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So I'm a GL HWP guy, but let's face it....all the guys we are meeting with we are meeting with b/c they are HOT and probably otherwise unattainable. I think this is part of the equation - as a provider you need to expect you're meeting with clients of all types, looks, etc. I do think different providers have differing abilities to provide an outstanding experience to all, so worth doing your homework and being clear up front what you want from the experience. You are providing for an outstanding experience, you should expect nothing less.

Thanks for the feedback guys. AndrewK has been on my "watch list" for a long time, however we live and travel in very different geographies. I am planning to see him in November, and excited about it!

We should all look so good at 48

Bellagio hands down. Biggest spa I've ever been to, beautiful marble wet room. Free use of Gym & Spa if you get a massage. While not known for being cruisy, I did connect there once https://bellagio.mgmresorts.com/en/amenities/spa-fitness.html#/Gallery

While you said US.....nearby Montreal and Toronto also seem to have a a lot of talent . Miami / Ft Lauderdale as well.

Top, so sad

Hey gents, any experience or intel on this HOT AF young man? https://rent.men/Bttmbabe Thanks!

You forgot........ GINGER!

I went when I was 23 and had no idea what the event was about. BOY were my eyes opened wide!

GC is sublime

AY has been on my short list for awhile. Short muscular bottom? Boom!

I've never had an issue in hotels, and agree with @nycman hotels have "seen it all". I was traveling this week, called for extra towels (at a Marriott property BTW) and the housekeeper who delivered them said "have a good time" . As long as you're following hotel rules, and not being disruptive, what happens behind those closed doors is fair game. I'd be more worried about variability in law enforcement while traveling, that is whether locals are more inclined to set up a "sting" operation online, I would exercise extra caution screening and selecting your providers and doing a "sniff" test for vice.

Great reviews too about @tristanbaldwin who visits NYC regularly. I've not met him (2 tops just don't work LOL) but follow him. He has some non-porn vids posted on Twitter you can get a sense of his "vibe". Good luck, and deeply sorry for your loss....glad you are healing to a point you are looking to connect with others again, it's a good sign don't think for a minute otherwise.

search on here, mixed reviews (also check his RM reviews) so I have taken a "pass" (Boston guy here too)

Add Providence RI

Oliver. The Northeast corridor is an obvious choice. There is great train service between Boston NYC and Washington DC. I realize these are not smaller markets but each one is a “hub” to smaller local markets. For example Portland Maine provincetown Hartford CT and Albany NY are all pretty easy to reach from Boston. If you continue west from Albany you pick up western NY and then CHICAGO. Just a suggestion. Count me “in” for Boston ?

Hello all y’all, visiting KC next week and looking for recommendations, TIA - Jack

In smaller markets a lot of guys use Grindr looking for Gen-tlemen ?

Each of need to do what makes us feel comfortable, based on our risk tolorance and what we feel is at stake. @final_impact these are all suggestions, do what you feel most comfortable with!

My advice: - establish a false name, NEVER give your real name - establish an email account based on that name used solely for this hobby - establish a google voice account to get a false phone number for txting used solely for this hobby - some only use encrypted chat (whatsapp is one), that's your call - meet in a neutral location, NEVER your home. Escorts place is OK if they are well reviewed. - tips are nice but not required. if you got the service, pay the rate. Tip if the experience was exceptional. - Never send pictures that can be "google image searched" to locate your facebook or instagram account (in other words, if you do send s pic it should be one you have not posted elsewhere) Pay attention to reviews and your "inner voice" when you interact with the provider. Good luck! Jack

Dayuse.com may also be an option

Hey gents, I chatted up @Ziya a bit, sweet young HANDSOME guy. Lets show him some LOVE

There are legal issues and liability associated with posting reviews which this site wants to avoid, see: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/please-no-escort-reviews-on-the-message-board.138667/

PS this is a result of "bottom shaming". Everyone claims to be 1-2 notches closer to "top".

Looking forward to your trip report, heading to PHX in a few weeks