That is the big issue. He promises erotic, but is so squeamish, he nibbles your ears, crawls & rubs all over you while you are on your stomach and gets you all worked up, and then flips you over, stands up, and is so afraid of touching a dick or having you touch his that he pushes your own hand down to your dick and tells you to do it yourself. I exchanged numerous messages with numerous guys who had this experience with him. it's a shame, because is is a nice guy with a great body. Claims to be bi, but says he only has sex with women. Yet another BUYsexual.