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Each of need to do what makes us feel comfortable, based on our risk tolorance and what we feel is at stake. @final_impact these are all suggestions, do what you feel most comfortable with!

My advice: - establish a false name, NEVER give your real name - establish an email account based on that name used solely for this hobby - establish a google voice account to get a false phone number for txting used solely for this hobby - some only use encrypted chat (whatsapp is one), that's your call - meet in a neutral location, NEVER your home. Escorts place is OK if they are well reviewed. - tips are nice but not required. if you got the service, pay the rate. Tip if the experience was exceptional. - Never send pictures that can be "google image searched" to locate your facebook or instagram account (in other words, if you do send s pic it should be one you have not posted elsewhere) Pay attention to reviews and your "inner voice" when you interact with the provider. Good luck! Jack

Dayuse.com may also be an option

Hey gents, I chatted up @Ziya a bit, sweet young HANDSOME guy. Lets show him some LOVE

There are legal issues and liability associated with posting reviews which this site wants to avoid, see: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/please-no-escort-reviews-on-the-message-board.138667/

PS this is a result of "bottom shaming". Everyone claims to be 1-2 notches closer to "top".

Looking forward to your trip report, heading to PHX in a few weeks

I have my own personal decoder : Bottom = Super pig power bottom (dick=oxygen) Verse/Bottom = Bottom, will top rarely if the money is right Verse = Bottom, will top if they really have to Verse/Top = Truly verse, likes bottoming but its not their kryptonite Top = Top

JasMorgan is amaZing :phttps://rentmen.eu/JasMorgan

.....doesn't sound like "Fuck Yeah Daddy, pound my bussy you're hitting my spot!"

Agree with this, Dennis is a star

Hello, I am a strictly top client and lean heavily towards the Dom end of things (not necessarily kink, but def. in charge); I click best with Subs or submissive bottoms. When searching escorts, I generally exclude guys who list as Vers/Top, my interpretation of Verse/Top is "will bottom if I really have to". I find chemistry is best when the yin to my yang WANTS to be in the bottom bunk, craves it, loves the role they are playing, the sensation, and serving. Is my outlook here too limited? I'm not running out of opportunities BTW by limiting my search..... Thanks, Jack

I have see Mr X and he is.......scorching

So sad he's a top

So sorry for your loss, truly. LTR here too, and cannot imagine your pain. The dating/hooking up world has changed dramatically in 25 years. The world today seems clearly defined between transactional and relational connections. Escorts are purely transactional, and there is no expectation other than the time purchased. Grindr is highly transactaional - many guys are looking for hookups with NSA, there are a few exceptions but that's my read. If a Grindr connection results in something more, you are truly defying the odds. If you are looking for a relational connection, respectfully suggest trying other venues. Long story short, you should adjust your expectations re: M4M and Grinder. If you are looking for meaningful connections, there are other sites out there more oriented to that......give them a search. Depending on where you live you might also get involved in a social group, charity or other venue to meet new peeps. Despite all the great technology we have, in-person connections are still the most real and meaningful.....good luck my friend. Jack ;)

Really, cant you just wash your jockstraps in the sink?

Lets be honest, BB sex still carries a strong stigma in many circles. So even those who do, or may, may not be willing to state so publicly. Then there's the strict capitalism question: why say something that may limit your income? What I've heard is many guys who list safe will BB if you ask, and "ask me" is also a strong hint. Besides abstinence, the only safe thing is to assume everyone you come in contact is potentially infectious and manage your own behavior accordingly.

I contacted a provider recently for an overnight rate. He said 1200 and asked if I would send more info or pics of myself. After that the rate became 900.

There is such a thing as an "internal orgasm" experienced by bottoms. As a top I have never experienced one, but have been with others who have. I don't know the exact symptoms of the experience maybe some of our lower bunk dwellers can share that with us

https://pikdo.net/p/maddox_cade/1981066927226495790_7708019568

This picture is out of date. Cade Maddox was hot, but IMHO has become an over-built, veiny and 'roided-out...check out some of his recent pix or videos. If the 'roid look is your thing you will love him!

I have twice (deposit) once got burned the other was for an exceptional provider. So, it's a pretty strong no for me, with very exceptional exceptions

:p:p:p:p How have I missed him!?!? Spicy ginger goodness. I'll have to see how "verse" he can be.....

Money up front is a warning sign and a non starter for me. When meeting I will usually leave the money in a visible place so there are no questions but the money should not be touched until after.