Here is the thing: you will never know if that is the case. Trusted regulars will get a preferential rate. And they won’t share it. Young fit college kid might get a lower rate. Etc etc.
What do you think it is?
Surely you must have some ideas of what it might be? Or could be? Perhaps it is not just one thing? Could be different reasons for different providers.
At least give us a list so we can react to it! 😁
His threats border on, or are criminal. If he does not stop: get a lawyer to communicate with him to let him know that he must cease and desist, or else next steps will be taken (eg filing a police complaint). That should end it.
Everything has its place and purpose: RM/Hunqz/sleepyboy vs Seeking vs Grindr/hookup apps vs dating apps. Mental peace and your own power & worth & self-respect are maintained and enhanced by knowing when to use which to your own advantage.
E.g. - one of my favorite connections came from Hunqz. He never would have given me even a second of attention on Grindr or in a bar. But I know this. He knows this. He even said it; my reply was “I know; and yet here you are!” I didn’t question it; nor take offense. I have something; he has something. And yet we have the best of times together when we see each other because we both respect the reality of how we met and why we still do. We have great chemistry. But we never would have gotten there without Hunqz.
He has been discussed on here. Please use the search function.
see: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/152415-411-pukashelldudexxx-hot-twink-traveling-in-sf-this-july/page/2/