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Seconding Riley! Had a good massage and great experience overall.

Seconding Riley! Had a good massage and great experience overall.

I highly recommend Riley: 
https://rentmasseur.com/SDBodyworker

This correction is beyond beaten to death, but if you're looking for a masseuse, next to none of us can help you, as that's a female massager. 
As far as a man who does exactly what you describe, I experienced that with this gentleman. https://rentmasseur.com/MuscleJake
 

https://rentmasseur.com/BodyPoet
 

I and others can recommend 
https://rentmasseur.com/JohnThai
 
https://rentmasseur.com/TimPetrissage

I realize that we have lots of threads on different providers in the Chicago area so I'm going to attempt to make this a bit different in terms on focus.  Apologies if one such thread exists, I tried to go back about 2 years. 
The ask: 
I'm looking for a masseuse that does a solid massage but also will either be nude or at least get to that point.  All honesty I'm ok with them being in briefs for a part of the time (huge briefs fetish here). 
I'm also looking for one that allows mutual touch and having his body explored a bit as well.  Heck, I'm even ok with giving him a massage. 
Doesn't necessarily have to have a happy ending or other modalities,  but I'd like to explore his body as well.
Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated. 

To keep things in context, the average doctor in Germany makes 50€ an hour, so maybe let's tone down the sanctimony. If you won't pay less than 200€, it's you that's being extorted, my friend.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52520/
I gave Jonny a shot this afternoon knowing it would be purely therapeutic, and it was.  However, he did have an amazing massage. He incorporates Thai massage techniques during the session. Not many do that, but it's something I enjoyed.  He noticed that I was more flexible than other clients he had thus far, so he said he's challenging me a little bit by pushing me with the stretching. It was good.
He looks better in person I think, and young. He could pass as a late high school or early college student.  Spanish/Mexican mix. He has a very friendly demeanor so it's easy to warrn up to him.  It's a his studio in a professional building. You open the door and you're right in the hallway of the building. It was quiet though, but it's Sunday so it may be different when there are more people during the week. You cannot beat his price a well.  If your looking for a really good, therapeutic, massage then he's your guy.  If you don't care for the stretching then just let him know.

Met Riley yesterday, would repeat and recommend.
Picture accurate, decent massage, nice extras and his assets are A+.

Had a good experience. He's great at connecting and enjoys what he does. Good technical skills + extras.

When he says his rate is $xxx, next time ask if that’s for an hour. Then prorate if he shortimed.

The last 15 minutes of the massage he kept counting down how much time we had left. I finally figured out that meant I should probably take care of myself or pay extra for him to do it.
 
Will not repeat.
https://rent.men/Bearzuko

I was picturing spooning I guess with the provider being the big spoon.

Took a chance on him and this guy is the real deal. Super easy to book.  Texted him and he responded right away. I had a 90-minute special session with him. He is tall, handsome, Latino, and definitely beyond blessed in all the right places. Yes…it’s big. Super welcoming from the start and really knows what he’s doing. During the special session he mixed therapeutic and sensual massage. We used the full 90 minutes in his studio. No rush, just pure presence and connection. Nice studio, clean and very relaxing. The whole experience made me want to book him for longer. 10/10

RM as in RentMasseur, the link above?
Or RM as in RentMen?
If the latter, please provide a link.

I definitely wouldn't call SW a men's spa, but you should absolutely check it out if you're curious.  If you rent a room, it does lock, and you'll have the key on an elastic band you can wear on your wrist or ankle.  Or you can get just a locker, and the same key situation applies.  In addition, they have a lockbox system at the front desk when you check in, where you can store your valuables (wallet, watch, phone, etc), so you don't have to keep anything too valuable in your locker or room.
Friday evening/night will definitely be busy.  Although I haven't been in a number of years, you can be as voyeuristic or directly engaged in the action as you'd like.  Don't be so sure no one will be interested...there's someone for everyone out there, especially on a busy night.  If a guy is not interested, respect it, and move on.  Others will do the same when you are not interested in them.  It's the nature of the place.  If you do want to do just watch/look, there's plenty of opportunity to do that in the common areas...wet area on the first floor, some common play areas on the other floors.  
If you do get a room, you won't want to just be sitting in there (although some guys will wait for action by sitting face up or down on the bed and living the door open.   But you'll see more if you cruise around  and can go back to the room if you find a match (or play in public).
Feel free to message with questions, or ask publicly.  My overall experience with SW is that it can be as much or as little as you want it to be.

This provider used to be Daviduatl. I encourage staying away from this provider. I left the massage after about 15 minutes as his behavior was strange, as was the start of the message which he began by pouring coconut oil over my back and back of legs. The little bit of "massage" I experienced made no sense, and he was not able to adequately explain what he was doing after I questioned him. Within minutes of my leaving, he blocked me on RM so I couldn't leave a review but not before sending me a strange message. 

A link would help.

https://rent.men/Pec_inspector
I thought I had seen a thread about this man a while back, but I just searched and got nothing.  I was wondering if anyone had any experience with him.

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Saw him around six months ago at his place. Excellent sensual/erotic massage! Don’t expect anything therapeutic. 😁
Very similar experience to his massage videos without the full conclusion. I’m sure you can probably get that with his “boyfriend experience” rate.
He’s more stunning in person than his pictures and seems like a genuine guy who cares about his clients.
Would not hesitate to recommend. May even go for the full experience next time I’m in town!

$180 for a 60 minute strictly therapeutic massage seems kind of high 😂

Thanks. Those are average rates for San Diego.

No, those are not average rates for San Diego. 
Based on all published rates in San Diego, the average is 121.43 for 60 minutes, in call (at the masseur place) 
This is the data taken from MF site  
200 + 140 + 125 + 120 + 120 + 130 + 150 + 200 + 140 + 80 + 120 + 125 + 150 + 100 + 170 + 155 + 150 + 110 + 160 + 135 + 150 + 120 + 130 + 130 + 135 + 110 + 155 + 120 + 110 + 150 + 110 + 85 + 135 + 80 + 140 + 80 + 160 + 120 + 180 + 120 + 180 + 150 = 5100.
Now divide:
5100 ÷ 42 = 121.43 (rounded to two decimals).
✅ Average = 121.43