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  1. Just revisited King Spa in Niles, IL. They have taken the benches out of the steam room. They've also put up a sign that says something to the effect that you will be asked to leave if you take multiple showers or take too many trips to the steam room. The locker room attendant wears a vest that says "Security " on it.

     

    King Spa has never been particularly cruisy, but it seems downright hostile now.

  2. Please read the book and then see the movie again and you might appreciate why those of us who love Isherwood think Ford should apologize. It's only positive, I guess, is that it proved one can die from good taste (I stole that from a friend).

    I agree wholeheartedly. If Tom Ford wants to write his own original story he should do so, instead of manipulating someone else's art to the point where it is unrecognizable.

     

    On its own, A Single Man was a fairly good film, but it wasn't a filmed version of the book I read many years ago!

  3. I lost, very slowly too, about 30 pounds a couple of years ago. Began to walk every day, ate more protein, but very little red meat, hardly any sugar, egg whites, only one yolk, and tried to eat foods that were low on the glycemic index. Carbs are my worst enemy. Always have craved them. Found some whole wheat/grain pastas, gave up french fries, potato chips, or any form of potatoes. Two years later, skipped some days walking, occasionally would order fries with meal, or occasionally buy chips, and cook white pasta. Put back on about 15 pounds. You'll need to find a way to make eating habits a permanent change, not something temporary with the only goal to just to loose weight at this moment.

    Agree with everything but the egg whites. Studies have shown (like how vague that is?) that it is better to eat the whole egg than just the whites.

    5 years ago I was obese and my general health was very bad. After a major weight-related health care, I made eating well my first priority, sleeping enough my second priority and moderate exercise my third priority. Today I am more fit than ever. I'm in my 50's and have been told that I have the body of a 25 year old. I was fortunate to have lost the weight slowly and sensibly enough to not have any excess skin hanging around. I had to be patient - I lost the weight in stages over the course of 2 years, and continue to sculpt my frame.

     

    Think of it this way - eating is the most important thing that you will do today and everyday. It makes sense to plan your meals. Know what you're going to eat for your next meal before you finish your last meal. If you know how to cook, great. If you don't know how to cook, learn. Don't rely on prepared foods, most of which are high in sodium, fat and preservatives. Simple foods are all you need at first (poached chicken, baked fish, grilled steaks, plus salads and healthy soups) until you develop your skills. Keep healthy snacks on hand and have scheduled times to eat them. There's a lot more, but know that you CAN do it. Visualize yourself in shape and you can get there.

     

    One thing few speak about is the psychological difficulties you might encounter on the way down. The crap in your gut can send negative messages to your brain "You'll never do this," and "Feed me," are two frequent messages you'll get. Hold on to your vision and drink water when you get cravings.

     

    If you're on a lot of meds for weight-related conditions, find a doctor who will help you wean yourself off of the meds. If your doctor doesn't get that the meds are not helping you long term, get a new doctor.

     

    One last side benefit - hard body usually means bigger, harder dicks! Just something to think about.

     

    We can all be our best selves!

  4. I cannot watch Neil Patrick Harris at all. I don't get why/how he has become the Number One Gay In The World. I don't like his looks or his swagger and his singing voice is nails on a chalkboard. A few years ago there was a filmed performance of Sondheim's Company, one of my favorites. NPH was Bobby. I thought "I can put up with him." Nope. I couldn't. I know that many of you will disagree with me, but I will never understand the appeal of this guy.

  5. I heard some stories about Ricky swinging both ways. I don't know if they're true, but my old boss/friend/lover was around the same age and grew up in LA. He told me something about Ricky being very well hung and someone eating pineapple rings off of his cock. Might be legend, but it's a nice thought!

  6. https://rent.men/Phil_MEUP

     

    Phil is cute and sexy. He reminds me of a cross between my 8th grade teacher and my sexy former boss, so I'd potentially be fulfilling 2 fantasies at once,

     

    To me, however, he gives off a straight vibe. His orientation is listed as "Ask Me."

     

    Also, he's into PNP, which I don't quite understand (I know that it has something to do with drugs), but it scares me.

     

    Finally, his name Phil_MEUP implies (to me at least) that he would bottom, but he talks about topping only.

     

    Anyone with experience.

     

    Thanks!

  7. Joe charges extra for the extra though. The massage was good but I only booked for 60 mins. I felt like he kept pushing me to extend to 90 mins. And told me he could take off his jocks and is ok with mutual touching for extra $

    I did book 90 minutes but was not charged for extras. Maybe the extras "come" with 90 minutes.

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