MxB

On 4/25/2023 at 5:49 AM, FrankR said:

I mainly hire for massages - which is cheaper than escorts. I classify it as “Wellness” in my budgeting tool.  Total annual expense is less than 5% of my gross income. My rule is that I have to meet basic expenses, max out funding my 401k, IRA and HSA before I can spend on wellness.  If a year’s wellness spending exceeded 1% of my net worth, I would be worried.  That is my 2c

Interesting angle.

My MENtal Health (love that term!) spending is typically a bit more than 3% of my monthly income.  Annualized, though, it's less than a quarter of a percent of my net worth, so I guess it's sustainable.  Besides, spending that money helps me manage the stresses that accompany the career that provides the current monthly income and accumulation of that net worth.  I spend far more on far stupider things.  🙂

13 hours ago, RadioRob said:

I’m glad it’s starting to work for you. Like I suspected, it’s something unique in your configuration. I’m not sure if your router is caching some requests or if using a different browser triggered something with your ISP to update. However at the end of the day it does not really matter if it’s working. 🙂

Hopefully everything will stay stable for you. 

Back to not working in Chrome but working fine in Edge.  Maybe I'll just use Edge for this site while I investigate further, using your suggestions.

9 hours ago, RadioRob said:

This error code specifically relates to CSRF protection saying the expected security hash does not match what was presented by your browser.  

There are a couple of things that I can think of that would cause this:

1. A bad browser session cookie. One way to test this would be to use a different browser like Chrome or Firefox and seeing if it happens when using a different browser. If not, it’s something browser specific and if it only happens in that browser, I would start by clearing cookies and temporary internet files. 

2. You’re using some sort of ad blocker or something that intercepts requests to modify them. If this is the case try disabling it temporarily to see if it fixes the problem. 

I have not seen any other complaints regarding CSRF errors so I’m pretty confident this is not a widespread server issue.  The question is what is unique about how you’re accessing the site that is causing your problem. 

My default browser is Chrome, so I tried Edge.  The first couple of forums I marked as read worked fine in Edge.  I went back to Chrome and was able to successfully mark a couple of other forums as read.  Not sure what fixed what, but I'll be curious to see how things go on my next visit with Chrome.

14 hours ago, MxB said:

Is anyone else having trouble with the site?  When I try to mark a forum or the site as "Read", I get an error message.

I *am* logged in but this is still problematic for me.

Error screen is as follows:

Sorry, there is a problem
Something went wrong. Please try again.
Error code 2S119/1

Below that is a button labeled "Contact Us".  I tried that a couple of times but got no response.

Is anyone else having trouble with the site?  When I try to mark a forum or the site as "Read", I get an error message.

I very much liked my job, but had significant health issues. My dad died young (age 53,) and never had a retirement

My mother and two close friends of mine died at age 53. That taught me to have a good time along the way.

I should be able to retire comfortably around 66 to 68. If I didn't do some of the things I'd done, it might have been sooner, but I've had a blast doing things that made me happy....for example, graduating from one nice car to two nice cars to three.

Original poster here. He texted me this morning: "Hey there sorry about last night I got stuck helping a friend with something"

No explanation as to why he couldn't take 15 seconds to text me and let me know he couldn't make it.

https://rentmen.eu/RobSaint

After a great chat yesterday morning on RM, I arranged to meet him at 8:00 last night.

I live in the suburbs so it's typically a 45-minute drive into the city. Before leaving home, at 7 PM, I texted him (phone + RM) to confirm. No response. I started the drive anyway. At 7:13, I received this: "Maybe 8:30". I responded that I would stop for a cup of coffee and see him at 8:30. No response.

I texted at 8:27 to let him know I was in the area looking for parking. No response. Ended up seeing someone else.

According to his profile, next stops are Chicago and NY. Beware.

Any insights to share? He sure looks sexy!

https://rentmen.eu/BodyTooBody/

I had him to my home several months ago. Lots of drama arranging transportation. He either didn't have a vehicle or couldn't drive so I had to figure out where his "friend" could wait. The session was barely adequate. He was in and out in under 40 minutes.

Steer clear.

I'll chime in with another "sensory overload" comment.

I haven't had many 4-handed massages. Still, the few times I've done it, I discovered that I prefer just one masseur so I can focus on enjoying what's happening. For me, I didn't like having to split my attention to two areas.

You know about the doctor who saved all the tips, sewed them together, tanned them, and used it to craft a wallet? When you rub it, it grows into a suitcase.

Any insights to share -- good or bad?

https://rentmasseur.com/LeoMillan

Amazing body and sexy af in that jock! But his face is blurred in the pics on his RM profile...handsome?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think he's a very handsome man, and if you like facial hair, his beard is perfection.

Amazing body and sexy af in that jock! But his face is blurred in the pics on his RM profile...handsome?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I think he's a very handsome man, and if you like facial hair, his beard is perfection.

Met him today. The massage was adequate, but only 45 minutes. He's well-equipped, but I don't think he's as gifted as his ad claims. (Full disclosure -- I was not carrying a ruler!)

It wasn't a disaster, but I would probably not see him again.

I met him when he was in Boston a few months ago. If ever he returns, I will definitely schedule time with him. He had techniques I'd never experienced, and it was well worth it.

Member since March 2017 and not ONE review? Hmmmm....

And my apologies -- since the ad is on RMasseur, this probably should have been in The Spa, not The Deli. (Moderators, should it be moved, or is it okay here?)

Interesting reactions. (I put up the original post.)

The thing that I noticed (I think!) is that the faces in the shots seem to be a little different. Close, but not the same.

Intriguing new ad. Anybody seen him or know about him?

He's been a member for about six weeks. No reviews. The pictures are impressive.

https://rentmasseur.com/Masso_Reiki

RE: his ad on RentMasseur, but it still applies here. Maybe even more.

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/https-rentmasseur-com-eastcoastmuscle.152516/#post-1796444

Bummer...another good one no longer available.

StrongPower retired earlier this year. Two very different but really great guys.

Interesting. WallStreetWolf joined today. He was so compelled by the massage that he ran right out, joined up, and wrote positive reviews.

He and PigBottom (who joined 10 days ago) did the same in The Spa.

Thief.

I had arranged a session with him. The day of the session he called to cancel, claiming to be under the weather. He called back a day or two later to reschedule, said he'd moved to different accommodations, couldn't host, but would get a hotel. Asked me to send him $150 to seal the deal and help pay for the hotel. After I did (I know - dumb. Thinking with the wrong head), he said he was still sick, would return the money. After that, I never heard from him again, even after many messages from me.

Avoid avoid avoid.