So, here's the deal. I met with him this morning, just for an apology coffee and share the explanation of the bad experience and review. I had a wonderful time with him, super nice young man, and we had a little fun, before I had to get into work. We connected well, he is a foody, shared some stories, etc. I definitely want to meet him again in the very near future and feel quite confident we will both have an enjoyable experience.
Not to disparage anyone publicly, please pm me, if you want some of the story. It is good to remember that people who cater to clients' desires, our in fact independent contractors and moreover human beings. Many of them clearly state that they like just like anyone who's getting paid for their time and comany, and not necessarily for a particular "service".
In the other forum... ask an escort... they discussed the average no shows and flakes and how high it was. I have had to cancel legitimately, and have taken some of the anger and tude via text from some. So, gent's let's try to be nice as well.