FTM Zachary Prince

It’s wild that there are gay people who actually think the DSM is some kind of authority on anything. Seriously??? You don’t know enough by now to know that it’s flawed and biased???
 
Any behaviour that is harming someone, which they desire to stop but return to and repeat compulsively is an ADDICTION. Regardless of whatever the fucking DSM has to say about it.
 
The DSM had transgender people defined as inherently mentally ill until only this year. And some of you think it’s a worthy authority to define our issues by. Amazing. Critical thinking skills are severely lacking sometimes.
 
Maybe some people are coming from a place of feeling defensive because they have been accused of being sex addicts for being promiscuous. Promiscuity is not sex addiction. But sex addiction is certainly real.

Oh ok you’re out here calling people with my lived experience ugly and then denying it the very next post and I’M the one being rude and insulting... got it

I don’t recommend involving poppers in your bottoming as professional. The problem is that many people start to feel that they can ONLY bottom when using poppers. Especially if this is how you earn a living, intertwining the two can be a real problem. Do you want to be dependent on poppers to bottom for the rest of your life? If not, then I really recommend avoiding them, especially to help you bottom for work. Developing a relationship with them when bottoming can make bottoming without them seem more difficult.
 
For the record, I’m not anti-poppers. I keep them on hand at nearly all times so that I can offer them to people who like/need them during sex. But when people ask me if they should use them who aren’t already dependent on using them to bottom, I give them essentially the same spiel. I know a lot of guys who can no longer bottom without poppers. Which is exactly why I always have them on hand. But why put yourself in that situation if you can avoid it?
 
What I would recommend doing instead, is preparing with a butt plug and/or dildo and pre-lubricating before you meet clients. That way, even if they are impatient, you are already prepared.

...and I thought I was saying a lot by celebrating my 10th anniversary next year!

9 years

9 years

9 years

I saw my first client during the winter holiday season of 2015, so almost 3 years now. Feels like just yesterday...

Yes, it’s common. Like Drew said, just mention it in your advertisement.
 
Some escorts even require deposits for ALL sessions. That is not common, tho. Many escorts do require deposits for all sessions over 2/3/6 hours tho. Not only for overnights. So it’s up to you which lengths of bookings you want to require deposits for.

I am approaching 2 years of having an ad up. (I consider May 2017 to be my real start as I decided to escort fulltime at that time) I’m curious how long others have been in the business.

I would think either a pure gold cock ring or a pure gold butt plug would be appropriate at twenty years of service, depending on an escort's preferred position!!!;)
 
TruHart1

19 years here. I'm not quite the winner, but close.

14 years here....(What a ride!).

It has been 17 years for me.

I've been escorting 16 years now. It's always been sole support. I think that's the Crisco anniversary, btw.
 
Kevin Slater

That is wonderful for you. Similarly, I have found my limit and really enjoy my limit. I also know that there are plenty of guys out there that meet the limit (or below) so I am not denying myself of a lot. Thank God he knew enough to create a swath of every length and width so that we all have plenty to choose from. Sort of like flavors of ice cream.

Practice makes perfect! Blow a lot of different guys and pay attention to their reactions. You’ll learn... Also, don’t be afraid to ask what someone likes if they’re difficult... most guys can tell ya!

Practice makes perfect! Blow a lot of different guys and pay attention to their reactions. You’ll learn... Also, don’t be afraid to ask what someone likes if they’re difficult... most guys can tell ya!

Well it depends... how long can you last before you explode?? I tend to push my clients up against a wall and have my tongue and fingers inside their nooks and crannies within moments of my hotel room door closing. First impressions really set the tone. It’s not unusual for me to drop to my knees right there behind the door. Oh... you need a shower? OK, I guess I can give you a moment for that. After all, my tongue wants to be able to go *everywhere*. My sexual repertoire is so varied that an hour is really not enough time for my sessions. It’s why I have a two hour minimum. The sex I have with my clients tends to take a minimum of 1.5 hours between oral every which way, fucking in both directions, prostate stimulation, tease & denial (more oral), and the big finish. And usually guys cum so hard that they need 5-10 minutes before they can form complete sentences let alone get showered and dressed. So I don’t really have an answer for how much sex happens in a one hour appointment. One hour appointments don’t exist for me. When I used to schedule one hour appointments, I was kicking people out well before either of us wanted them to have to leave. My 90 minute appointments consistently ran overtime. Hence now I have a two hour minimum and all my clients seem happier. The way I personally like to have sex, I don’t even understand how to fit it all into a one hour booking. Whenever guys come to me for an hour thinking they only want to try X and Y activities, they always end up wanting to do more once we are together.
 
I agree with the other comments that say every encounter is different tho. You shouldn’t really try to pin a number of minutes on the sexual activity you should expect from any particular length of appointment.

Practice makes perfect! Blow a lot of different guys and pay attention to their reactions. You’ll learn... Also, don’t be afraid to ask what someone likes if they’re difficult... most guys can tell ya!

Practice makes perfect! Blow a lot of different guys and pay attention to their reactions. You’ll learn... Also, don’t be afraid to ask what someone likes if they’re difficult... most guys can tell ya!

Practice makes perfect! Blow a lot of different guys and pay attention to their reactions. You’ll learn... Also, don’t be afraid to ask what someone likes if they’re difficult... most guys can tell ya!

Lubes are generally safe for oral sex. Please check the bottle if he's using some exotic special lube to make sure it's safe. If you're worried, use something like coconut or olive oil. They're completely safe unless you or the top are allergic to them.
 
If you have a favorite flavor, there are many different flavored lubes that might help you learn to enjoy cock sucking. Here's a useful site for some ideas: http://www.holisticwisdom.com/flavored-lubricants.htm
 
I enjoy sucking cock with or without lube, though I like my top to be freshly showered or clean sweaty. I'm not a fan of intense funk. If a guy says he likes it wet and sloppy, I make sure not to swallow my spit or the precum he produces as a I work. Instead, I let it fill my mouth, slide down his shaft, and generally make a mess.

Try wrapping your thumb and index finger around the cock and slide up and down along with your lips. This magic trick is sure to seal the deal. Once you are comfortable with that try sliding your tongue up and down between the shaft and your fingers while going up and down. Guaranteed succsss :D:rolleyes:

First... don't be down on yourself if you can't make someone cum from oral. Some people aren't wired that way. Only 3 men I've ever encountered have made me orgasm orally. Although I like the feeling, most times it's not enough.
 
As mentioned above everyone is different. Talk to your fav provider or providers. Ask them directly about your skills and what they think you are doing right or wrong. When you are performing oral pay attention to the guy and his body (i.e. does he quiver a little or makes sounds when you do a certain thing). You could practice and work out the issue together... it would be a sexy teaching experience for sure. You could even role play a teacher-student scenario.