VictorPowers

I only "tip" my regulars who i see weekly on their birthdays and christmas. Usually a nice Hermes tie or a Burberry/Loro Piana sweater.

When you're not around, the sweater can keep them warm

EDIT: I feel non monetary tips are the most meaningful.

As an independent escort, you're free to set your own rates.....don't you strive to provide your best to each & every client ???.....why / for what exactly would an additional tip be expected ?....I don't think that exceptional performance or offering either some kind of physical or emotional kindness / support during a session would warrant something extra.....one possible situation - the session goes a bit longer....escort says "no worries" / client still wants to provide extra compensation.....honestly, you seem to have a nice following / fanbase on these forums....however you were also the guy a few weeks ago asking if you should accept an appointment that would involve some minimal travel OR should you pass on that appointment, stay home & make 3 times the monetary amount by booking more clients for that same timeframe.....so you approach this, at least in part, like a biz (which is fine)....but then that also leads me to suspect that you don't often go a bit overtime without expecting something in return......if I'm wrong, apologies extended............as I've previously made note on this topic - I pay the requested pricing.....guys who become my "regulars" end up receiving certain kinds of perks & benefits above & beyond.....(one guy currently is calling on both my secretary & my personal assistant for all manner of services & arrangements in his own personal life....the secy & the PA both work their own kind of magic & this guy is using them / relying on them some weeks / months more than I even do.....I'm amused by it because he does it in a really natural, helpless kind of a way)......((secy = straight lady / PA = gay guy....both v v cool / both know the backstory / the score)).

I answered the question regarding tips from the standpoint that the client was going to give a tip regardless. I never anticipate a tip or am upset if one is not received. I go over on time frequently and understand it's my conscious decision to do that with zero expectation to be compensated for that time.

If you're referring to the thread involving travel compensation, I was discussing extended travel (hour each way to a client or so).

All in all I'm very fair, passionate, and understanding with all clients. I'm quite facetious on this forum. Many of my replies can be taken at face value, others are pure sarcasm. In a real world scenario, I'm happy as a clam receiving:

1. Zero additional tip

2. A message thanking me and saying they had fun

3. A request to visit again.

EDIT:

4. A Positive Daddy Review

I respect your reply and amounts provided. The real definition of all of those will vary per provider

How deep are those pockets?

Respectable: $20

Good: > $20

Awesome: Pay off my Mortgage

I'm looking forward to attending. I just hope y'all are as crazy as your conversations are.

LMAO, you all are histericle. I blow it figuratively speaking yesterday. I was going to call Victor where as I was all alone at the Lowes Hotel in Boston but misread RM and thought he was back in Utah. Opps.

You know how many times I've walked past that hotel in the last 4 days? Shame shame I had some availability on this Boston trip.

Bronze would be so cold on my cock.

"Sir can you please not fuck the artwork"

You LIE!!!!!!

Does the Cum still have to be on my back for the cuddle Sesh? I'm a little spoon..

Now selling miniature bronzed replicas of my ass. Please purchase in bulk. It goes to a good cause

Isn't the Cum an amazing addition? Think of all those wasted moments where all of the other guys missed that detail.

I cannot believe this is a real Thread. Thank you everyone. I have really been feeling the love on this forum.

You are not the only one. Unfortunately he will be visiting DC when my escort budget is drained.

Good news! Rates are competitive with Home Equity lines. What a great time to set aside some cash! I'll even let you do as you please while we are covered in cash on the bed. Thoughts?

I'm new to hiring, my first time is tomorrow. He is getting a hotel near me, he didn't say if I should pay for the room.

What is the norm? Now that I think about I'll bring extra money just in case.

Btw I cant host because my brother lives with me in my home.

It should be communicated beforehand if the appointment is In/Out call. Once that is sorted out, then you're free to pay the provider's fee + any additional tip you wish. Don't feel obligated to cover their room expense.

To OP @Mocha

Judging by your last post, you seem very bitter from recent cancelations and not receiving "sure thing" bookings. Cancelations are unavoidable. I've had very reliable regulars still cancel.. It happens. If you're fix to this is charging every client a deposit, good luck. This will likely not cover your "expenses" and will certainly drive clients away. That's not the direction I'd take, but hey it's your method of business and not mine.

I agree

How would you feel if he mentioned your personal details?

 

Kevin Slater

I agree. I have been FB stalked and questioned about very personal details of my life while with an ON client. I have since obtained a work phone, email, and twitter. I'm sure it's possible to find my identity somewhere, but I'm not alone in wanting to remain private.

I first

I wonder whether or not they are serious. @VictorPowers , I noticed they show you as one if their represented professionals. Is it true?

i had first joined PJB 2 years ago. They recruited me and the owner was amazing. It is my understanding that shortly after I joined, the owner had a medical leave for some time. Even from the start, I barely received any business. After awhile, all contact with the company ceased. Truthfully, I didn't even know I was still on the site.

I've recently discovered a new (to me) escort in my area from time to time. He lists himself as a bottom.

I'm certainly not an inserter, although I'm tempted with this lad.

 

My question: Should I get some viagra / cialis? (can't take levitra, althought it worked great. Drug interaction).

What ever do two bottoms do together?>

 

Socially, I once met a man whose sole source of stimulation was his anus. His dick did nothing for him at all.

I have no idea if this guy new acquaintance is like that.

 

I know: Ask. I'm just curious how many bottoms respond to penile stimulation TOO. Is it preferable? TO be avoided?

 

On other fronts, he does it for me in every way imaginable. 48 years of fantasy rolled into one dude. Intense.

Well I'd certainly be flattered if you're referring to me in your post

Question...

 

After the initial contact...

 

If a client decides to not hire you, would you prefer to know the reason, or just say "no thanks", or prefer they just drop the conversation?

Don't take it the wrong way if they say no. Just move on. Good luck

Speaking for myself, I'm legitimately Bi. It was very confusing figuring out my sexuality over the years, but I have a handle on it now. Maybe I'd get more work if I put Gay in my profile, but that's simply not the truth and I like to. D honest up front.