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Nick Sterling recently moved from NYC to Boston.

When you contract, you are contracting for the act, which may include a (fleeting) connection. You are paying for a fantasy. It's not real. Dating is much more complex, and potentially more fulfilling (if it leads to something permanent). Don't confuse the two! Oh, and most of those apps....are hookup apps, not dating apps. If you want to date......find a hobby, volunteer for a gay cause, join a gay bowling, softball, cycling, swing dance, book club.........<insert activity>. I might be old fashioned about this, but I still think real connections happen in person, and the pressure is taken off when you are not in forced situations, like speed dating "it's just lunch" pick-up bars or trying to wade through an app where 90% of ppl are looking for a fuck, not a BF. As for the hot body, it doesn't hurt but....also not what everyone is looking for. There's someone for everyone in this big world. Be true to yourself. But, there is nothing more attractive than confidence. So if taking care of yourself gives you confidence, go for it.

I'll start: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5d99c91c9835a

...........and anyone can catch a parasite. There is no such thing as 100% clean, so yes it is an occupational hazard.

I had a no show once who was a visitor, I booked a 1 hour appt and I am convinced he got a better offer (> 1 hour). As a visitor, he's not necessarily interested in repeat business I assume.

Law Enforcement Officer

The hot brand RN seems to be NastyPig

I'd fuck him

Why do we not have a thread for exchanging hot porn? WHY? WHY?

So Sorry to hear about this @Reluctant Daddy. This could happen to any of us, a lesson to always be vigilant. I'm likewise inclined to think this was not LEO but an adept scammer.

I'm traveling to Phx in a few weeks and planned to give him a whirl. Would be interested in any intel.....

No. I have a few friends I met on this board, we chat continually and have lunch Occasionally to share stories. It’s a good “outlet” we also learn from each other and have some laughs along the way too.

I have not seen him, I did send him a txt a few months ago with no reply.

I have not seen him, I did send him a txt a few months ago with no reply.

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I’ve connected with a handful of guys in either Grindr or scruff who were staying in the same hotel while traveling. A few I suspect were str8/married and looking for a quick BJ. I also met a guy on Grindr who after chatting a big said “I’m a scort baby”. After consummating the marriage I went back to my room and found him on RM.

So sad. So young. So hot.

Hogan!!!!!

My Grindr handle is DaddyDick. That's a conversation starter

Roger That @rogerG

There is a "fast acting" version of Viagra, I think it dissolves under your tongue. Not sure if this is avail as generic yet. BUT, chewing (yuck) does speed up the absorption. I've also heard you can dissolve in a small cup of water. Empty stomach helps a lot.

Love Hammam, sounds like I need to switch from Bellagio to Mandalay Bay

Recent experience with a bttm who couldn't/wouldn't perform. Happened to me once before (different provider). Since my goals for the visit were very clearly established, there should be some concession. In case #1 (2 yrs ago), I paid full and the guy had the nerve to HMU again a few weeks later. No concession was offered (in fact he was indignant that I did not find our meeting satisfactory) and I have never seem him again. In Case #2 (just last week) guy offered me a much reduced fee for much reduced service, which I accepted. Still won't see him again. You win some you lose some, but if you cannot meet the goals stated for the appt there needs to me some sort of concession made.

My "average" is once per month. If I travel for work I have more freedom and might go on a "spree". Boston has a pretty limited talent pool so I tend to wait for visitors or opportunities elsewhere. The train to NY can be as little as $78 RT which opens up some doors.