for sex to help make myself feel better/wanted/prioritized, but the other part of me that completely overthinks everything knows that anything the escort says or does would be an act anyway, so the validation would be fleeting at best, completely mechanical at worst. Anyone have any advice on how to make the most out of hiring an escort to help get over a tough breakup? Is there anything I should request? Would it be awkward to provide the full context to someone I want to hire? Or perhaps the answer is to not even go there in the first place?

Why stop there? Just send this link to any and all who asks what you’re looking for in a session! Lol

Any updates or recent experiences? I read his blog on rentmasseur and looks like he’s married, but lists erotic…so interested in what the extras are like. Please PM if you have details!

Do you know who the masseur is? Would love to see more of his videos

Just FYI I texted spicylatino today and he responded saying he no longer does massages. Darn. in other news, looks like Lukas with positive reviews from other threads (used to be from Indy) now lives in Tampa.

Here’s part 2: https://www.gayforit.eu/video/854678/Cade--Quin-Part-2

I took the plunge on the onlyfans...kind of disappointing. Not going to renew for sure. Not that many videos, and I was looking forward to the Billy Essex one but I guess it’s only on Billy’s OF page?

It says he’s in Miami for me? the rates from reviews are all over the place!! $400 for an hour???

For those who prefer morning, do you find that the masseurs are less likely to be “playful”, or not go as far because they need to “save” it for the rest of the day?

I saw him last summer while he was traveling in my city. He looks a lot older in person (like 5+ years) and had put on quite a bit of weight from his pics (or maybe it was the weight gain that made him look older?). He was very playful, though I would not repeat.

Curious what the 38’ stands for in his “about me” section ?

http://www.kirksmassage.com/ Has anyone seen this provider for any of his listed services (bodywork, sex/intimacy coaching, etc)? And what should one expect from a sex/intimacy coaching session? Is it like...practicing with the provider in real life to overcome certain hang ups?

Do you subscribe to any of these / are they worth it?

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Is that even real?!

If you look now the last two pictures in his ad are of dean flynn.

Interesting, so the fortune telling decides what kind of massage you get? Maybe even a 4 hand experience? Lol. I’d give this a try if I lived in LA!

The one review he has on there is a red flag..

I saw him multiple times early last year, each time therapeutic (though I was hoping it’d go further...certainly was trying to give him hints too, but he didn’t bite). That aside, I think he may actually be straight and live at the place with his girlfriend/wife actually based on some things I saw in the house/apt.

What does that mean? I noticed it in his profile too under the word parties, and I thought it was just a typo.

I got an erotic massage from him maybe 2 years ago, but did not really enjoy my experience that much...He was too aggressive with the erotic part for my liking (he seems definitely the more dominant/bdsm type). Really nice piece on him though. The pics in the RM link above suggest he may not have aged that well since I saw him.