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  1. Has anyone experienced a situation where a very sensual massage instead of ending with HE gets really happier ? I am really uncomfortable when that happens and gets into unsafe zone. It has happened to me few time when masseur decides to straddle and HE suddenly turns into Sad situation.

     

    Is there a right lingo to use for clear message without sounding demanding and not turning massage being freezing cold?

     

    I have been faced with this once and regardless to how much I said "No" "Please stop" he continued... it was the only time I have ever gone limp during sex, but I just wanted him off of me. I am a little guy and being held down, slapped in the face and ridden as the customer... was not what I wanted or even asked for. Oddly enough, I interrogate the masseur to find out if they are licensed, legit and only offer massage services. (then I arrive and they ask if I need a drape!??!)

     

    This is when I started searching to find honest reviews and real people like the ones here to find out more about others experiences before booking a masseur. Thankfully I found this forum. I realize everyone is looking for something, I don't judge it but I am thankful for everyone honesty and experiences. It makes me feel safer. -xx

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    Saw the reviews and gave him a try. He is little and has a good strong body. I never asked for extras. His massage skills are either non-exisitant or he was focused on other things.... cause the massage was crap.

     

    There was no attitude, until I told him "No Thanks, just massage today". He told me he likes to "eat potatoes"... no idea what that means - but laying naked on a table all I could think of something from the Jeffrey Dahmer Chronicles. ));

     

    Paid left and would not repeat.

    (why is it that some of these masseurs think all a gay wants is HE?)

  3. Gents,

     

    Headed to Miami next week and am interested in working with any of the following, none of which I was able to find on the forum. Would love thoughts - and feel free to PM me with anything you don't want to share forum-wide!

     

    Vladimir: https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/vladimirmir/

     

    Ben:

    https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/realmanstouch/

     

    Brando:

    https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/spa/

     

    Saxon West:

    https://rentmasseur.com/SaxonWest

     

    Brad:

    https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/whiteboy23/

     

    Devid:

    https://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/devid/

     

     

    Vladimir is most interesting. I have never gotten the same treatment twice. He is quite, tall, smooth, good-looking & gifted or good at massage ((;

     

    Heard amazing things about Ben and will book one day with him. Chatted once and he was super nice on the phone.

     

    Brando is a little odd, but sort of attractive. Heard he does a legit massage, however it comes with an attitude.

     

    Saxon West, porn star turned masseur.... not my thing.

     

    Devid is always available on the MF website and all night... so not sure about his massage skills.

     

    In S FL all the time... so reply if you have more info or what your findings were. Thx - xx

  4. Here's another approach to consider that might provide the opportunity to move things forward but also a relationship saving "out" should he not be interested or ready to provide any additional services.

     

    The next time you're on the table, assuming the same thorough leg and butt massage and your same reaction, think about saying something along the lines of "I'm sorry, you're going to need to slow down. This feels so good, it's gotten me kind of excited. I'm kind of embarrassed. I apologize."

     

    In this approach you are being very respectful of him, apologizing for something that's an uncontrollable response to the massage he's providing. He has the choice to continue what he's doing knowing that you're excited, or stop if that was not his intention. It doesn't put you or him in the situation where you're asking for help and he has to agree or decline. It might be hard for him (excuse me) to verbally acknowledge his interest or consent, but he may be OK continuing what you're doing without verbally acknowledging it.

     

    If he continues, I wouldn't push it. I'd let what happens, happen even if it's just you letting fly solo. If he does continue, you might consider one more warning - "man if you keep going I think I'm going to cum".

     

    I'd be profuse in my gratitude and ensure the tip reflects that gratitude. You can see what happens the next time. Maybe things will go even further.

     

    Just my two cents.

     

    I had a similar circumstance with a thai masseur I went to for quite a while. Nothing major came from it, but I really enjoyed the sexual tension and his playfulness at each of our sessions (and I think he did too).

     

     

    OMG... I was just going to write something close to this.

    Actually, it happened to me once. In past massages, he would go to the head and shoulders... only this time he went to the legs, pushing that blood up around.

    Yes, he was straight, but it was not like it happened ever time. He just tapped it and asks "we good here" ? How embarrassing.

  5. He is a BB Porn Star and more of a start then a massage therapist. Nice guy, stand offish and a little cocky... or actually "big" cocky if you want to google image him. He has always been super polite. Not too much help, but hope it helps some. -xx

  6. @Justme7 , that would be a great idea. I tried it....but Facebook does not work that way. They create many hoops to jump thru to create a Facebook account. They want your phone number (I know....use a burner phone #, but now it is getting even more complicated). Plus they want a credit card number, and LOTS more info to confirm your identity. Creating a bogus Facebook account that does not link to you is almost impossible. And all this just to submit a review to Masseurfinder? Thanks, but I'll pass.

     

     

    I think the website wants LESS reviews actually, for legal reasons. Just like how they used to message masseurs through their system and it saved all you messages, threads, etc... with their Masseurs. So it makes me think that they don't want to any part of what their website has become. (after the Rentmen thing) Just a thought.

  7. No. He won't do actual escort work, ie sex.

     

    I met him a year ago when he was briefly working at Boardwalk. He quit there because he couldn't tolerate the private room stuff even.

     

    He does what he does fine, is affectionate, and a sweetheart.

     

    Completely Agree!!

     

    Meet him almost a year ago in FTL and he is really a good guy... sexy as heck and tight body - for sure. I was hoping for more of a massage, but he was so dam cute - I was okay with it. I didn't ask for naked or HE... so I was a little surprised by my time together with him. Again, not what I had hoped for, but tingle every time I think about him. Did I mention how sweet he was - haha

  8. https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/musclestretchin/

     

    Maybe I'll buy all the others being just professionals. Maybe I'll buy this guy tries. But that face on Wilton fucking Drive? I think he's next to Johnsons gay strip club too.

     

    No way, no how not touched. I'll be there next week. Buying my ticket now. Figuring out how to help pay off that 50K education.

     

    He was on Massuerfinder before... seen the bad boy photo before, but had a different (less suggestive) photo on there too. He lives across the street from me and will keep my eye open for him. -haha

  9. I guess this is the straight version of Masseurfinder. The site has both male and female massage therapists ads in it. Kind of curious about this one though:

     

    https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/jdiaz/

     

    Any info?

     

    Massage therapists can pay for 2 lists or more. They can choose to be on Massuerfinder Relax or Heal or on one of those and one on Massagefinder... so it sort of a sister company. Massagefinder being (like you said) the more hetro sister. ((:

  10. I recognise that this is the Spa. That means it's about masseurs. But when someone says things about their interactions with a therapist, I don't read masseur, I read psych. A 'therapist' deals with your 'issues'. If those issues are knots in your muscles, it's a fucking masseur that treats it, not a 'therapist'. If you're going to drop part of 'massage therapist' it's the therapist part, not the massage part that gets dropped. *Ends rant*

    Darling, I believe use the word "Therapist" here, because they are trying to separate the person from a masseur or rub & tug expert. Of course, everyone can read into words on a forum, email or text message... but sometimes we need to let it go... this is a safe space and ranting would be for other forums, FB or Twitter, etc...

     

    We are all here for each other, in one way or anyone. Of course you are free to Rant... but it is not the focus of why we are all here.

     

    On a funny note, ever time I see "Therapist".... I think of that SNL skit were during the game show episode ... Sean Connery character keeps call Therapist - "The Rapist" So find friendship and understanding here and hopefully some fun too. -xx

  11. I am so sorry, but I can't help but comment here.

     

    Talk to him about "it".

     

    Do not ignore "it". To ignore "it" is to suggest "it" didn't mean anything to you and you didn't care about "it".

     

    Just tell him how much you enjoyed "it" during your last session, but hope he doesn't feel obligated to repeat "it" if he is not in the mood and that you fully understand that "it" is not experienced by just any other client of his. You will be happy with any time you spend with him even if it doesn't involve "it". Nonetheless you still want to thank him for "it" because "it" gave you this wonderful after glow and provided you the strength to endure the next few weeks of mundane life. He made "it" very special to you.

     

    If I have a great massage "therapist" and after some years pass and something sexual happened... I would have to talk about "it" before I hire again, for so many reasons.

     

    I am not a fan of flirting, playing games or any kind of cat & mouse BS. So for me, clear and direct communication is has always worked best in my life... then I make the best decisions for myself. This also keeps you from going down any rabbit holes or such.

     

    But for me personally, a massage is about Me relaxing- healing & my over all health. Being naked creates an intimate setting, but it is still a massage and nothing more. (I am one who uses this forum to weed out the massuers who are offering rub & tugs)

     

    Being a gay male, I get it that something could easily happen with one or more naked people are in a room.... but then that is sex and not a massage. So if lines have been crossed only you know what it is that you want from him and clearly you have choices. (i dated my massage therapist once - woof). Meaning... if you want him as a masseur - have the talk. If you want him as a relationship.... have the talk. Just remember that "shoe makers kids, go without shoes".... meaning you don't get both.

     

    On the other hand, If you want him as a masseur and a hook-up.... then have that talk. He will thank you for it... and he might even that talk once you reach out to him. There is a chance that if you are struggling with this, So is he.

     

    Remember, if it is a massage with a hook-up, as long as you do not pay extra for the hook-up part of the session- you are doing nothing illegal and it is just becomes a win-win for both of you. There is obviously some attraction there and if it works, let it, but talk about "it" or be prepared to talk about "it".

  12. Did a little looking around the WWW and found photos of him doing bodybuilding contests all over the US. Also schooling in MA and photos of him with an asian girl... one kissing on the lips (but who knows if it was photo shoot or what)

     

    Now I am super interested - haha - those who saw him :

    1) did you get the vibe he was gay?

    2) were there extras - cause the rentmassage says Therapeutic/ Sensual/ Erotic

     

    This thread is better then the NationEnquirer ((:

  13. Lukass and Alexsuper have a lot of the same reviewers - which if you like asians I guess could be a thing... but a little strange. Maybe it is an agency that books them and they feel that no now would know the difference.

    I book a masseur in NYC from Russia and the guy that showed up was not the guy I texted. I texted him that next time I came back.... and the original guy that I wanted to book showed up. Mind you they sort of look similar in a Russia sort of way... but I thought it was all very odd. (much like this thread)

     

    Just happy #allyouknow survived and enjoyed himself. -xx

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