I was having this potential client texting me for days. He wanted a sensual massage for 170-200 dollars expecting oral and anal. This guy is probably watching too many sex movies. Fantasy doesn't match reality. I tried to explain to him that masseurs and escorts aren't the same.
Masculine is subjective...
I remember meeting a bunch of gay guys that tell me they were masculine and when you meet them in person is a different story mannerisms and everything. Being muscular doesn't automatically make someone masculine.
There are different types of massages:
Erotic
Sensual/Sexual
Therapeutic
I'll let others explain because I've never hired neither. But this is my understanding.
You don't want a masseur. You want a escort. Sucking a dick is considered sex by many. You also want mutual touch. Yeah, pretty much a escort. Unless you are willing to pay the price for an escort when hiring.