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I first saw Ryan more than 10 years ago. He was attractive with a beautiful body. I have seen him a few times over the years and the experience improved but was never spectacular. He quiet and focused with very little chat. For me, sometimes that is the kind of massage I am in the mood for. Attractive guy who provides a decent massage that is sensual but not over the top. Ryan was that guy. I saw him most recently about three years ago. He is still attractive with a good body and the massage is good with an ending that is ok. On the positive side, he is polite, clean and competent. On the minus side, he is older than he states on MF and his massage can be on the mechanical side.

How 'bout this one
 

Can't do better. But, a blast from the past (not exercise equipment either).
 

This was on TV the other day: Squat Magic - so weird. Do better, I dare you!
 

 

Like Sean Xavier. I managed to get with him once inbetween retirements, incredible experience. But then again the times I was with him before his first retirement were pretty freaking awesome too. (BTW he's not one of the guys I was referring to in my original post)

I think the important thing is at some point a person is no longer going to be concerned about body image. When you're young it is everything.

I think he looks more handsome today - improved with age; he's probably added about 20 pounds in weight (in all the right places!)

You may have more luck in the Spa section of the forum. That is where most of the massage enthusiasts hang out... I searched for "spanishmuscle" and found a discussion here: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/la-guys.132838/#post-1447452

It really depends on the circumstances. I am a firm believer in Murphy. Stuff happens. So I try to be reasonable, will reach out a time or two if no response, especially if it is somebody I would consider a regular. If it is a first time meet, then I will assume the individual is a flake (no matter how much I looked forward to meeting), thank my lucky stars for figuring it out sooner, rather than later, and move on. In the circumstances you outlined, I assume it is a first time meet, so I would declare it a loss and move on. Find somebody else. I try to be respectful of other people's time - and expect the same in return. Don't let it ruin your trip! Post script - please consider submitting a review, you may save a forum member some drama!

My first M2M experience was with an escort. One of my better decisions!

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I love it!

What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front.
 
Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur.

Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation.

How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far.
 
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What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front.
 
Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur.

Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation.

How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far.
 
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What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front.
 
Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur.

Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation.

How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far.
 
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What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front.
 
Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur.

Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation.

How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far.
 
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What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front.
 
Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur.

Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation.

How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far.
 
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What happens during a massage? The session usually starts with a massage. Can be a light rub down or a more intensive massage, depending on the skills of the masseur. Also a good time to get to know the masseur a little if it is the first time. The session usually starts with you on your stomach and the masseur working on the back of the body, neck to feet. Then later, you will be asked to turn around and then the masseur will work on the front.
 
Is the massage followed by JO? It depends on the type of massage. If you ask for an erotic massage, in my view I expect to be happy in the end, so at least a release by hand. I would also expect that mutual touching would be okay. Sometimes there can be more, but really, if I want more, I hire an escort and not a masseur. Sensual massage can mean anything, so this is a case where you may want to specify your expectations (mutual touch, happy ending etc). Therapeutic massage I don't expect anything more than a massage (and a good one at that) from a licensed masseur.

Is it massage followed by full-on sex? In my experience, no. I am sure that it happens from time to time, but has never happened to me (perhaps I am doing it wrong!) and it is not my expectation.

How is booking with a masseur different than booking with an escort? When you hire as a masseur, you should expect less than you would from a full service escort. As an example, when I arrange time with an escort, I usually specify my preferences (top, kissing etc). With a masseur I do not - don't expect it to go that far.
 
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My first M2M experience was with an escort. One of my better decisions!

So, I've know that I was Bi since about 7th grade. I've never had any luck with any relationships, ever. Thus far, I am still a 100% a virgin. I've never even kiss a single person. I kind of had this crazy idea to hire an escort for my first experience. Does this sound like a horrible idea? On that note, I have no idea what I'm really into. I don't know what to say to an escort other than that I want them to "teach me" or "experiment". I want this experience quite a lot. Any advice, suggestions, or objections? I'm also 19 years old.

Thanks @freecahill1965 for the praise!
 
To OP, I've worked with clients in your same exact situation. I'm glad you found this forum for some guidance.

I quite enjoy James May ("Captain slow!"), and I will admit that I miss the Stig.

The current season of The Grand Tour has some moments of inspired original Top Gear madness. Love those guys.
 
The Stig was awesome. Glad to see The American gone from their new show.

LOL...yes the Stig and his imaginary cousins, loved it, and I do think that May's perceived slowness was more a story line than reality. Once pushing a Veyron to it's limit at Ehra-Lessien. Certainly not for the faint of heart.
 
Apologies to the OP for the hijack, but this was fun...
 

I quite enjoy James May ("Captain slow!"), and I will admit that I miss the Stig.

Edmunds if you are car shopping - it's a big investments so worthy of some research.
I am not familiar with the wirecutter, but will consider it in the future. Instead I have relied on Amazon reviews for general consumer products - taken with a pinch of salt! I've also looked at reviewed.com but that feels like advertising, more than actual independent reviews.