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NavyChief

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  1. https://rentmasseur.com/MasseurIan

    I have and great massage. Highly recommend and professional. The ONLY sensual part is the nature of massage. He is strictly therapeutic and legit. He is clothed at least in shorts, but you nude is ok, and preferred just because draping is a pain, but your choice. I asked about both nudes and he did that first starting out, but not anymore, and long time ago. He is from Bulgaria, so no hang ups. Very nice and professional young man, straight but not weird about it. And price obviously very reasonable, therefore, HE is not included nor should be expected. Actually, it was really nice not to have the added pressure or over excitement about that part. Truly just a great massage, and includes assisted stretching which is always a plus. Seen him at least twice, and came to hotel.

  2. Ok. I finally took the bullet. I will repeat one more time, after a few critiques personally with him. shows a lot of potential. PM for details. Nice young man. Remember, I rank Alexei from FL who travels to DC ocasionally and Jake, normally DC as my absolute favorites, so my bar is pretty high. And of course my very first experience was with Aarons aka Musclegrip in L.A. when he was in DC. Miguel, when he comes back has also greatly improved since I met him a couple years ago, saw him like 3 times in the last six months or so, and I would recommend him. This lad needs a little bit of "schooling" and practice.

  3. Thank you for bumping this thread. I wasn't around when it got started.

     

    I don't go to spas, so my history and expectations are for private masseurs.

     

    I rarely choose therapeutic only masseurs, since m4m massage is a sexual (in the broadest sense) and emotional experience for me. If the masseur explicitly advertises sensual/erotic or charges (as of Aug 2019) $150 or higher per hour, the understanding is that he will be partly or (usually) completely nude, that I will touch their body in some ways, and that they will probably handle my ass and cock. If those conditions aren't met, I feel misled. There's a wide range of possibilities in these three things, however, and that, for me, is where respect for the masseur's desires and limits come into play, as well as the chemistry between us.

     

    Most masseurs are good at signaling their boundaries and desires. I have never asked about mutual touch (I think most m4m masseurs in the range I am describing assume most clients would like it) and I believe that not asking has created a more organic experience of mutual touch. I've only had a couple experiences of disappointment.

     

    Ah, he is performing a stretch, and when he places my hand on his chest, his waist, or his thigh, I slowly start to carress. My arm is hanging off the side of the table, and he rests a hairy legs against it for me to stroke. And when I flip over, after his hands have been so kind to me, so, so much beautiful body to touch.

    Spot on. I have actually had some comment that some client's are TOO handsy, and there is not massage. LOL. Respect and boundaries are needed. I will say that having the conversation up front is good though sometimes for clarification, even at the "certain" price point.

  4. How can you be sure of that? Have you hired him or received that feedback from others who have?

     

    One of the most expensive massages I ever received cost $200 for an hour. The guy had a lot of nude photos, including some showing erections, and the text more than suggested a lot more than a standard happy ending. I ended up getting a mediocre massage from a hot muscle man who kept shorts and a tank top on the entire time. Whenever I attempted to touch him (like when his thigh was within reach), he'd move far enough away that I couldn't. This was many years ago when I wasn't as confident as to call out such b.s., so I just paid his exorbitant fee (for a standard massage) and left disappointed.

     

    Moral of the story: Don't assume that just because a masseur posts sexy photos and suggestive text and has prices closer to the escort realm that you will get anything more than a basic massage, and maybe not even a good massage at that.

    So, been there done that. LOL, ironically funny but very sad!

  5. Sometimes.... I think the fakes are really fakes and hustlers. But I also think that some are "workers" a sort of "market" per se, having to pay some handler. The guy I met seemed fairly straight of the boat, and not the hustler type. When I met Miguel and his cousin from the DomRep a few years ago, they were living with an "uncle" and very nervous about anything that could be considered "improper", and I know they had the same phone, schedule handler. Anyway, just a couple random 2 cents.

  6. So, here's the deal. I met with him this morning, just for an apology coffee and share the explanation of the bad experience and review. I had a wonderful time with him, super nice young man, and we had a little fun, before I had to get into work. We connected well, he is a foody, shared some stories, etc. I definitely want to meet him again in the very near future and feel quite confident we will both have an enjoyable experience.

     

    Not to disparage anyone publicly, please pm me, if you want some of the story. It is good to remember that people who cater to clients' desires, our in fact independent contractors and moreover human beings. Many of them clearly state that they like just like anyone who's getting paid for their time and comany, and not necessarily for a particular "service".

    In the other forum... ask an escort... they discussed the average no shows and flakes and how high it was. I have had to cancel legitimately, and have taken some of the anger and tude via text from some. So, gent's let's try to be nice as well.

  7. Hi navychief. Just wondering how your session went as I've been curious about him as well.

    Unfortunately, my schedule went crazy, and I had to cancel and looking to reschedule. Our conversations were good, although I really hated to cancel. I know what feels like, as I am in a client service industry with staff. I felt his frustration but he was empathic. Anyway, hope to see him soon, but have to plan everything.

  8. Be wary. He doesn't deliver what he promises.

    Do tell. I have meeting scheduled with him tomorrow. And given my luck with Dallas Jay 2 weeks ago, I would rather just watch some porn and save the money.

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