Leão

I'm taking the plunge and in contact with him, the second guy. I also mentioned about the girls and yes he and miguel26 are friends, and said he will take care of it. Set for Wednesday am, barring any issues. I will report after

That's right, you hired Miguel. The other guy texted me back quickly as I tested the waters to set up time. My guess is they are short on tuition and need cash. Lol... just making an assumption and not chastising... just saying....

Perhaps friend vice BF. My gaydar did not even slightly ping with Max. Lol

Based on location, I'm betting he is friends with miguel....
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/latinmasseur.shtml
 
Lol.
Lists therapeutic with an HE price and in the relax section. Definitely hot and worth checking out, but...

Any updates on Georgeo/Max/Artem?
 
BTW, he and Oleksandr use the same flat in the DuPont area.

Ok, not that I am a Felix Unger type, but seriously guys, if you are in the personal service industry, don't be slobs, and don't be dirty. Believe it or not, some of us do care about when we need to go to the bathroom, we will not need a hep shot. I have walked into even hotel rooms that look like room service has not been there in a week, or apartments that oviously the cleaning staff went on strike..... last flipping year.... yo mama don't live here. No one is expecting it to be Operating Room clean or even military white glove inspection ready, but seriously dudes.... clean up your crap!

Saw Jeff last weekend. Agree! Superb experience!

He's been discussed before.
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-alan-big-strong-hands-in-dc.119721/#post-1301408
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-intriguing-masseur-alannyc-currently-in-dc.126644/
 
Nice guy with great massage skills. Both therapeutic and sensual.

I went for a 60 minutes deep tissue and they booked me with a russian girl. She was not good at all... I felt like I wasted my money but maybe there are some good ones... anyone knows of a good masseur at VIDA??

Depending on the location (U St or 15th&P), Nildo is a superb masseur [brazilian] and Son/Thach is a superb masseur [Vietnamese]. I forget which one works where. Saw both for a couple years.

This may be more about legit massage - where no advertising or discussion of "mutual touch"has been discussed - but I thought I'd add to the general direction of the conversation:
 
My standard MO is the be laying face down, have my hands on the side of the table, cupping around the edge. This just feels most natural for me - very gently gripping around the table's edge. Otherwise my hands feel almost unconformable open palms flat down, or palms flat up.
 
I must admit i do this for every massage pretty much, even at full on legit spa/hotel/resort places. And even if my hands are under a drape. You can kinda deduce where the masseur is most of the time, and I may ever so gently adjust my hands here and there if i feel it may position them a bit closer to the masseur's crotch. Then it's up to the masseur to drop some hints. Sometimes it's only 10 minutes in and I'm feeling a throbbing bulge directly on my hand. .OK.. .that's a VERY clear message. I've had massages where it never went any further than that. I feel his cock- through his pants, .,rub it, massage it... but he goes no further.. still i like that connection and intimacy (especially as part of a good massage in the first place - it's a small but very nice extra) I;d actually rather be rubbing his dick here and there while he gives a good massage, and have nothing else. than the sitaution where there is NO intimate touch for 55 minutes, then a very perfunctory hand job at the end. .that feels so disconnected and un-nurturing.
 
Often the crotch-brush-against-the-hand is the first signal form the masseur to hte client that "yes, we can a do a bit more " and most of the time it proceeds to at least a happy ending for me. If the masseur grabs my ass or dick, or whips his dick out, then I feel comfortable reciprocating, and of course backing off if he indicates it's off limits.
 
It's a bit of a dance. .especially at legit places.. he's kinda cautious about crossing a line, and I'm making sure I'm not being a hands perv of a client. But it's a dance I love and I admit, even someitmes contacting a guy on massagem4m or masseurfinder, I WONT have an explicit converstaion because I want to enjoy the testing of boundaries.
 
Every now and them a masseur will deftly take my hand and place it next to my body, AWAY from the edge of the table. I may gradually work my hand out to the side again, and if he puts it back next to my body a second time. I interpret that as OK.. message received. Nothing extra at all.. and that's OK
 
Again, this is for legit places. If a masseur ADVERTISES mutual touch, then i feel you should be comfortable gently and respectfully initiating contact and seeing if it's permitted (some mutual touch MUST be permitted) or if he terminates the contact.
 
I'd be interested in others' input here.

I have often find that even without asking a masseur will encourage me to touch him by any of the following:
 
(1) when I'm face down on the table, position himself so that his cock is in my palm as he kneads my back,
(2) while standing above me, gently make sure his cock rubs my cheek,
(3) when massaging and stretching my arms, place an arms between his legs and say "it is ok."

I do the same thing. It amazes me how many men don't seem to know, or understand, or care what the word "respect" means.
 
"Mutual touch" is a general indication that the guy is OK with you touching him. Sometimes it needs to be said because a lot of guys don't want to leave the "touch" door wide open, for a variety of reasons. How the "touch" is defined is a very personal decision. You show respect by asking about personal boundaries. A lot of guys respond nicely when you show them respect. They can become very generous when they realize you're not just a selfish taker.

As I posted in another thread, body and equipment are really nice. The experience - for the price - was bad.