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I've already PMed the original poster my recommendations, so I don't feel too bad about steering the discussion off topic.
 
I'm Asian, I'm not hung, and I'm around 30 pounds overweight. I've hired 4 L.A. area masseurs in total so far mostly based on rate and whether or not they can do outcall to my location. I've had good experiences with 2 of them, and I don't want to hire the other 2 any more because their extras were too much. Therefore, it's absolutely inaccurate to say most masseurs in L.A. are anti-Asian. Honestly, as someone who immigrated here from China, I don't understand how people, who grew up here, can live their life seeing every obstacle they encountered as a result of racism. That's a big turn-off for me in a man of color, actually.
 
Granted, most of the men I've been with are white, but that's after growing up in China seeing millions of skincare commercials about whitening, hearing how other older Chinese people complimenting white skin, big eyes, and tall noses. Maybe the beauty standards I grew up with are racist, but it wasn't my fault, nor was it any white person's fault. It also f**ked me up too, I have small eyes and wide nose, so I had to grow up thinking I'm ugly. Coming to America makes me realize that there are people who appreciate how I look, and I also learned to appreciate the beauty of people with darker skin: I've had encounters with Latino, black, and mid-eastern men. Therefore, you can call people racist, or you can give them a chance to learn and appreciate you. It's always hard to be refused, but as long as I still have a type, I can't bring myself to blame others for not being into me. Yes, you can always argue masseurs shouldn't discriminate, but we are not talking about masseurs that work out of your chiropractor's clinic, are we?

My usual masseur wasn't available during the Christmas weekend, so today I got a little bit desperate, and started looking among masseurs that were "available now." I eventually hit up this dude on RentMasseur.com.
 
You know we always say YMMV, so when we try someone new, we really don't expect much. Then, if it escalate too quickly, and we'll probably just like "Whoa! I really didn't sign up for that!" That's what exactly happened.
 
Other people here, however, may be interested, so you could PM me for the details.

If anyone here had a 4-hand massage with both Clark & Anthony, please PM me with some details. Thanks!

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/
 
Clark:
https://rentmasseur.com/Clarkmassage
 
Anthony apparently is a 4-hand partner of Clark’s.

If anyone here had a 4-hand massage with both Clark & Anthony, please PM me with some details. Thanks!

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/
 
Clark:
https://rentmasseur.com/Clarkmassage
 
Anthony apparently is a 4-hand partner of Clark’s.

I have been recommending Clark here, but personally I never said it was his massage that was excellent, and I believe many people who tried and liked Clark also mentioned he’s not a professionally trained masseur but he does try. This is a forum where gay/bi/curious men are mostly looking for massage with extras, and that’s why people recommend Clark. Even that, I always tell others not to expect more than just a regular HE because it always depends on the masseur’s connection with the client.
 
Masseurs are not chiropractors, so to me relieving some back pain is important, but at the end of day, massages can’t heal my back pain. It takes both chiropractics and excercises to achieve that, so why not cut the masseur some slack as long as the extras are better than usual?

I have been recommending Clark here, but personally I never said it was his massage that was excellent, and I believe many people who tried and liked Clark also mentioned he’s not a professionally trained masseur but he does try. This is a forum where gay/bi/curious men are mostly looking for massage with extras, and that’s why people recommend Clark. Even that, I always tell others not to expect more than just a regular HE because it always depends on the masseur’s connection with the client.
 
Masseurs are not chiropractors, so to me relieving some back pain is important, but at the end of day, massages can’t heal my back pain. It takes both chiropractics and excercises to achieve that, so why not cut the masseur some slack as long as the extras are better than usual?

I have been recommending Clark here, but personally I never said it was his massage that was excellent, and I believe many people who tried and liked Clark also mentioned he’s not a professionally trained masseur but he does try. This is a forum where gay/bi/curious men are mostly looking for massage with extras, and that’s why people recommend Clark. Even that, I always tell others not to expect more than just a regular HE because it always depends on the masseur’s connection with the client.
 
Masseurs are not chiropractors, so to me relieving some back pain is important, but at the end of day, massages can’t heal my back pain. It takes both chiropractics and excercises to achieve that, so why not cut the masseur some slack as long as the extras are better than usual?

Definitely Clark; now that I see I share Clark with this many people, I’m starting to feel a little jealous, lol—He’s that good!

It definitely falls into the 'mileage may vary' category. Massage, unlike escorting, doesn't include oral services. I always see it as an extra extra (HE is extra) and it really depends on the chemistry between the two of you. I can't imagine a masseur providing BJ to every single client he has. So even if I recommend a masseur who does that to me, there's no guarantee he will do the same to you.

Except it's not about "stepping out" after realizing "oops, I'm in the bad here because this space isn't really for engaging in sexual acts".
 
It was heavy sighs, verbal comments directed to the person that they didn't want looking, and at least one racial slur used to explain that there's a lot more of a certain group who frequents there now, so maybe they need to raise the price.
 
Everyone is going to have a different experience. Some days will be great and others will be terrible. Sometimes the hottest dude with the biggest cock at one of those places isn't even there to do anything but experience the space for what it is - a public spa facility.
 
My advice to all the "hot" guys: if you want to go there and you want to be horny and jerk your cock with some other dudes- at least be polite. And maybe even let that guy you aren't attracted to watch. Because some day you may be the old, hairy, fat, disabled one and maybe someone will show some politeness to you. Besides- it's not a sex club. And don't forget- they are holding your photo ID at the front desk. =)