Aardvark

something off about this guy.  I asked if he was available tonight and he replied yes, can i see a pic.  I described myself but said I didn't have a pic to send, and he asked if tomorrow works.  I said again looking for tonight, and he said can't do tonight.  Big red flag for me, and glad I didn't send a pic.

58 minutes ago, bordeauxfan said:

Thanks -- does he advertise on any of the regular sites?

https://rentmasseur.com/DanDetroit

Been seeing his ad for awhile now.  Anyone have any experience?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38143/

I've seen his partner Dan.  Was a good experience but communication has been slow when I've tried to schedule another appointment.

On 9/27/2021 at 6:25 AM, Lfeegrin said:

I’m honestly surprised and disappointed to still see articles like this in 2021. In NYC too! It’s ironic how the article points out that there are more massage parlors than Starbucks. Which I guess would mean there are more people out there wanting services than coffee…so there is definitely a demand. 100% agree with the above poster. Legalize and regulate it. 

Well, I can make better coffee for cheaper at home.  Until Sharper Image comes out with a massage chair that can blow me....

😜

On 9/9/2021 at 10:35 AM, RickD1980 said:

It's vitally important that, in the U.S. at least (I'm not sure about laws elsewhere), the masseur's livelihood NOT be put in jeopardy because of erotic, sensual or sexual talk. The NY State licensing board, for instance, will remove a person's license for what they consider "inappropriate" behavior even though the Manhattan DA said back in April 2021 that he would stop prosecuting prostitution.

Please be mindful of this. It's why THIS forum discourages that very kind of review.

I would suggest only including masseurs who advertise on MF/RM/A4A and even then, details about "extras" should not be very specific. Licensed professionals/spa workers, in the US at least, could have their reputations and/or licenses threatened. In these cases, I think vague forum comments and direct messages are best.

Yes but realistically, the fact they are not advertising in places like rentmasseur etc would suggest they probably DON'T want to be discussed on a site like this and then have to deal with expectations they are not prepared to meet from random new clients.

Agree with you there, at the very least shouldn't have their licenses/careers compromised by being publicly discussed on these boards. I thought I was fine with DM's but you're right... never considered new clients with expectations.

He should have phrased it “licensed massage therapists who provide extras” but y’all are so triggered lmao

Seriously, never seen so many unnecessarily pedantic responses. Even if you disagree with going after legit LMT's sexually, it's obvious what the guy meant.

Legit therapists who “give” extra?

 

buddy you are paying for a service. If you are getting extra you should be tipping. Especially if they are certified and thus risking their license.

Actually, I once had a therapist specifically ask me not to overtip so it didn't look fishy.

Sorry but as a public service I need to add my 2 cents to all this Gio love. I've seen him twice. Both times massage was on a bed and massage skills were C+/B-. Sensuality is above average but way too fast. Shorted me by 20 minutes on both visits. Also speaks in that sort of condescending, fake manner of a stripper who's trying to get you into the VIP room, which is a turnoff for me. I've now learned my lesson that the first time wasn't a fluke. Obviously a lot of people have had good experiences with him but just wanted to add another viewpoint.

image search leads to a fitness coach likely based in Missoula, MT.......one IG picture is of him with a woman who "has made all the difference" in his life or similar......

 

reporting it to RM.....

Is there a trick to reverse image search? Every time I try, I get like "man" or "hat" or "standing".

Any intel on this locale?

Wow, what a bunch of twattish responses to a legitimate question.

My guess is that nothing goes on here considering the website tells you to bring a bathing suit, but it does look nice.

Follow-up: A very bad massage and uncomfortable experience. I guess I kind of assumed he'd have some sort of training.

Not recommended

Has anyone ever booked with David? He's in Ann Arbor and serves the Detroit area

 

http://www.trymassage.com/

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1134/

Also interested, seems like he's been around forever, but only 2 reviews on his profile in a 7 year span

I've always wondered if there was a site or group where providers trade notes on problem customers

here is Kellan's individual ad, I don't see it referenced anywhere else:

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39276/

Thanks for the info above

Just want to chip in, I saw him a few times in Chicago several years ago and he was neither flakey nor rude. Massage was good. I think his ad went by the name "nico tantrico" or something similar.

seriously!

this must have been one incredible review!

There was a guy I went to a few times that would pretty much chug a gallon of water during the massage. He would inevitably have to pee in the middle of the massage, and do so like a racehorse, loudly and with the door open. I realized eventually that he must have some sort of fetish about people hearing him piss. On the other hand, he was really cheap and offered a nice pre-massage body scrub so... I guess the jokes on me because I went back 4 or 5 times.

In a truly legit spa, I find pointing my cock downwards between my legs feels a little aggressive. If I'm not already hard when I flip onto my back, I position my dick to the left or right over my thigh, so that it doesn't look obvious but the masseur will have to deal with it (or not deal with it) when draping for legwork. I also leave my hands at the side of the table so that they can brush themselves against it if they are trying to test the waters.

That said, most masseurs at legit places aren't going to risk their livelihood on jerking off some new client they just met. Even if the guy is willing, it might take several visits to establish a rapport.

Any experiences yet? AmazingRub gas one really bad review.

This guy had a very standoffish demeanor. Unpleasant experience.

I always use cash. The idea of transaction record existing and associated with me somewhere is not something I want.

 

If I’m broke I don’t have cash so I don’t meet anyone

Yeah seriously, always pay in cash, for so many reasons.