TonyRaye

I respect the forum members who like Eli, but from the comments it sounds like you need to jump through hoops to get the "preferential treatment." Or even to get a little respect from this masseur, which should be a given with any masseur. Being treated in a warm, friendly manner....with respect and no drama is what all masseurs should provide, Eli included. And the comment about needing to charm him to get him to treat you like a King sounds crazy. We do not need to "earn" the right to be treated well. We all deserve to be treated well.....with respect....and like a King....since we are paying him. He sounds like a massage diva who knows he has us in the palm of his hand, which is not a good thing. I like masseurs who come baggage free...drama free.....and with no games or attitude. Masseurs who treat me well because they value each and every client. In my opinion, those are the best, most professional masseurs and the ones I choose to give my massage dollars to.

Some people might like "Lion wooing" theme and I respect it. Generally when I book massage, I am there to relax ( mentally and physically) and expect a good massage with warm masseur. I am not sure if reversing role getting into mental tango to charm masseur just to get him warmer fit in that bill. No wonder I found him frigid.

By no means does this apply to all non-black gays, but there really are a surprising number of gays (white, Hispanic, middle eastern and Asian) who, secretly, are attracted to black guys, but because of something else going on, won't express their attraction or admit to it in from of their friends or anyone else. Many even seem downright embarassed and ashamed as if it's some type of secret guilty pleasure they don't want anyone to know about, lol. (BTW, the situation is a whole 'nother story when I'm overseas for business). I'm black. And have experienced it more times than I can count.
 
But it's kool. I'm 100% attracted to all races/ethnic backgrounds regardless, so more for me.

By no means does this apply to all non-black gays, but there really are a surprising number of gays (white, Hispanic, middle eastern and Asian) who, secretly, are attracted to black guys, but because of something else going on, won't express their attraction or admit to it in from of their friends or anyone else. Many even seem downright embarassed and ashamed as if it's some type of secret guilty pleasure they don't want anyone to know about, lol. (BTW, the situation is a whole 'nother story when I'm overseas for business). I'm black. And have experienced it more times than I can count.
 
But it's kool. I'm 100% attracted to all races/ethnic backgrounds regardless, so more for me.

I experience myself as a millionaire. Let me go check my account.

I note @KS87 has been a forum member for less than a year. He has a right to pose a question without being told there are threads to be found elsewhere if he only does his homework. We are a discussion group after all and not writing an encyclopedia.

Even tho schools teach same curriculum every year new asses sit in the seat. New members might be able to chime in where they didnt chime in b4. Hopefully this topic resonates because among my circle it is extremely relevant for the aforementioned reasons.

Tell him that you will apply some lotion to help that out and a finger may stray while it is being applied. Accidents happen.