Rickatl

This really looks like a guy who's been around for a while, but now under a different profile. He sent a menu with all his services and prices and the menu was viewable only for a short period from being opened. I took the erotic upgrade and while I remember little about the massage, the erotic part just didn't work for me. That said, nice guy, very professional, it' just didn't work for me. 

If the massage was okay and he's as handsome as he looks in his pics, what was the problem?

No there wasn't. He was cool with mutual touch and HE for me.

I love to rim but I definitely understand why some (many?) don't like it. There's a huge difference between putting your cock in someone's ass (especially with a condom) and putting your lips/tongue in someone's shithole.

No one is Total Anything...
I wasn’t really into it when I was younger
Now eating ass is a must, and I’m a Total Bottom
 
Maybe it’s just an acquired taste, like port or truffles or bold cheese... I think a number of guys probably had one bad experience with an asshole (who didn’t know how to clean his asshole...) I’d say they don’t know what they’re missing, but maybe they do.

I saw Ryan recently and he was fantastic. He was very responsive with communication. He was genuine and very personable. Like you have mentioned, I agree that he’s sexy af. I would definitely book him again.

On a cruise ship once I was getting a massage from a male in the spa. I really didn’t expect anything, but had my hands at the very edge of the massage table, palms up. As the massage progressed and his body was in the area of my hands, he leaned into my hand. I pushed back just a touch, suddenly he was hard. He continued the massage, neither of us said a word. Any mild pressure I made was returned with him leaning in with his erection. As he moved on down my body for the massage I figured was just a fluke and lucky moment. But, when he arrived on my other side his crotch and erection went immediately to my hand. I was pretty actively holding, playing with, stroking his cock through his pants. He was gently moaning, still massaging me. I think he ended up cumming based on his sighs and return to normal massage.
That was it...no HE or release for me but it was unexpected and fun.

Yeah I think a lot of the guys on here don't know what a legit unexpected encounter is lol.

Yeah I think a lot of the guys on here don't know what a legit unexpected encounter is lol.

Yeah I think a lot of the guys on here don't know what a legit unexpected encounter is lol.

Yeah I think a lot of the guys on here don't know what a legit unexpected encounter is lol.

I had a great massage with Eddye
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37556/
 
Scott is also a nice guy and gives a good massage.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38603/
 
I also recommend Ryan. Sexy guy.
https://rentmasseur.com/RyanAtlanta
 
And Brent
https://rentmasseur.com/BrentRBDWN
 
Tim is also good but he's been mentioned in this thread already. All of the above give HE and will allow mutual touch, at least in my experience.

I’m very happy with the decision my parents made for me, and even happier that they made it when I was too young to remember. But I definitely appreciate that others feel differently.
 

Sure, but having it added back afterwards is unlikely to provide the same sensation. In fact it kind of sounds gross. Where is the skin taken from? Or is the shaft just pulled back and the existing skin stretched over making it a bit smaller in length? All I’m imagining is sagging skin stitched on. ?
 
I’m indifferent to cut v. uncut. I’ve seen some beautiful uncut ones and the same for cut ones. That said I’ve had more negative experiences with unpleasant scents from uncut ones a number for times.

I really don't understand the hostility to them knowing something about you. Escorts are human too and not everyone can just do everything that calls them. You could even write a simple bio in the Rentmen profile.
 
That or just get the usual gay for pay experience. Bend over for that cock and $ is on the dresser.

Been picky doesn't mean they're selective it means they can't perform with just anyone. Yes, cash is cash!
 

 
Agreed, you can't compare a bar tender, a dentist and a Doctor to someone making love to you, that's waaaay more personal.
 
Do you share your age, ethnicity and weight with providers and amateur guys willing to escort before meeting them?
 
I always do!

Age, height and pounds... Unfortunately some ask ethnicity too. I guess the providers may not be into all kind of men. Unfortunately some clients describe themselves as if they were in a hook up app/site 10 years younger and lighter.
 

 
You do have a point but maybe the provider just can't enjoy the company of all kind of men and prefers NOT to take the money of some based on their: ethnicity, age and size...
 
I do agree that it's a huge red flag but if a gentleman is overweight and wants to bottom he should tell the escort about it upfront to see if he replies or just says he's booked up all week.

From what I got as an answer to this exact same question, they are trying to get an idea about you. I have zero problems telling my age and ethnicity. Height, weight if they ask (in case they have to lift me, you know what I mean). It takes two to tango. I discriminate against escorts for one or another reason. Escorts are human beings too, not sex machines that have an obligation to take anything that's put in front of them as long as there is money involved. I prefer to know he's sure he might be ok with me being me so the service is decent, rather than me being an unexpected surprise for him and spending money on a mediocre service. With that being said, I do not send pictures of me or upfront deposits, and if an escort asks for that, I move on.

That is ludicrous. Coronavirus transmission is completely unrelated to facial hair.

Not sure I agree with one of the hottest guys ever, but he does have a nice body. He's maybe a 7 for me, but I doubt I'd hire due to the other things you mentioned.

I also have two that are a toss up. The first was my only Craigslist experience. I was living in New Jersey and needed an outcall. I found a masseur who said he would be right over. When the doorbell rang, there stood a man carrying two sawhorses and a board. I thought he was at the wrong house. Turns out it was the masseur! He proceeded to set it up in my living room. His massage table was two sawhorses and a board with carpet stapled on it! I placed a sheet on his "Table" and he went to work doing the massage. At one point the room smelled. I asked if he had farted, and he said "yes." I asked him to open a window, and he laughed and said"just think of it as aromatherapy." At this point I stopped the massage and asked him to leave. He gathered his things, and that is when I noticed he had a 4 inch piece of duct tape on his pants. I asked what it was and he said he ripped his pants and did not know how to sew, so he uses duct tape! That was the last time I used Craigslist! The other toss up worst massage was a masseur who I went to in Boston. A REAL massage table this time. At the beginning he asked if I was gay. I said yes. He said he was straight, and that it did not bother him to massage a gay man (?). Then about every 3 minutes during the massage he would say things like " Yup, does not bother me at all that you are gay." Or things like " Really comfortable with you, even though I am straight" This went on throughout the WHOLE massage session. Hard to relax when someone keeps telling you how straight they are. After I turned over, he suddenly blurted out "Can you fuck me?!!" Please?!! Literally begging me to fuck him! I had no chemistry with him and declined, got dressed, and left my "straight" masseur with a hard on.

There are several other more informative threads on him, look for TheLastViking and TheOnlyViking. They basically conclude he is disinterested at best and CRAZY at worst, depending on his current state of partying.
 
Unfortunately, I ignored these red flags and met with him, convinced that despite very mixed reviews, I would hopefully have a good experience based on his 25 stellar reviews. I was wrong. HARD PASS for many many reasons. Truly a shit show. Will never disregard this forum again.

I always have my cock pointing downward and usually right against my thigh so the masseur brushes it when he does my legs. In my experience, if the therapist does not want to engage in a sexual way, he will use the draping to move it out of the way.
I also like to keep my hands at the edge of the table; I love feeling the masseur brush against my fingertips, especially the head of his cock through his pants. Once again, if he doesn't want to, he can reposition my arms, and non-verbally signal that he's not interested/doesn't want to.
At that point, if it's a no-go, just relax and enjoy the massage (hopefully it's a good one).

I'd like to hear more about this haha