BlakeBenz

In my personal vocabulary, you’re a trick. I started as a stripper and that’s just what we call you.. at least with my HP’s (hoe partners). Some people find offense to that so to your face, and on this forum I will call you a client. I just feel it sounds more professional anyways.
 
An escort finding offense to the word sex worker? They must be in denial or ashamed of what they’re doing. Sex work is an umbrella term I feel covers all areas of the industry. Porn, escorting, dancing, sugaring, cam models, phone sex operators, and even those bikini baristas.
 
Escort, hoe, prostitute, provider... call me anything you want just DONT call me a HOOKER. I hate that word so much. It’s cringey and trashy and to me a hooker is the equivalent of a blade hoe. If you don’t know what The Blade is... pretty much every city has one. Here in Houston, it’s bissonette. Portland Oregon, it’s SE 82nd, and in Seattle it is Aurora. Those are the girls and boys walking the street doing things for 20-80$. Survival sex work. The bottom end of the escort pyramid.

It actually is considered sexual assault in some states and is punishable by law, I am not certain it is that way in all of the states though. Eventually we will get there. This is one of examples of why I collect my donation UP FRONT. If you pull this kind of stunt, you can count on me leaving (if it’s outcall) or being unwelcomed from my home immediately. I do not care if we are 10 minutes into our session, I don’t tolerate the disrespect. No refunds. Not sorry.

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

It actually is considered sexual assault in some states and is punishable by law, I am not certain it is that way in all of the states though. Eventually we will get there. This is one of examples of why I collect my donation UP FRONT. If you pull this kind of stunt, you can count on me leaving (if it’s outcall) or being unwelcomed from my home immediately. I do not care if we are 10 minutes into our session, I don’t tolerate the disrespect. No refunds. Not sorry.

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

It actually is considered sexual assault in some states and is punishable by law, I am not certain it is that way in all of the states though. Eventually we will get there. This is one of examples of why I collect my donation UP FRONT. If you pull this kind of stunt, you can count on me leaving (if it’s outcall) or being unwelcomed from my home immediately. I do not care if we are 10 minutes into our session, I don’t tolerate the disrespect. No refunds. Not sorry.

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

Someone told me Chris Duffy was transitioning to a woman, I find that hard to believe but then there was the whole Bruce Jenner and Caitlyn thing so anything is possible .

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

@BlakeBenz , I find unthinkable to commit any of the sins you describe. It cannot be very difficult to be in your good books.
 
As for this one:

....I think that client who try to take off a condom without consent should be punished by law in a similar way to rapists.

For goodness sake, these are simply common courtesies. Anybody who can't do/not these things was simply not raised right!
 
I try to be the best example that I can be to these generous guys. And yes, at least to me they are all generous.

Based on what BlakeBenz has said so far, I think this thread promises to be excellent. Let's keep it coming.
Mutual respect counts for so very much. In my limited experience – admittedly only 4 occasions, and those focused on muscle worship – I have approached the provider with respect, admiration, conversation, sincere interest and, I would hope, with some good humor. Things can backfire, of course, and maybe I've just been lucky with my choices, but everything BlakeBenz wrote is what we should strive for, both client and provider alike.

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

My favorite clients to do business with are respectful clients. Clients who are on time. Clients who do not ask for bareback repeatedly, because one ‘no’ should be enough. Clients who do not try to take the condom off when they think you’re not looking. Clients who do not open closed doors in my home without permission. Clients who use proper greeting/introduction when contacting me. Clients who do not make racist or other ignorant uneducated comments based on opinion. Clients who genuinely care about me. Clients who ask me what they can provide for our time together (I.e, drinks, snacks, etc.) and most importantly, clients who are just simply good energy to be around!

Well said...Many of us come to these boards with a variety of life's experiences. Some are educated experiences, some make assumptions and use them as fact. You have to weed through all of that to find truth. It's messy business sometimes.

Smart bae <3

+1

I hope you keep posting here Blake...

Exactly why my mounted TV is for decoration and does not get used or even have cable. I am against all media unless it is work related

Pimp?!? Lmao... let’s not be so naive here. There is a HUGE difference between a pimp and a manager/agent. A pimp isn’t taking 10-20% of your earnings.. they’re taking 100%. You are forced to work and if you don’t you have the shit beaten out of you. Pimps prey on the mentally vulnerable, brainwash them, and reap the benefits with no real work on their part. You still find your own clients and do all of the work you were doing before and NOW you’re giving it all away.
 
A manager is posting your ads, finding your clients, keeping you organized, and charging a small fee in exchange. They’re actually working FOR YOU. You can fire them and move on at any time. Let’s not forget to mention YOU choose when you work. No one is forcing you to be on the clock or out looking for work.
 
Pimps are not good people. I’ve encountered many, and no I have not ever nor will I ever work for one. I’ve had many friends who have been pimped, as well as several working for agencies. I can’t even associate with any escorts working for pimps anymore because it is so emotionally and mentally draining. Pimps and managers... BIG DIFFERENCE!

Thank you and allow me to make my point a little more clear. You’re absolutely right, of course you can know what a pimp is without first hand experience.
 
You don’t need to be a drug addict to know what a drug dealer is, but if you are you will have deeper and further insight of how to acquire drugs, sell drugs, and you will know many of the hidden risks and secrets involved in that walk of life and often times more than someone who is sober... because you experienced it first hand.
 
You don’t need to have been molested to know what a pedophile is, but if if you were you most likely have deeper understanding of what may have gone on in the mind of the person who assaulted you (assuming there was a prior platonic relationship) and how that plus other factors may have played a role in the situation.
 
So you’re right, you don’t have to have the experience or knowledge to know what a pimp is..... but do you really know? There is A LOT you wouldn’t know without experiencing it up close and personal. That’s what my intentions were with that statement. I’ve seen several uneducated assumptions on what a pimp is on this thread, and I guess to someone who knows how traumatic that lifestyle really is it does bother me that people are quick to assume with little to no education on the subject rather than asking questions.

I’m sorry, but you can’t take a dictionary definition of a “pimp” and take it for fact. Especially when you have no knowledge on THE GAME. That book was written by a bunch of squares who I’m sure have no game knowledge either. That definition defines an agent, or a manager.. not a pimp at all.
 
Like I previously said I’ve encountered many pimps. One almost costing me my life. I live in Houston where about 7/10 of the strippers and working girls are pimped. These men manipulate, control, physically & mentally abuse these sex workers. There’s no taking “part of” their earnings... these escorts often times don’t even have 100$ to their name while the pimp is holding on to tens of thousands. They have to ask for money for anything. Food, get their nails done, and if they want to go shopping they better work harder!! You’re out working 7 days a week. You don’t have calls? You sit a hotel bar working all night or if you’re in Vegas those girls are out working the casinos 12 hours a day looking for a nice watch to steal and pawn off to impress their P. Pimps are brainwashers. They find you when you’re weak, heartbroken, flat broke and in a sticky situation... they offer you a helping hand and appear as a “friend” to help get you back on your feet and you owe them in return. But when do you stop oweing them? That’s where they get you. YOU DONT! You want to leave? Not with out getting your ass beat before you’re thrown out on the street again with nothing. They get so stuck in these situations its pretty much easier for them to believe all the lies and stay. I mean, he takes care of the bills and they get some nice designer things here and there.. so it’s all good right? These men are master manipulators and 100% pure evil. Pimps do no real work, and never have done real work.. they just finesse hoes out of their money just like the hoes finesse tricks out of money.
 
This was response was not only completely ignorant, but triggering as well. You don’t know anything about pimps so do not speak on it. I’ve seen more than I’m sure many people on this thread. Having your friends beaten unconscious until they’re bleeding out of their ears (they had a concussion and were still forced to work the next day). Having your friends in the emergency room because they were beaten so bad that their jaw was broken. Having friends ask to come over to hide from their pimp because he’s going crazy and they’re scared, only to go back after? Having to lend friends money to get back on their after literally running away from their pimps and having no money to survive. Trying to unbrainwash your friends that you love and care about to think for themselves, see their value as a person, and believe that they can do the same things and make the same money without him.. Only to have these pimps work just as hard at convincing them I don’t know what I’m talking about. EVENTUALLY having to leave the people you love and care about behind because at this point it’s so draining you can only worry about saving yourself. Oh and let’s not forget the time one went completely psycho while I was in the back seat of his car, driving recklessly over 100 screaming at us and threatening to crash and kill us all as we all cried and begged for our lives... I’m sure none of you REALLY know what a pimp is.

Pimp?!? Lmao... let’s not be so naive here. There is a HUGE difference between a pimp and a manager/agent. A pimp isn’t taking 10-20% of your earnings.. they’re taking 100%. You are forced to work and if you don’t you have the shit beaten out of you. Pimps prey on the mentally vulnerable, brainwash them, and reap the benefits with no real work on their part. You still find your own clients and do all of the work you were doing before and NOW you’re giving it all away.
 
A manager is posting your ads, finding your clients, keeping you organized, and charging a small fee in exchange. They’re actually working FOR YOU. You can fire them and move on at any time. Let’s not forget to mention YOU choose when you work. No one is forcing you to be on the clock or out looking for work.
 
Pimps are not good people. I’ve encountered many, and no I have not ever nor will I ever work for one. I’ve had many friends who have been pimped, as well as several working for agencies. I can’t even associate with any escorts working for pimps anymore because it is so emotionally and mentally draining. Pimps and managers... BIG DIFFERENCE!