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Love Hammam, sounds like I need to switch from Bellagio to Mandalay Bay

Recent experience with a bttm who couldn't/wouldn't perform. Happened to me once before (different provider). Since my goals for the visit were very clearly established, there should be some concession. In case #1 (2 yrs ago), I paid full and the guy had the nerve to HMU again a few weeks later. No concession was offered (in fact he was indignant that I did not find our meeting satisfactory) and I have never seem him again. In Case #2 (just last week) guy offered me a much reduced fee for much reduced service, which I accepted. Still won't see him again. You win some you lose some, but if you cannot meet the goals stated for the appt there needs to me some sort of concession made.

My "average" is once per month. If I travel for work I have more freedom and might go on a "spree". Boston has a pretty limited talent pool so I tend to wait for visitors or opportunities elsewhere. The train to NY can be as little as $78 RT which opens up some doors.

Another term you can use or look for is "spoiled". If someone says in the profile they like/want to be spoiled they are looking for Gen, or you can say you like to spoil a guy.

I'll echo my friend Tarte, when my profile is "up" on Grindr, I'm amazed at all the Daddy love that comes my way from hot young guys. My circumstances don't allow me to host, and my schedule is really complicated so a pre-scheduled visit is what works best for me (Grindr is very "right now") so I rarely connect on Grindr but the "love" is infectious

Grindr will shut down your profile if you are being too obvious, or if a few guys "report" you

I have limited experience with Grindr myself, but a friend has a lot of luck and this describes his experience. Lots of young kids will meet for little money all the way up to guys who cross-market on RM and Grindr (even then their Grindr fee is less than RM).

So I'm a GL HWP guy, but let's face it....all the guys we are meeting with we are meeting with b/c they are HOT and probably otherwise unattainable. I think this is part of the equation - as a provider you need to expect you're meeting with clients of all types, looks, etc. I do think different providers have differing abilities to provide an outstanding experience to all, so worth doing your homework and being clear up front what you want from the experience. You are providing for an outstanding experience, you should expect nothing less.

Thanks for the feedback guys. AndrewK has been on my "watch list" for a long time, however we live and travel in very different geographies. I am planning to see him in November, and excited about it!

We should all look so good at 48

Bellagio hands down. Biggest spa I've ever been to, beautiful marble wet room. Free use of Gym & Spa if you get a massage. While not known for being cruisy, I did connect there once https://bellagio.mgmresorts.com/en/amenities/spa-fitness.html#/Gallery

While you said US.....nearby Montreal and Toronto also seem to have a a lot of talent . Miami / Ft Lauderdale as well.

Top, so sad

Hey gents, any experience or intel on this HOT AF young man? https://rent.men/Bttmbabe Thanks!

You forgot........ GINGER!

I went when I was 23 and had no idea what the event was about. BOY were my eyes opened wide!

GC is sublime

AY has been on my short list for awhile. Short muscular bottom? Boom!

I've never had an issue in hotels, and agree with @nycman hotels have "seen it all". I was traveling this week, called for extra towels (at a Marriott property BTW) and the housekeeper who delivered them said "have a good time" . As long as you're following hotel rules, and not being disruptive, what happens behind those closed doors is fair game. I'd be more worried about variability in law enforcement while traveling, that is whether locals are more inclined to set up a "sting" operation online, I would exercise extra caution screening and selecting your providers and doing a "sniff" test for vice.

Great reviews too about @tristanbaldwin who visits NYC regularly. I've not met him (2 tops just don't work LOL) but follow him. He has some non-porn vids posted on Twitter you can get a sense of his "vibe". Good luck, and deeply sorry for your loss....glad you are healing to a point you are looking to connect with others again, it's a good sign don't think for a minute otherwise.

search on here, mixed reviews (also check his RM reviews) so I have taken a "pass" (Boston guy here too)

Add Providence RI

Oliver. The Northeast corridor is an obvious choice. There is great train service between Boston NYC and Washington DC. I realize these are not smaller markets but each one is a “hub” to smaller local markets. For example Portland Maine provincetown Hartford CT and Albany NY are all pretty easy to reach from Boston. If you continue west from Albany you pick up western NY and then CHICAGO. Just a suggestion. Count me “in” for Boston ?

Hello all y’all, visiting KC next week and looking for recommendations, TIA - Jack

In smaller markets a lot of guys use Grindr looking for Gen-tlemen ?