lets go

I have a feeling if he's not really draping you well and your cock is popping out, he likes what he sees. Especially if he is stretching your legs and drape moves around and doesn't really cover you back up again.
Part of me feels like it could be awkward if you bluntly asked for release.
When I've worked on glutes and inner thighs, sometimes the guy has to adjust themselves to make themselves more comfortable. They would push their boner down and I would "accidentally" rub their cock while massaging their inner thigh.
And there are times where I do have to move cock and balls out of the way to get to a muscle. Maybe ask for work on these areas so it gives him an excuse to get more handsy. Guys notoriously have tight adductors. The highest one is the pectineus and you usually have to push the ball sack up to get to it's origin. Depending on how your boner is. Some guys point up so it's on the stomach. If that's the case, request abdominal massage which is therapeutically great (such a neglected part, usually never gets massaged) but I usually have to move a cock around to get to the lower abs.

He was the first person I contacted off MF (earlier this year - still a novice). Very nice experience. PM if you have any questions.

Also curious about DC. PM would be appreciated. Thx

Ouch! Guess I won't be going to Edison, NJ

No sex, but release, touching, and very sensual. Perhaps massaging all over including light glutes. Would really just like a great recommendation for a nice, sexy experience.

So who is your go-to (non therapeutic) therapist at Deluca ?

I am wondering as well. Will be in Boston in a couple of weeks and may want to check him out. Feel free to PM.

While doing some "masseur" shopping as I am apt to do. I ran across this pair on Rentmen. I (lord help me) I am tempted.
 
https://rent.men/massageguysteve
 
Please guys, talk me out of it. Listen I like my surf and turf but not at the same time!

Ok thanks. How did you get him to work shirtless? Did you ask or did he offer? Do you think there will be any chance of an HE the longer you go to see him? Assuming you are going to go back.

I think the second point *keep it causal and not creepy * is maybe the most important one. Don’t be that guy.
 
I also think not being aggressive about touching the therapist goes a long way also. If he is into that he will make sure he leans into you and postions his body so there can be some casual contact with his junk against your arm hand etc. Especially during the first few sessions. Just let things play out over a few sessions. Just my experience and YYMV.

If they are working on my inner thighs or abs then I usually get hard. Not a tell tale sign as I assume most guys do. Even those seeking strictly therapeutic work. Usually there may be an “accidentally “ bush up against my cock just to get a reaction. If you don’t react negatively I think they are more comfortable going farther next time. Just my experience of course.
 
I am 2 sessions in with a new therapist as we speak. Based one the last session I think my able 1 or 2 more and we will be there lol.

I am not a therapist but I would think you would have to go out of your way to brush up against a client with your cock or balls. I would think if you are doing a strictly therapeutic session your midsection wouldn’t get that close to the table. Once again i have only been a client and never performed a massage.
 
I only go to licensed therapists that advertise legit massage. In most all cases after a session or 2 there is some brushing against my hand or arms. I try and position my arm and hands towards the edge of the table for easy access just in case. Usually during the first couple of sessions there has been no brushing up against me which is why I think they have to go out of there way to do it. I almost every case after a few sessions you can feel them get a little more comfortable. I have had some guys just brush their cock , usually through there shorts or pants, against my arm or back of my hand. Sometimes I can’t tell, because I am on my stomach, if it is their cock or just their leg. But as the session goes on they will get semi hard or in a couple of cases a full hard on so there is no guess work needed. Lol. Most of the time it doesn’t lead to anything additional and when I turn over on my back the session just continued as normal. I think some guys , and who doesn’t, enjoy the feeling of rubbing your hard or semi hard cock against a guy without the pressure of it turning into anything more.
 
Most of the guys have provided a HE at some point but that also takes a session or two to build a trust and comfort level. If discovered or performed on the wrong person can lead to them losing their license or worse.
 
Just my experience of course.

I am not a therapist but I would think you would have to go out of your way to brush up against a client with your cock or balls. I would think if you are doing a strictly therapeutic session your midsection wouldn’t get that close to the table. Once again i have only been a client and never performed a massage.
 
I only go to licensed therapists that advertise legit massage. In most all cases after a session or 2 there is some brushing against my hand or arms. I try and position my arm and hands towards the edge of the table for easy access just in case. Usually during the first couple of sessions there has been no brushing up against me which is why I think they have to go out of there way to do it. I almost every case after a few sessions you can feel them get a little more comfortable. I have had some guys just brush their cock , usually through there shorts or pants, against my arm or back of my hand. Sometimes I can’t tell, because I am on my stomach, if it is their cock or just their leg. But as the session goes on they will get semi hard or in a couple of cases a full hard on so there is no guess work needed. Lol. Most of the time it doesn’t lead to anything additional and when I turn over on my back the session just continued as normal. I think some guys , and who doesn’t, enjoy the feeling of rubbing your hard or semi hard cock against a guy without the pressure of it turning into anything more.
 
Most of the guys have provided a HE at some point but that also takes a session or two to build a trust and comfort level. If discovered or performed on the wrong person can lead to them losing their license or worse.
 
Just my experience of course.

Of the more than a dozen licensed , therapeutic therapists I have been to all but 2 have provided a HE at some point. Some took longer than others . All advertised as legit therapeutic places. One worked at a chiropractor office and a couple others worked out of legit massage places. Maybe I have just been luckily. I sometimes take it as a challenge....lol

I tip either way. A little more if they just work there and a little less if they are the owner. Just letting them know you enjoyed and “approved” of the session.

I think the second point *keep it causal and not creepy * is maybe the most important one. Don’t be that guy.
 
I also think not being aggressive about touching the therapist goes a long way also. If he is into that he will make sure he leans into you and postions his body so there can be some casual contact with his junk against your arm hand etc. Especially during the first few sessions. Just let things play out over a few sessions. Just my experience and YYMV.

I tip either way. A little more if they just work there and a little less if they are the owner. Just letting them know you enjoyed and “approved” of the session.

I think the second point *keep it causal and not creepy * is maybe the most important one. Don’t be that guy.
 
I also think not being aggressive about touching the therapist goes a long way also. If he is into that he will make sure he leans into you and postions his body so there can be some casual contact with his junk against your arm hand etc. Especially during the first few sessions. Just let things play out over a few sessions. Just my experience and YYMV.

I would say the average is around 2 to 5 sessions. After the first couple of sessions I think you can get a good idea how it will progress. The draping gets a little more relaxed, they start to do more work on glutes, inner thighs, going lower on the abs over time. After a few sessions I may mention that I am fine without draping if it is easier for them.
 
I have never been upsold as they are all legit places and it just happens naturally. The key is just to act normally as you interact with him in the common area of the place where there may be other people and coworkers around. They have to know you won’t expose them. Most times if it leads to a HE neither one of us will talk about it and pretend it didn’t happen. It can be interesting to have a guy jerk you off and then shortly after you are standing with him at the receptionist paying and making your next appointment. Both of you know what just happened but no one else has a clue.

I always tip, and in direct proportion to my pleasure with the service. I just feel like it's the right thing to do.

I think the second point *keep it causal and not creepy * is maybe the most important one. Don’t be that guy.
 
I also think not being aggressive about touching the therapist goes a long way also. If he is into that he will make sure he leans into you and postions his body so there can be some casual contact with his junk against your arm hand etc. Especially during the first few sessions. Just let things play out over a few sessions. Just my experience and YYMV.

I have to echo the same as @lets go - I have had dozens of legit masseurs who after a few sessions have gotten a little more handsy.
 
I think there's a few factors:

I always tip very well.
I keep it casual and not creepy or trying to get a HE.
I'm a big leaker so I'm certain I've left wet spots on the sheet and the draping.
I have a pretty big dick that's hard to ignore when hard. (Except for when they use a like 50-pound blanket type sheet or drape so tight you can barely move.)

If they are working on my inner thighs or abs then I usually get hard. Not a tell tale sign as I assume most guys do. Even those seeking strictly therapeutic work. Usually there may be an “accidentally “ bush up against my cock just to get a reaction. If you don’t react negatively I think they are more comfortable going farther next time. Just my experience of course.
 
I am 2 sessions in with a new therapist as we speak. Based one the last session I think my able 1 or 2 more and we will be there lol.

Of the more than a dozen licensed , therapeutic therapists I have been to all but 2 have provided a HE at some point. Some took longer than others . All advertised as legit therapeutic places. One worked at a chiropractor office and a couple others worked out of legit massage places. Maybe I have just been luckily. I sometimes take it as a challenge....lol

I would say the average is around 2 to 5 sessions. After the first couple of sessions I think you can get a good idea how it will progress. The draping gets a little more relaxed, they start to do more work on glutes, inner thighs, going lower on the abs over time. After a few sessions I may mention that I am fine without draping if it is easier for them.
 
I have never been upsold as they are all legit places and it just happens naturally. The key is just to act normally as you interact with him in the common area of the place where there may be other people and coworkers around. They have to know you won’t expose them. Most times if it leads to a HE neither one of us will talk about it and pretend it didn’t happen. It can be interesting to have a guy jerk you off and then shortly after you are standing with him at the receptionist paying and making your next appointment. Both of you know what just happened but no one else has a clue.